Do You Fear Losing Control #MarriedToATherapist

Do You Fear Losing Control #MarriedToATherapist //

Do you fear losing control? See, we all have fears. Fears are a natural healthy part of life. They can keep us safe and out of harm's way. Fears, just like anything else in our life, serve us when it is healthy and balanced, and can keep us stuck if it is unbalanced. Watch this video to learn how to face your fears and get balanced.

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[Joe-jcol]

When I was a child, as all children, I had little control over the decisions impacting me, and they all lead me to horrifyingly bad experiences(my parents were dumbasses). So yes I have a giant fear of loss of control because my instincts tell me that loss of control = disaster is about to occur.

[nashalirivera]

As an introvert and a goal achiever, I also fear of losing control. I am working on it 🤦🏾‍♀️

[eranshachar]

Oh yes I do fear to lose control and I frequently do. When I get angry a different side of me comes out and I become verbally brutal. And when it's a light anger I disconnect until I calm down. If I had kids I couldn't run away anywhere but I don't have them yet. So when it's only me and my environment I feel I can stretch borders although it's never my intention to hurt anyone. I am similar in personality to my dad but he is much worse than I am trust me. I love it how Jonathan and Alicia are from the same channel, basically speaking of the same subjects except they are so different which give the sensation at least for me that it's not the same subject. Each of them does it in a unique fun way and it's amazing.

[Miss_Lexisaurus]

This is absolutely my personality type and trying to find that balance is so hard!

[benia]

I have another term for us, tinkerers, I find myself tinkering way too much in every aspect of my life, it's rewarding

[careforashow]

I think I may be a closer. There was nothing as hard in my life than having a child. I felt completely stripped of my independence. It manifested as deep resentment. Working on it now though!

[May-hcqw]

I’m not entirely clear what distinguishes setting boundaries from abusive controls. I know it’s different just sometimes it seems so close and hard to say this is just boundaries not abuse.