My Boyfriend's Friends Don't Like Me- What Should I Do?

The real question is- should you even be with him if he doesn't stick up for you? Diann Valentine, Jenni Pulos, and Ta'Rhonda Jones give a fan some advice.

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[lilmakori]

Ta'Rhonda is right, that is not her man. Whether his friends like her or not isn't important. If you like her than that's all that should matters. But the fact that he's letting his friends talk to you any type of way is a sign that he doesn't care. Leave him sis.

[dancelife]

The boyfriend is probably talking about her to his friends

[niaadent]

The worst is when his friends talk negative and put the idea in his head to date other people or try to set him up with someone else.

It really hurts to hear especially when you love his friends as your own.

[MegaCadette]

umm why is this even a question? girl, GET OUT!

[pofy]

I had that happened to me, he never defended me either and guess what.... after I left him those same friends were in my DM acting all thirsty smh

[haveleneqabbott]

I agree with them your man is supposed to defend you and put his friends in their place.

[localone]

Yeah he's done something to make it ok for them to talk negatively about her. A man should not let friends or family talk dad about this woman. Any woman should not let friends or family talk about her man.

[thecamillepalma]

I've experienced this and this just so painful especially when I made an effort to reach out to them. I've seen their comments about me and my boyfriend did not defend me :(
It created a huge impact on my self esteem and it's been 4 years now but I'm still in the process of healing. 💔

[Chaptersaudio]

1:31 Spot on Steve!  Exactly. If you don't STAND for something, you will FALL for anything. You women need to develop standards when it comes to men and stick to those standards. There are going to come times when you will meet one that will make you rethink those standards, but trust and believe, the universe will ALWAYS bring you back to the correct mindset. She should say goodbye to this boy.

[DukeBlueDevilFan]

It’s best to be a lone wolf instead of a popular sheep

[maylynbayani]

My husband's female bestfriend didnt like me. He put his foot down and said he loves me and will not tolerate anything that will be said againts me.

[UnyikQueen]

Love it Steve. Your boyfriend should have took up for you.

[christinehaigh]

Bird that flock together stick together.

[brooklynforever]

Why are so many of these young girls and women lost? The questions they ask sometimes are so elementary.

[Ravenex]

I'd let him know this relationship goes no further unless he deals with his friends' inappropriate behavior. Nothing about this is OK and for a guy to let his friends crack jokes on his weak and pathetic.

[adrianavalenzuela]

lmaoo i blocked all of my boyfriend's friends and he chooses to hang out with me over them all the time. I WON

[VP]

I think people aren't listening to what she said and how she said it. From what she asked, she hasn't told her boyfriend his friends are being rude or saying things. She doesn't wanna come between him and his friends, meaning she didn't say anything. If she did tell him and he did nothing she wouldn't be here asking Steve any kind of question.

[anquanettewashington]

First of all... We As Women are Queens never let anyone, boy friend his friends treat you like that always set your standards High and if he doesn't respect how you feel leave his ASS

[autobotdiva]

what boyfriend, you mean "him downstairs?" lmaooo

[frank_love]

NO NO NO NO NO!
Ok did you all hear her question at all? She never said her boyfriend was present whiles these things were going on. She said she recently met her boyfriends friends and they cracked jokes on her and left rude comments on her Facebook blah blah blah. No where did she mention that the guy was present or knew anything about it. This could have happened anywhere.What she wants to know is : How she should talk to her boyfriend about it without coming between her boyfriend and his friends.