5 Sneaky Tricks Good Men Use to See If You Are THE ONE for Him

Hey Fam,

Unbeknownst to you...we have our ways of seeing if you are the one for us. In this video, I'll give you my 5 sneaky tricks good men use to see if you are the one for him. I gotta admit, it's hard detecting if someone if the perfect match for you, even a good one. Sometimes you get into a relationship or date someone and everything is going perfect...until it doesn't. But there are some signs that can help you see if he or she will be there for you in the long haul. The 5 tricks I describe in this video helps us determine if you are the right one for us.

Peace & Blessings to you,
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[Couriee]

At the end of the day. Action speaks louder than words. SHOW ME that I'm THE ONE!

[CoachDeBora]

Bottom line, when a woman loves a man...his presence is EVERYTHING to us. All those added things, like expensive gifts and fine dining, are icing on the cake. But HE is the cake.

[lovebyrika]

They'll do all that testing you and still cheat on you 😂😂😂😂

[kresivarivkah]

My husband did not test me. We met through another married couple. We must remember ladies that all men are different. 🌻🤗No one voice is the voice of all people.

[carolinelaronda]

If a man tests me and I find out, they just failed my one test . Don’t test me . It’s insulting .

[leah-]

Y'all dont get it...we should ALL be "testing" the people we date. It's a vetting process to see who makes the cut, who's compatible, who holds the same mindset and values that you do. So many women are so desperate to get a man and get a ring on their finger, they're ready to commit to any dude that treats them decent, and ignore the red flags that come along with him. It should takes months of dating someone before you know him well enough to even consider committing to him. And for all of you saying men aren't the prize...why do you want one so badly then? A GOOD man is the prize.

[branighabrewer]

1. Test you by saying things to see your reaction.
2. Will share the darkest/ hardest/sensitive of thoughts/emotions to see how you handle it
3. Bring you around his best friends
4. Cheap/ thrifty dates or gifts
5. Bring you around his family

[krystaldee]

I don’t like how wanting gifts is seen as “being materialistic”. There’s such a thing as having gift giving as a love language. It could be something small, doesn’t have to be expensive.

[vrichards]

I like failing these tests on purpose. A clown that tests me is just not the man for me. I'm good on my own. ✌️

[msbren]

The definition of a good man is one who will communicate his goals, desires, concerns, and faults. The same is true with a good woman. The main issue I see with relationships today is a sense of importance over the other person: my needs matter, and you should meet them. Maybe we'll address yours, but me first. There's also this weird conception that a person is meant to be dependent on themselves while also cultivating a partnership with another person, which is a complete contradiction to the point. We gotta stop treating relationships like Monopoly and start seeing them like Jenga: sometimes it's shaky, sometimes it's solid, sometimes the bricks fall, but we build them back up and start over again.

[Iamjasmine_nichole]

Great content. I also think it's important to realize great men will be intentional and not play these games of trying to “test” a woman. While good men will “test”, I believe great men will take a more direct approach.

[lexiejones]

Here's my advice y'all : don't date someone who test you! this is what I noticed when men test women in the dating stage, most of the times even in marriage they'll test you and still not trust you. I have seen how one member in my family got tested so much by her husband that it caused a lot of issues in the marriage. He would control her, suspect her of cheating, and even abused her verbally and physically.

So don't do it. This while testing thing shows that you don't trust your partner and trust is one of the fundamental in any given relationships. If you have to test me while we're dating, then you're not the person that I would like to spend the rest of my life with you. Boy bye.

[SheIsNaimah]

The test on both sides is allowing them to show you who they are! Over time, getting to know one another without expectations is the test.

[BoldlyFlourish]

Hey bro! Love it 🥰. as I was watching I was like "hmmm... how do women test if HE's the one?" I came up with a few 😂, ready? --> 1️⃣ We may show you ourselves not done up, scarf/bonnet on our head, makeup-less, dress down, maybe even weave out (if she wears it) - oooh, the reaction to this matters. (Sis, if he can’t handle you in your bonnet he’s not worthy of your twist out 😂👌🏾👌🏾) 2️⃣ We may watch how you treat your family. "Is he super condescending to his mom? beyond rude to his sister?" (naaahh sis, soon that may be you!) 3️⃣ If we feel like we the one doing all the chasing, we may just go mute for a little 🤷🏾‍♀️, we trying to see if it's all in our head or if you do reach out & connect with us even when we aren’t doing it 1st. (Sounds like games yeah, but I mean, how do you know unless you know 🤪😂🤷🏾‍♀️)  and this one is a big one --> 4️⃣ We may tell you about our trauma. Things that happened to us as kids, or experiences that hurt us/shape us. A guy that handles this poorly, or uses it against you later…. 🙊🙁 no sis, just no. (😂😂 how’d I do bro?)

[rickimcfarland]

I dated a man last year who tested me while out in public. It was the most disgusting thing I had ever experienced. I lost all respect for him. My ovaries were screaming RUUUUN, and so I did.

[anonymousprivet]

It saddens me when I see that these males think this is the way to go. No wonder dating life is difficult now. A genuine woman will walk away as soon as she smells a game. Many guys chase away the one for the tolerant due to this level of foolishness. It just isn't the same thing.

It's foolish to insinuate that a woman is just a potential baby maker for you. Also, what lady with her goals, career, and aspirations on point would deal with a guy always telling her that he is too broke to date her properly? What does that say for their future when real life issues manifest themselves? The men I have grown around don't carry their egos on satin pillows. Rejection is a part of life and the masses aren't waiting to stand around to pamper an over protected super sensitive person.

[DolphinsPlayingInAquaMoonlight]

If it's the real deal, no one will find the need to test each other. It will just flow naturally and feel right. There will be open and honest conversations, you'll feel comfortable in each other's presence, and you will feel a sense of mutual understanding on a deeper level. To try and test the other would feel like muddying something pure and sacred.

[paradiselivinginpurpose]

His actions must match his words. PERIODTH.

[eso]

I was there for him in his hardest times and not even thank you came out of his mouth but rather pushed me away. I hope he will realize he lost a good woman.

[MtHopeAntiques]

So weird, I am so glad I don't have to deal with games, I'm just blunt and to the point, if we have a connection and can Communicate then I'll stick around, No games or testing needed, if it doesn't come naturally see ya! Screw your communication issues; get over it and grow up! We are in this together and learning together