Woman Dies from Abusive Relationship : God Shows Her How to Leave (NDE)

Barbara Bartolome shares the story of her Near-Death Experience, occurring during surgery to repair a back injury she suffered at the hands of an abusive husband. During her encounter on the Other Side, she describes being wrapped in a beautiful blanket of love and shares what it was like to feel Absolute Acceptance in the presence of God. Barbara also talks about the strength her Near-Death Experience gave her to change her Life once she returned to her body and how she stays in Contact with the Other Side every day.

“When you open the door to the Other Side, it’s amazing how they’ll come through for you in so many instances” - Barbara Bartolome

*Content Warning* This video describes some instances of Domestic Abuse. Please be advised

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[THEROYALTYROBINSONS]

Please pray for me that I have the courage to leave and stay away from my abusive husband.

[ADORABEL]

Im so tired SO tired of the abuse. I don’t even tell people. They wouldn’t believe. Some people are evil. Lord .. deliver me

[blissfulbaboon]

May every man, women and child in an abusive relationship, find a way OUT!

[suehofkamp]

I was a nurse in the 70’s when my patient had a cardiac arrest. We were able to get him back. The following day I came in and was looking everywhere for my sweater which I had lost. My patient told me he was on the ceiling watching the resuscitation. He informed me that my sweater which I took off before doing CPR had fallen on the floor and was kicked under the desk during resuscitation and was now between the desk and the wall. I checked and there it was! I believe you and I am so glad that your life changed for the better. God opened your eyes and guided you. It wasn’t your children who set you up, it was God working through them. ✝️

[TaurusMoon-hupd]

"I realized he didn't need to change; I did" was a punch to the gut

[mmer]

Lady they did not want to tell you that you had a near death experience because you died through their fault and they did not want to get sued by you. I’m happy you made it through and that you had a wonderful experience.

[kareyna]

One of the things that breaks my heart for my mother when she was married 28 years to my abusive father, she went through a lot of horrible vthings. When she got divirced from him, (he had an affair now someone else's problem!) She held her life together, she worked as a mail delivery person, and raised my little brother until he graduated and went into the Navy. She finally met a good man who she was married to for 23 years. She passed away i hope she is at peace and happy in God's love in Heaven. My mom was a good lady.

[cecilchampenois]

She suffered so much and yet retained her warm spirit.

[sheribrougham]

She is so right. You need to change yourself instead of the abuser. The first time someone tries to control you, puts you down or gaslights you WALK AWAY. ABUSERS NEVER CHANGE.

[MMijdus]

There is an important message in this clip for me at this moment: don't try to change the person that is hurting you. Just get away!

[teresafraser]

I was also in an abusive marriage and found the courage to finally leave which saved my life. I am now married to my soul mate of 33 years and had two daughters with him ❤ I am truly blessed in every way 🙌

[deborahnordyk]

I was with my 47year old daughter when she took her last breath on jan 29 2024. I know she is with God. When she was in hospice she said that her grandpa was there in her room. I knew she would be safe and is having a beautiful life. No abuse or worry from her divorced husband anymore.

[ronthunderwoodstudios]

This is one of the best stories I’ve ever heard… not just the NDE, but her life story in general. Such a strong, amazing woman. I have chills as I listen to her speak.

[mariemonn]

Tolerance to any abuse begins in childhood ..we must heal those wounds before we start a relationship..

[sherryhenshaw]

Mine left on a business trip to Huston.I had plenty of time to pack up and leave the abuser. My three sons and I never looked back. I'm an advocate today working with victims of domestic violence. I did remarry a great guy .Going strong 20 years❤

[moonbubbles]

I am terminally ill with idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis and when I was first given this diagnosis I was terrified. These experiences really help me to not be so afraid. I am so grateful for those who have shared.

[SarinaBlom]

I am so happy to hear that God will never blame a woman for leaving an abusive husband.
I stayed for 37 years and raised my Daughter and Son and after their Weddings, I continued praying seriously about how I could not stand being with him anymore.
One night I received a clear message in my soul to quietly leave. I walked down the street to a house of people I knew.
They called my children.
My son and his wife came to fetch me and I never went back to him. We are now divorced! Praise the Lord.
I experience peace now❤

[kristinalowe]

NDE’s are more common than what hospital staff wish to acknowledge. Face it, the truth is our soul never dies, but many people are not ready to believe. Awesome story with a beautiful ending. ❤

[kristinlaviolette]

“The other side is listening, all the time” ❤

[JosannaMonik]

Never ever, try to "make it work" with an abuser.