A Quick Guide To Balancing YOUR Needs With HER Feelings

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[JJtheUtahRealtor]

I found myself in a similar situation about 3 years ago. I think I made the best decision by staying with her. Beautiful women with traditional values and low body count are extremely rare, and next to impossible to replace. If having kids is going to be part of your life's journey. Then I don't think it's a bad call to hold on to a woman who checks all the right boxes. The trick is identifying these women, and being aware things could change in the future.

[tcgrizz]

Good answer. I was afraid you would say otherwise. This lady sounds like a keeper.

[Buildingexcellence]

You find a winner. You keep em. It’s a needle in a needle stack out there

[matthieu]

To be fair to both of you, just lay down the facts. You're in the pivotal position of your career, which you need to focus on and push through. Having a kid and family will slow you down, and you may lose focus on your goals. Just be upfront with her about your goals and where you want to be in the next 5 to 10 years, and if she's down for the ride, great, but if not then no hard feelings and just be respectful that you don't want to waste her time if your paths don't align. Simple enough, but just remember, brother, no one is coming to save you if you fail. Just remember that, my friend.

[JohnDoe-qzqi]

Just focus on YOUR needs! Her ”feelings” will make your life harder or miserable.

[recoveryrider]

I agree with you Ritch and most commenters here. If she checks enough boxes and is genuine then be content.

I walked away from my high school sweetheart because I was selfish and figured I could have a good time and find another one who would be like the last.

It didn't work, besides being a bad picker, most of them are broken people with baggage and an inability to pair bond. Decades later I still haven't found that one that comes close to the one I left.

[Son-of-Krypton]

Women feelings are like a constant moving target…..good luck trying to reason with them 🙄

[telebiopic]

Great advice. The man doesn’t know what he’s got, till he looses it.

[michaelmcqueen]

It's a difficult question, but that was the perfect answer. 100% agree.

[gc]

He needs to keep her, she sounds like a one in a million..

[victorwong]

He sounds like he has a good thing. I’m happy for him and think he should stick with her. The grass is greener where you water it.

[matthewknafel]

Your relationship advice is spot on. Same type of advice I got from my Great Grandfather, Grandpa, and Dad, but more blue collar from them. I'm 40, happily married for 10 years.

[Thequietscene]

When Rich says “ My brothers, listen to me…” I just stop everything I’m doing and listen the fuck up.

[johnhernandez]

Rich agree with your point of view, a lot of wisdom. As an older guy and lived like you have, a good woman as described is very hard to come by.

[stevenlightfoot]

Rich is giving good solid advice here.

[MyObsessionWithArt]

For the first time, I am quite impressed with the answer and advice that he is offering. I guess he is not as shallow as I thought

[Ruach]

She sounds like a good woman and there are a lot of 304's out there. If you can't commit to her and her clock is ticking, then let her go. She deserves a chance with someone else.

[yellowquantum]

Imaginary dude it seems! If he is real his life is a math book. I am little older than Rich had the wives, Lambo, 911 Porsche now have 2 hotels . Living solo glad I went through the phases. Life grateful!!!

[JoeGuapo]

I felt this 😂 I’m 26 years old with a 23 yr old who’s submissive as hell & wants kids soon cooks and cleans.. I want variety as well but don’t want to hurt her she’s amazing

[CorruptionDee]

As a man, I completely understand the desire for variety, especially if you're capable of it. As men, we know that we have to earn the ability to attract multiple women.

Having said that, I believe this need for variety is best suited for single men. I am vehemently against cheating on either side, so I will not criticize women for being "304s" while giving men a pass, even if it is slightly different.

Speaking as a man in my early forties who has gone through an ugly divorce in the past and now has four kids, I can tell you for a fact that finding a truly good woman who is loyal, attractive, submissive, and willing to do anything to please you in the bedroom is a rare gem. If you can find that kind of woman, I advise you to forget about this desire for variety because the variety will likely never bring you a woman of that caliber again.