7 Harsh Truths About Men (over 40) I'd Share If You Were My Sister

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- 7 Harsh Truths About Men (over 40) I'd Share If You Were My Sister

[mynameisMelt]

Jonathan suggests that we Ask the following Questions:
What does a relationship look like for you?
What does commitment mean to you? and what does it look like?

[robmaria]

Well l guess l’m stupid like you said. It’s hard moving on as a widow who knows nothing of dating these days.

[jamielegvold]

This is not a question, it is a observation statement. I have been watching your videos and I feel I am learning new things about me. I want the security of a monogamous relationship, but I don't want a live-in partner, I don't want to get married either, so I guess I am not willing to be all in. Now you have me wondering why.

[Sherryyahoo]

I won’t date a man who is not divorced as he still carries all the hurt and pain that comes with divorce

[stein-fredricsvendsen]

This is pure Music to my ears. Keep on talking.

[karrynlipsett]

My relationship graph is - 7months & 1year in my teens, 3 years in my 20's, 28- 45, then 2years, & a lot of healing... after that 1. & 1year in my 50's which was really just a test drive after the toxic 1 b4 it.

[Kitten_Mittons]

Only halfway done watching and lots of good questions and info on this one

[naddyn]

Been away for a week and excited to catch up on your vids Jonathon! Hope all is well ☺

[marciahershkowitz]

I think a lot of us settled for a live in relationship or less when we wanted to be married and pretended our partner was all in or hoping he would change. Conflicts happened because one wanted more and one wanted less. Then the relationship becomes an anxious/insecure attachment style with an avoidant, one’s chasing, the other’s pushing back or running away.

[dianedorney]

We are all WILLING PARTICIPANTS we share in the demise equally....the word blame is one our mothers use!

I am looking for a man who learned his lessons. So far I see many good guys, but so damaged by previous relationships - it's sad. Also I see they still totally clueless about dating and healthy relationships.

[robinemery]

It all sunk in my BIG BROTHER😊
BIG BIG HUGGS🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂

[cindymichalko]

Jonathan you are the best!!! You are an awesome big brother!!! LOVE YOU❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[lorrainec]

Thank you Jonathan for talking about the person that you’re talking to accepting the “whole package” because that is a major issue that I have (aside from finding people long distance…lol) - they get close to me, start to have feelings, then realize I have the kids, the Ex, the pets… etc… while I would love to have someone new in my home, that would take some time. Can we explore more about this? What if you need to combine households? This is another scenario/dynamic that we find over 40/50 which is difficult to navigate…

[marciahershkowitz]

If one person wants sex and the other doesn’t, it’s a recipe for disaster. The person that doesn’t want sex with you may want it elsewhere. This will cause heartache and attempts to win him over. You can’t live with a lover who wants to be platonic.

[sabrinatortoradesigns]

I’m late to the game but here’s a personal question: what happened with that great date and the yacht club dinner? Has it gone further?

[Sherryyahoo]

lol…well endowed, how can you figure that out, that was funny.

[katarzynabajner]

Hello Jonathan.
Thank you so such for your realistic approach. I fallow your recommendations: reading the book you are talking about, asking my man friend important questions. I perceive myself as a breadwinner (I am raising my kids alone - including financially: father of my children disappeared and he is not paying the child support), I am cringing hearing compliments 😀. I don’t need provider or someone to sweet talker- I need someone to share life, enjoy the small things.
Thank you once again for your presence 💖
( please forgive me my English- I am still learning this language).

[mariad]

Here's a secret, Jonathan. I'm a real big sister w one 13 years my junior. Once, after a break up, her bf was following us on our walk in his car. She told him to go away & leave her alone. He did not. I got my big sister up & told him for real! Well guess who got the shaft?! lol These women are playing a game you likely dont understand. . . I'm just sayin'...

[Sherryyahoo]

Ariel…I would enjoy the quiet, don’t introduce him to your kids too soon.