WHY 50/50 RELATIONSHIPS WILL NEVER WORK! #shorts #dating #love

[niku]

50/50 doesn't end at bills. Doing stuff at home becomes 50/50 too.

[RajeevNandiMusic]

A marriage is never a 50/50 . Its a 100/100. Period.

[MansherKapoor]

Half of the women don't even want children

[dwaynebastiany]

For one, you are bringing the assumption that children are involved.
Two, you are assuming that if he does want an even split, that he is not willing to take on the chores along with you.
Most men will ask for 50/50 if they don’t make enough to comfortably cover all living expenses for the home.
If he is working on increasing his salary until his is able to do so, why not help. It’s your home as well. Talk it out.

[renehill]

“This is gonna be so controversial, but let’s fucking do it”
the cringe is too much. 😩

[casperandtaz]

Lol wow, you're happy with equal right unless it doesn't benefit you.

[archdelux]

Its not 50/50. It’s 100/100. Men can cook, clean, and help raise children. Just like women can work and bring in money also. This is the 2020s not the 1960s.

[fitzleon]

lol is funny cause I didn’t hear 50/50 talk until Covid hit lol 😂 paid the bills sis

[cbuc]

Ummm.... my wife and I both she leaves early, I get my kids breakfast, do their homework with them, make their lunch, do a load of washing then go to work for 10 hours.... wife gets home early, and does the afternoon shift looking after our you must meet some crappy

[Ypuree.]

the 50/50 I want is, I (the man) will provide for the family, and I will be the one working to keep us living, while the woman stays at home, cleans it, and maintains it, and takes care of the kids (if I have any) So, the man should work to provide, while the woman uses the things that the man provides to help around the house, and make sure everything is balanced. So, teamwork = rotation in this situation work = stuff at home = work = stuff at home, woman/man both have a job that is equally hard, because everyone has different talents. If the woman says do everything, that’s bad. If the man says it, it’s also bad. At the end of the day woman and men should work together to live a good life whilelist being organized.

[brnzville]

It’s 100/100 no matter if it’s finance or duty to the household. Who wants a partner that gives half of themselves. The modern women sure wants trad treatment only when it benefits them. Guys if she works her money goes into the relationship as well! What kind of person would be ok with a partner working to the bone while they sit on their money or their butt literally…

[mahrukhibrahim]

The moment you started and uttered those beautiful words, I knew they were right 😂

[daniela_]

See, I don’t know. I would rather contribute financially to my marriage than have to take on the burden of ALL childcare, cooking, and household duties. How about do what works for you? To each their own. 🤷‍♀️ I’m not saying you have to split bills 50/50, but if you BOTH contribute financially and you BOTH handle chores and childcare responsibilities, I don’t see what the issue is.

[adimlah]

Men are NOT expecting women do all the child rearing, chores, cooking, errands etc....

All of my married friend including myself do cooking, cleaning, chores, child rearing etc....

Most relationship aren't 50/50, only way that can work is if you both make the exact same amount, which is rare unless you both have the exact same profession.

Most relationships are like 60/40 or 70/30, with the man usually earning a bit more.

[Gheetv]

When u make women pay bills it turns on their masculine

[waitwhatarewetalkingabt]

or they could BOTH raise the children… yk.. 50/50?

[cochice]

BS. We’re 50/50 to feel equal. But we know that’s a daily concept. Like dinners out and vacations. However we also know that no one on a marriage has their own money

[RoseMaeWS]

LOLOLOL My mom is MORE of a woman because she raised my siblings and I on her own while working. You are literally asking for 1950 stereotypes of what a mother/woman was but I bet you would be the first to nag your husband to help you with laundry. I hope a man sees this video and replicates it from the mans perspective.

[ChurchofK]

Easy solution: instead of him spending all his time working to provide 100% of the money, let him spend time with the kids.
I assume he made them to spend time with them anyway

[hiphophead]

She's almost got it but she's missed the mark just a little bit. First and foremost any man wanting a 50/50 woman while just letting her do all the cooking and cleaning is a pathetic man dont even pay him any mind. However, just saying 50/50 only involves monetary things is wrong. It's 2025 now, men and women are capable of doing more than the traditional sense. I see some women who want a dream life but aren't willing to provide any type of help financially. Lady in order to get that dream life you either gotta marry a man who makes over 500k(highly unlikely) or you gotta put your big girl pants on and help out. The idea that because you birth children so it absolves you from financial help is a dated idea. You expect that man to pay 100% of the bills help you out with chores around the house and, also do maintenance on the outside of the house doing grunt labor??? Marriage is a partnership where both partners benefit not just you. Some people are so selfish. I see men have this line of thinking too. You want a 50/50 woman but, when you get home you wanna chill on the ps5 and let your woman do all the cooking cleaning and nursing of yall children but get mad she's nagging you. Brodie, she upset. She's doing a lot more than you are, no man would be happy letting the woman he cares about a lot do all the house duties while also working her tail off. But honestly the biggest part so many people miss out on are children. Your child matters so much more in the relationship than you guys being scared of "I won't do this or that" nah y'all gotta learn to do both roles for the benefit of a better household. The man can take care of most of the household finances while also helping with childcare, cooking cleaning, errands, groceries etc. And the woman can help out financially not doing all the financial burdern but at least pitching in enough so YOUR CHILDREN(most important part of the relationship) live a far better life than yall did. She can also take care of doing chores around the house, and doing the motherly tasks. So yes 50/50 in a monetary sense can't really work but 50/50 in the sense of dividing responsibility and working together for the sake of a better life can 100% work. Just call it 100/100. Ladies, never settle for a man who doesnt want to provide for you, and Men don't let a woman run game on you by making you do everything and then nagging you about how she wants a better life but she's just sitting on her rear end while expecting you to work 12 hours a day 6 days a week to make ends meet, she's being selfish. Marriage is supposed to make life easier for both partners not solely the man or the woman. Sheesh we got so many lazy men and women nowadays who are afraid of going the extra mile.