Midlife Crisis How Not To Be a Wife Doormat

Midlife Crisis: When he has an affair, how to get him home.
My client says 3 things that I answer:
1) I find it so hard to let myself be devalued by someone who I gave my entire life to.
2) If he came home, I don’t know if I could even ever look at him.
3) I don’t know if I have it in me to fight for this.

Everything that happens in your life is because​ YOU decide so.
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[t-pain]

I couldn't hang in there. My ex-wife (36F) cheated on me with a guy last December, and at the same time was cheating on me with your 22F daycare worker. They now live together in my old house and are raising the kids.

[smokingcrab]

I see so many videos standing up for women, yet in real life I see so many relationships where men are utterly abused by women and no one cares. The man then will stand up for himself, his needs, his boundaries, and she will weaponize his feelings against him, play the vicitim, and use her own weakness as a weapon to gaslight him and have as much leverage over him as possible.

[peggyoverbaugh]

This is exactly what I'm going through it's hard as hell to deal with my husband of 32 yrs married 41 yrs together the way he talks to me I can't take it. It's hard to try and cut someone you love out of your thoughts

[inserter]

Hi how do I get my wife to reconnect to the relationship, she is in midlife crisis and now want a divorce. she is cold and distant, I have tried giving her space but this just make us more disconnected but if I get clouser to her she just pushes me away. is it a case of hanging on in there ? or time to walk away.I still deeply care and love her. I am being supportive, helping with jobs around the house, kids, shopping, doing all I can. What can I

[laszlo]

My Wife left us after 17y marriage, and she left behind 3 teenagers. Midlife crisis sucks.
She don't care of anything right now other then her self.
will I let her come back? Don't think its going to work she is a traitor in my eyes.
I can understand if she don't love me anymore or if some "new Man" can be more interesting, but no Woman should leave Children's behind.
now She is renting a room and not willing to talk about solution she only repeat her selves so she is looking for some answers and she don't love anyone right now.

[anid]

Experts do not make excuses for cheaters! More like devils advocate.🤔

[morgan]

What if they have filled for divorce I keep fighting for my family but he says there’s no coming back

[anthonytorres]

Does this also mean my wife will
Eventually come home?

[johnsteiner]

Do you help out men who's wife's are going through midlife crisis?