3 Texts That Make Him Chase You (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

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This might be the #1 most powerful communication secret for getting a guy hooked on you that I’ve ever seen...

See, most women are used to being told things like:

“You need to make him work for it”

“You need to have standards”

“You need to respect yourself”

But how do you actually do it?

For example, if he sends you a flakey text on the night of a date, how should you respond to get him chasing again (whilst showing you have self-respect)?

In this week’s video, I’m going to give you 3 killer texts that show your standards, put you back in control, and double his attraction for you.

Like I said, this secret is hugely powerful.

Use it wisely...

Directed by JAMESON JORDAN
Written by JAMESON JORDAN, MATTHEW & STEPHEN HUSSEY

Starring:

MATTHEW HUSSEY
DANIELLE DALLAS ROOSA
FLORA GIGNAC
MARGARET SIAN
RYAN TURNER
SASHA FELDMAN
SAMI ABDOU

Graphics by MICHELLE GARCIA

Music:

"Bach Cello Suite 1 Prelude" by ANDRE GASKINS
"Nature" by ALEX BIRD
"Dance of the Swans" by FLUTIST

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[rylee_l]

I need Matthew to be my best friend so I can send him screenshots and he can tell me wtf I need to say

Edit: Damn 16-year-old me made some of y'all real mad. I did figure it out by the way, the boy I was talking to when I wrote this has been mine for nearly 5 years so you can **chill**

[DubCmusicTV]

Radical Honesty = be willing to lose "that person" to get the special person.

[WeartheGoodSocks]

I had a man drive all the way from his home in Valencia to Madrid, Spain where I lived for our FIRST date. (A four hour drive.) It went so well that he repeatedly made the drive and even stayed with family in Madrid for extended periods so we could be together every day. All the while he was paying rent on a place in Valencia and finishing up his last semester of grad school there. Yeah, if he's into you, he will find a way to be with you. :) :) :)

[claricerabaja]

When a guy doesn't contact me before a date "Are you dead? Do i need to send flowers?" 😂

[poojamenon]

Another good thing about this is: Showing your standard will filter out the good guys from the bad guys. This will make the bad ones run away and the good ones run after you.

[alaskalove]

another piece of bliss through this advice is that it weeds out the guys that don't deserve further investment from me. their reply tells me more about their intentions and ability to meet my standards.

[tulinhang]

If he's into you, he'll do all those things even before his woman think about it. The less he does, the little he's interested in you. Just, choose the man that does the most.

[neversayneverjc]

I always feel like if I say "no" they will lose interest. I have a hard time remembering no also gets you respect.

[MJKT]

I love the last message. When you’re going out with a guy who doesn’t respect your time, this is the perfect message to send because it lets him know that if he wants a chance with you, he either needs to step up his approach or move on.

[emily]

Love this. Matthew you need to start giving advice to men!

[Kasiopi]

Matt, I used the last text tonight on the first guy I’ve dated since my divorce 4 years ago (after a 27 year marriage). I asked him out first and since then, only three dates and I put out all of the effort. I was shocked that the “I have other things I’d like to do” got such a quick response! Almost immediately he triple texted me. Too bad you didn’t have a follow up on what to say next. Bought your book, I’m really going to put this into action. Thanks for helping me build a little confidence. 😉

[ruby]

Maybe this sounds conceited but I have too much self-love to do this lol. I'm not going to try and get a guy to chase me. I'll just find someone who is actually as excited to see me as I am to see him.

[dianieem]

I love this video. I grew up in an abusive environment, and even after years of work, I still struggle to find my bliss point between saying too little or being too aggressive. The work you're doing is very valuable, thank you.

[lascaux]

*Having a standard is confidence
*Knowing how to communicate them is competence
Have a Bliss Point to communication:
1.The Date Deliberator
As much as I love planning, I think it would be more fun if you decide 😉

2. The Homebody
Jeeez are you always this lazy? It's your turn to come to me 😘

3. The Day of Disappearance
Hey you, should I assume we're not on for tonight? I haven't heard from you and I have other things I'd like to do if not 😊

[alaskalove]

I LOVE the fact that there are guys here asking legit questions and offering their observations without being snarky! It's refreshing. it shows interest.

[hopethornhill]

So my dad has just told me he's proud of me for at least watching self help videos. He approves your message.

[forestmusic]

I love the acting in this video. The women were fantastic.

[SugarRose]

Matthew, I love how you focus on women respecting themselves, and having standards.

[deeprollingriver]

I’m in the early stages of dating a man. He left for Austria for work. After a week away I get this text: “How’s everything. Not much snow In Austria but more to come.” That’s it. I listened to Matthew. So I write back. “Everything is fine. Not much snow I LA and none to come” with a smiley icon.

[TheLooselois]

At the end of the day if guys don’t respond well or respect your standards then they’re not worth your time and efforts anyway, meaning they’re not right for you. I remind myself of this every time I send something like this to overcome my “what if this will make him disappear?!”