The 7 Key Decisions that Successful Women Make

What distinguishes the most successful women: those who achieve their vision, are rooted in their purpose, conquer their goals that might seem really difficult, and tap into their gifts and the things that are really important to them?

What distinguishes that woman from a similar one who perhaps has the same resources and talent – and yet finds herself falling short of her goals? Welcome to the first episode of Successful Women Think Differently. I'm your host Valorie Burton, and I'm so, so excited that you are here with me.

I'm going to tell you that one thing that distinguishes the most successful women from the rest in today's episode. But first, I'm going to share some of my background and story so that you can get to know me better, and hopefully appreciate and understand where I am coming from.

I'll also be defining success – encouraging you to think about creating your own definition of success (or even adapting the one that I use).

At the end of the episode, I'll be talking about some key decisions that highlight the distinction between the most successful women out there and those that fall a bit short. This is an invitation for you to join me as we begin to explore how Successful Women Think Differently.


"I never regretted taking that leap of faith. When you know there is something that you are meant to do, the fear is always there. But you never regret taking a bet on yourself." ~ Valorie Burton

In This Episode:
- What is so intriguing about how and why successful people think differently?
- Valorie's backstory – life growing up with something to prove
- Valorie's epiphany (in a bookstore): to inspire women through her writing and speaking
- How Valorie got into Positive Coaching
- Disappointments – from divorce to dreams deferred
- How Valorie defines success today
- The 7 Key Decisions that Successful Women Make
- Choosing courage over fear
- How is someone’s life better when they cross paths with you?
And so, so much more!

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[Avh]

I am a school bus driver for 10 yrs now. Before that I was a Director of Admission before that in Sales & Marketing. These careers all had their perks but my position as a school bus driver has been so rewarding. I’m not your typical bus drivers. In those few minute on the bus depending on the day & route I engage with my students and find teachable moments. I let my kids know I see them and encourage positive influences. Success is different for everyone. Dream Big and don’t worry about what small minded people think.🙏🏽❤️💪🏽

[forhisglory]

The principle that was the most thought provoking for me was that successful women are solution focused instead of problem focused. I think that has been a barrier for me. Thank you for the revelation!

[samiradean]

SUCCESSFUL WOMEN FOCUS ON SOLUTIONS NOT PROBLEMS. I LOVE THAT PRINCIPAL

[cassie_inspires]

“How are people’s lives better when they cross paths with me?” Wow what a powerful and thought provoking question! Thank you for sharing this podcast episode. This has been amazingly helpful to me.❤

[taniaarmenta]

" when you know THERES something your there to do the fear is always there, BUT YOU NEVER REGRET TAKING a BET ON YOURSELF.❤

[happykellymambou]

I recently applied for a Communications Professionals’ mentorship program. When I say recently, it’s about 3days ago. And while listening to this podcast (I love inspiring and personal development content so YouTube brought me here), I begin to pray: Lord, about that mentorship programme, please connect me to a successful and inspiring mentor who will truly lift me up. Please, I also want it to be a Christian so that I can be spoken to mentally and spiritually. Amen. And then I hear Valerie say “I started my own PR Company”. I was like “Ow! She’s into Communication.” And then she goes “I prayed about it.” lol. I am like “Lord, if this is a sign that you just listened and answered my prayer, I am so grateful.” I’ll wait for the outcome of the mentorship program but I already feel like this is a good place to be at. Thank you Lord. Thank you Valorie. Let me keep listening. 🥰

[ncamsilenhlabathi]

I like this “things don’t always unfold the way you thought they would, and yet they can still unfold BEAUTIFULLY “! So profound and so encouraging. Thank you

[aniyahakanini]

Thank you, I’m 21 and I’m starting on my journey. I’ve always been resilient and never gave up and by now I thought I’d be working with wildlife traveling the world. Unfortunately that has not happened and I’m now investing in myself. I’m excited, I have been craving change and not being successful is not an option for me. I will be successful and the woman I always see myself being. Though I’m not sure what the road ahead holds for me but I do know that I will not give up during the process.

[byjohneisha]

I had to pause right before you got into the 7 decisions.

Thank you for sharing your story. Your testimony. It brought me to tears.

All glory to The Most High King!

Our obedience to Him allows us to not only find our purpose, but to also attract His other children WITH that purpose.

And it’s always at a time when we need it most. At the perfect stage in our journey.

Thank you for your obedience.

This is my first video I’m seeing of yours. I know God led me here.

Shalom

[arielmessiah]

This was unlike any podcast I have listened to so genuine and didn’t song “ podcasty” .And I gained so much.

[nerdalert]

24 and proud of where I am but always reminding myself to not downsize my dreams or lose sight of the long term goal. Gotta keep the movie playing

[lauramurdock]

I discovered your channel after searching for "female CEO" it was meant to be. You're so inspiring. Thank you for sharing your journey and knowledge.

[MiriamA]

I was listening to another woman here at work when her podcast ended. So on came yours❤. I stayed because of the excellent quality of production immediately noticeable. I kept listening because of the clarity of your speech and story. I became even more intrigued because of our common faith.✝️The subscribe came from the inclusion of all, with special exception given to my desire to grow in the sphere you’re emphasizing; a valiant business woman of excellence in Christ.

[TheSparkisLove]

Thank you for sharing! It feels like I’m your long time friend and we are catching up and having a conversation. What a beautiful presence!

[treluvstrees]

Wonderful podcast! My former supervisor gave me your book as a gift a few years ago and I love it! I have since given it as a gift to others! Thx for your positive message!

[Sisi_Kaapehi]

I just discovered your channel and it’s blessing me so much.

[nalukuinaleliliswaniso]

I was out for lunch with my mum and sister, when we visited a book store and mum bought us your book as a gift. I have kept that book and it was the first book on my shelf. I loved it and always said if ever i write a book it will be something like that, practical and reflective. Loved it. And happy to find you on YT.

[bobbi]

Amen to collaboration over competition. Listening to this has completely changed my view of my own personality. I've always been a creative thinker, out spoken and called difficult for this many times in my life. To look at these traits as ones holding potential for success is such an entirely new take.
As women we have the abilty to dream big, have big visions, and extravagant goals and im excited for the potential we have in our growing communities of powerful woman for achieving this

[AnngladysGichuhi]

This was such a timely video for me. Thank you for sharing!!!

[DivinevirgoFeminine]

You are an impressive woman! ❤

The way you glow when you talk about your husband Jeff is how I wanna talk about my future husband!