Why Men See INDEPENDENCE As Masculine

[RhondaR]

Stephan always speaks the truth.🔥
I was pushed into the position at a young age. I don’t like it! I want to tap into my whole femininity.🙏🏽

[pocahontas]

Ummm some of us, probably many are not independent by choice. So what are we supposed to do just be homeless and raggedy because it’ll supposedly make us seem more feminine and more able to attract a man? I can’t imagine how being homeless and funky would be attractive….

[tanyawalker]

So true. I am working on myself thanks for the messages.

[iamniambishele]

im ALWAYS a damsel in distress… GOOD DISTRESS if you will. NO BAGGAGE from prior relationships. NO children! Fortunately i have EVOLVED which is a key word. I was toxic DEPENDENT. *using my masculinity to make my partner act right. NOW i am full on in my Feminine by exhibiting my RECEPTIVITY and MAINTAINING what i receive from Divine! Loving self first is the key and evryone wants to SKIP that part OR love themselves from vanity OR ego. I had to drop all that and humble myself to truly walk in my POWER! Yop. Damsel in distress like a blown light bulb will just take me out OR this trash is way too heavy for my fingers to handle but independent. I will never claim that a man is not needed. Divine Feminine meets Divine Masculine ❤💙

[DrMargoLomaxD]

I am currently single and very independent woman after a decades long marriage. This young man recentlt came into my life and I decided to not talk myself out of and receive all the truly sweet energy he was sending my way. Well I found myself cooking for him. I told him I had not cooked for a man in y.e.a.r.s. Cooking for me is an act of love for me and I had not been so inspired in a long time. It's been only two weeks with this young man but he has been so consistent in his communication & care of me and taking care of things for me, fixing my car, bringing me food and coffee that I needed but didn't ask him for that I have now made him TWO home cooked meals for me. Feeling safe and pampered and therefore naturally exuding so much feminine energy.

[MyForeverPerson]

You know what I am tired of? I’m tired of everything that I am supposedly doing wrong, all these rules, things that men think of me even when I’m trying to be the best human being possible on this earth.

I came into this world alone and will leave alone.
Im so over these type of videos that pop up literally EVERYWHERE.

Everyone is literally not good enough today but then tomorrow yes then the next day no
It’s annoying.

God loved me for me.

[QueenRae]

I just said that to somebody today, these others get to sit on there butts getting taken cared for while us “independent” woman have to be taken on the responsibility, I cannot wait for no man to help, damsel in distressed seems to be liked more than a Queen who actually is taken care of her responsibilities😅 No wins, 🤔 smh

[jenniferarzadon]

ow 💯true thank you so much stephan i need to hear this

[lenb]

Most girls do not have a father around and that girl grows watching only a Mother grind.. fast forward, a young woman is in the world - all while knowing she has to build on her own

[nevergiveyouupbjcaldwell]

You're exactly right Thank you for the wisdom🙏❤

[jesuslittlegirl]

AMEN 🙏✝️🙌☺️🤗😊HALLELUJAH GLORY TO GOD 🙌 ✝️ 🙏 👏 ☺️ 😁

[judi.]

I understand and agree with so much AND at the same time- What are you to do, be pure feminine, give up independence and see who shows up? I have accomplished so much, I do honor (real) men, know good men and believe women do have a role. Honestly though - I don’t think I’d have as much if I waited on a man or anyone else for that matter. I’d have a hard time being dependent and almost waiting on someone else to be happy? I’m missing something. there’s got to be a a balance so we can be great together.

[nadiaoak]

In a relationship neither of you is independent. This isn’t about gender. Cooperation is required by both.

[safrinasafrina]

I know tell me about it. My feminine rules, singletons is my life. :-/ I'll be 40 in some months, Lord please help me. Thank you. Preach it brother, truth to it all.

[tolulopechristiana]

Well I cannot but help to be independent as a lady cos I had an absent father who works but sends money home to my mom. I practically watched my mum run it all....I feel most secure that way 🤷🤷🤷

[irmabryant]

This is crazy. Independence is ok if brother man is looking for $$$ but if not, it’s a problem?

[janisdunbarakasugarlips]

I don't want to tell my Life Story I started already

[janisdunbarakasugarlips]

I have to not just be in the room now I want you in the front I just don't have a support system

[carmolina]

Well independent is better than waiting on another human to give and they may not ever want to give you the way you can give yourself. Or what about if the provider stops providing…I don’t agree with this video I’m extremely feminine!