Do You Ever Feel Like People Are Talking About You Behind Your Back?

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Are people talking behind your back? I have this little problem: I tend to think that people are talking about me behind my back. It’s totally paranoid and ridiculous, but I wanted to know if I was alone. We all had the horrible feeling of being hurt when you discover that someone was talking about you behind your back.

Do you have the same paranoia as me? Leave your comments in the section below, I'd love to hear from you.
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ScienceOfPeople
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I know people are talking and avoiding me at all times.

bluemarvel
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I can tell, REALLY TELL, if someone is talking about me in a malicious way when I'm not there. (They're the type that does the same thing to other people, which raises a big red flag)

mars
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Always trust your gut if you feel they talk about you they do. I felt this way so I decided to place hiden camera and guess what I WAS RIGHT

simonpetkov
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I never gossip. I find gossip so annoying. But I'm well aware when people start gossiping, of me behind my back.

mariamistretta
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Everyone will talk about you even though you portray a good image in front of others either negatively or positively.You cannot control the words they will spit out of their mouths.However, distancing yourself away from this people or act in contrary to the things they accused of you will make a difference.

marlondominiquecustodio
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Takeaway: it's normal. Sometimes, people *do* indeed say things (positive, negative or neutral) behind the backs of others. The problem is when those back-talking people project their own issues onto others and wrongly criticize or insult innocent people. The more society condones this bad behavior, the worse things become and the more potential for conflict.

FirstLast-cdvv
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People always talk behind my back. It's always get me upset.

pinklotus
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Why would you say "paranoia" if its true?! People have always talked about me behind my back! Lots of people, even when i had no clue!

mist__
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Yeah, i might be diffrent but i don't care what people say bc it's not a reflection of me. Its an ultimate reflection of them. You understand lol

Nino-bucx
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I know people are talking behind my back, I hear them say horrible stuff about me and they make sure they say it extra loud when I’m near by.

wintershock
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I feel like ppl are talking about me laughing about me....judging at me, saying that I'm weird, ugly.

lunaplayzyandere
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I think people can worry to the extreme. I think if you care too much what other people think it forces you to be deceptive. Or put on a act, to be accepted.

alcudiababe
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People did talk be hide my back becaus e I heard it. Snakes ! All of them . people r snake

MandyGood
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People talking about you, probably talking bad about yourself is a great SIGN that they are not happy with what they have, otherwise they wouldn't be judging you.

:) Smile and be positive about this, you have something that they are talking about you.

sparkijonas
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The only thing *worse* than people talking about you behind your back is *no one* talking about you.

plerpplerp
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Just think about it this way, if they are talking about you. It means you are someone they care about, envy or jealous. You are doing something better than them. They are trying to bring you down if it's a negative comment. If you are doing worse than them they wouldn't even care about you let alone talk about you.

plyoung
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For me, I feel like people entertain themselves by talking negative and flaws of me

orlanz
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I rarely gossip or talk about other people behind their back. It’s incredibly annoying.

Jean-unor
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No, I don't feel like people are talking about me behind my back, I know when they are. Our internal compass knows when someone doesn't like us or is talking bad about us. I just tell people the truth weather they want to hear it or hear about it or not. When I talk about negative things that people have done or said about me, I expose it and expose them because then they recognize I hear them, and really don't care to be around them anymore.

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