When groom and his family flaunt their wealth

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[TheScienceGuy]

Flaunting your wealth is a dumb move regardless of the circumstances. You're just looking for trouble that way.

[lakkarajushankar]

Never ever lose your money for a girl, before marriage go for legal and marital councelling. Safegaurd yourself. Zero emotions.

[sukhenbhowmick]

Someone bringing sanity into the Indian concept of marriage.

[iamurdaddy]

Well explained Amish, marriage in itself is becoming a curse nowadays. If laws are not amended soon people will ignore the tradition of marriage.

[hari]

Laws must be made ethical and fair. Perhaps it must be made mandatory to have a chartered accountant certify how much husband and wife contribute to the joint venture called marriage and how much they have before marriage. No one deserves more than they contribute. Divorce should not be a way to take advantage of men or women. And divorce should be allowed quickly. There is no need for government to delay divorce between 2 individuals if they are living seperately. Just ask if they want divorce and give them if they are not changing their mind even after 6 or 12 months. No maintenance from one party to other after divorce. If they have child, a system must be made where both parent have to contribute half-half of the expense of their children. A chartered accountant can access what is financially fair for both parties of divorce and their child based on current expenses like food price, rent and school fees. Courts are not a logical system to determine financial things.

[sangameshms]

You may not show it now, but tomorrow they will get know. Now a days marriage is mere transaction no emotions involved, that sanctity has gone.

[irshikha]

True!
Flaunting of wealth shouldn't be done by either party.
Moreover, unnecessary interference from in-laws is another reason.
I like foreign concept in scenarios of marriage, wherein suddenly your in-laws don't become your parents. Both guy's and the girl's parents live separately and nobody can comment on who's being given more importance.

[souradeepdas]

Women often talk about men having all the power, money, and control, oppressing women. However, it is important to note that this perception confuses a small percentage of wealthy men with the majority of men who struggle. Most men have no money, no power, no sex from their wife, and face difficulties in court battles, even losing their homes and the chance to see their children. Their lives are challenging.
The truth is -
~When a man earns he takes the responsibilities of family. When an women earns she becomes independent.
~When a man earns he may pick a no-earning women and makes her life-partner. When a woman earns she reject a men.
~A strong man can pick broken women and make her life strong. Strong women don’t look after broken men.

[tejuswi]

Ideally indian medical association (pyschologists and psychatrists) should write to law makers and courts that abuse is gender agnostic as there is enough medical data to prove that abusive disorders (borderline personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder) occur in both genders. So to assume that 1 gender is a default abuser and another is a default victim is a scientifically wrong. Developed economies follow this principal and therefore laws are gender neutral

[SAVAGEKING-kteq]

Sir i know prenup is not allowed in india but is there some kind of alternative for it .

[Teapot]

Same happens in reverse order, if family of the guy is greedy, they wil strategically marry girls from good middle class, take dowry, car.post marriage take girls salary, make her do all chores, ask her to raise her kids alone, ask to hide her husbands affairs in the name of ghar ki izzat and then defame her when the girl goes to court....no wonder these rules are made.

[bily]

when a girl leave her parents house that does not mean she loose all her right on that house. Moreover it is her parents earning, so by default she will get whatever her parent will left for her. but when he enter her husbands house which consist of her in-laws earning, how a girl can demand her right any of in-laws or husband property. Definitely whether a girl will do a job or not that is her choice and todays date many of girls doing the job both in govt and private sector. Don't play victim card. This is spoiling the society.

[bharatmatakijay]

Marriage in this country has become like boating in a deep beautiful river, just that women have a life jacket with them in the boat and men are without so. Sab ladke beauty ko enjoy karne k liye chale jaate hai, lekin jab boat dub jayega tab regret ke ilawa kuch bachega nahi😅

[saptadeepsarkar]

all i heard is don't get married....😂😂😂

[Rnk_Dr]

Marriage is gone.

Back to the jungle.

[justsketch]

Very true..lately learnt..had faced this

[m.nithinkumar]

Is their a cap on money for settlement?

[acekai]

Marriage, especially to modern women, especially under Indian law, is nothing but high risk, low reward.

[Riyansh]

भैया खुद को गरीब बोलने पर कोन अपनी लड़की देगा।😂 सिंपल एडवाइज भुकड़ों के यहां रिश्ता मत करो। अपनी बराबरी के लोग ढूंढो।😊😅

[jumbomuffin]

It’s always about money. Get a prenup signed the day before the marriage. If she disagrees, cancel the wedding.