Part 2: Love Bomb Series: 5 Signs of Love Bombing | Coach Court

In this video, Coach Courtney Gatlin talks about 5 signs of love bombing in relationships.

Love Bomb Series: 5 Reasons They Love Bomb

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[iloveTool]

Great video, #3, 4 and 5 I experienced. As someone who was in a relationship with a covert narcissist, looking back #3 was the most used. Every time they want to get you right where they want you, they go heavy with the compliments. It's easy to fall into that trap of being flattered but best believe it's all a game to use you for whatever they want then discard you. Then hoover again in the future and discard cycle. You never want to get involved with a narcissist.

[trevorcarroll]

Another quick tip to, it would be a bigger issue if the person love bombing you gets upset that you aren’t doing it in return also. I was talking to someone who was upset that after a month of just “talking” I wasn’t telling everyone around me (including family) about her…when she was doing it on her end.

[todd]

Very informative. My ex monkey branched recently and her new man is love bombing. They moved in together, they are now engaged and this is all within 90 days. I had 7 years. Anyway they are moving at the speed of lightning. We are in our early 50’s so I see them lasting. She has monkey branched so many times. 5 that I know of and I was involved with a couple of them. But she came back. This time she isn’t. She moved 3 hours away and now getting married. I had to let go. I’m In therapy because of this and trying to heal. Been in therapy since the break up January 8th. I wish her the best

[teillumin]

Like Todd below I have this exact same situation my ex left me exactly one month ago and is now in a new flat with a co worker. they got together two weeks ago. I’m letting her go but still really care as he is a know narcissist.

[IDIEATIH]

I'm guilty of doing this naturally but genuinely after careful observations of consistent actions. I typically start a relationship from a secure attachment style. What I've noticed is as I get closer to the person I'm dating while in a committed relationship and my needs aren't being net especially after having communicated them my anxious preoccupied attachment style triggers flare up. I'm fairly knowledgeable of this but it happens so quickly and intensely that the illusion of action takes over and I display what can be considered love bombing. Is this a unfortunate side affect of the anxious preoccupied attachment style even if the "love bombing" is coming from a place of authenticity because the thoughts and feelings were developed in the securely attached mindset?