How To REJECT Someone Without Being a D*CK! (Rejection Tips)

This Alpha M. Vault Video was originally recorded 5-years ago. The topic is about rejecting someone like a gentleman. We can all agree that rejection sucks to be rejected, and if you are a good dude, it sucks rejecting someone whether a friend, business associate, or romantic. Today, I'm focusing on the romantic kind and hoping that the sting is less if/when you have to do it.

HOW TO REJECT SOMEONE LIKE A GENTLEMAN: FOUNDATION PRINCIPLES

1. Don’t lead anyone on – be upfront and honest to make everything easier.
2. Avoidance is not the same as respectfully rejecting someone – man up! It’s a hard conversation to have, but you’ll be glad you did it.

GENTLEMANLY REJECTION STEPS

1. Lead with a general compliment
2. Let them know that you appreciate and are flattered by their interest
3. Take responsibility by saying “I” and don’t beat around the bush – craft & create a reasonable response to have this step go over better (aka: create a stock response to be used later). I give examples.
4. Show appreciation and wish them well – add in a bit of reassurance

* With a drunken hook-up, don’t be a repeat offender and go back for 2nds!

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[MDobri-syce]

Alpha M 2010’s: “Hello this is Aaron Marino.”

Alpha M 2020’s: “What’s Up Gentlemen!”

[VCHKiN]

Calmer tone makes you sound more like an authority figure on the topic rather than a hyperactive fake life coach approach.

[dylankeighran]

Hey alpha, can we PLEASE get a “what to do on a first date” video

[franksimon]

Well, yes, this is a great material. The "more relaxed" tone helps for late weekends imo.

[vonluigiespartero]

Hey Alpha.. I guess Piglet has already said this to you this morning, but on behalf of us, your internet kids, Happy Fathers' Day. You've taught us so much and you've changed the lives of so many people. We love you Alpha.

[Op_Intrude-N]

The smooth transition between sunglasses tells me this man is someone I should be listening to. Seriously!

[grider]

It's classic Alpha, that's how I came across you with the "Gentleman" haven't check you out lately, love ya stuff 6+m great work mate.

[champschannel]

Summary:
Don't lead anybody on, Avoidance is not the same thing as respectfully rejecting somebody
1. Lead with a compliment
2. Let them know you appreciate the compliment
3. Deathpunch (say I)
4. Show appreciation wish them well

[romeosalinas]

I needed to hear this today. Been trying to break off a few friendships that are not beneficial to my personal growth! Thanks Alpha for the wise words….

[MattySadler]

I can't think of a single scenario where I'll need to use this advice.

[medusagaming]

Oldies are good too, but New Alpha helps me to boost confidence...if I feel low, I choose you my Alpha!

[jeredquidlars]

This one looks like MEN OF CLASS, like the old movies how a Gentlemen should look like❤️✨

More of these 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[DotYT-ypfy]

I love the calmer Alpha M. since you look more professional but I like the hyperactive Alpha, it doesn't matter which you pick but your still awesome!

[johnmivule-novabow]

No matter how calm or Hype Alpha M is, he always Producin HEAT

keep it up

[boothbyaw]

I find the two styles in one video rather jarring. If the intro/ads matched the lower key, energy level of the old style I think the video as a whole would flow better. I do love both styles but they have their time and place and I don't think they work best together. Great stuff as always.

[altaica]

dont have to be worried about having to reject when you're not getting asked out

[elonmusk]

Some topics definitely can benefit from calmer delivery, respect

[ThePremiumChicken]

Years ago, I had to reject a friend who wanted us to start dating. She reminded me too much of my sister, so I couldn't do it. I told her exactly that and she was cool afterwards

[aadityammahanta]

I think whenever there's serious topic to discuss about then a softer voice sounds nice from you. Like some elder giving us advice. Other than that hyped up alpha for any other topic !

[indraizallrius]

Old alpha: British gentleman whom girls will crush on
New alpha: Your old buddy who makes you motivated