My Husband’s on His Fourth Affair (Is It Over?)

My Husband’s on His Fourth Affair (Is It Over?)

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[schokococoa]

This isn’t the fourth affair, this is the fourth affair she’s found out about

[ssamelionsard]

Best quote ever - "I would rather adjust my life to their absence than adjust my boundaries to their disrespect"

[AC-qooq]

As a child of divorced parents, I was so much happier when they divorced. I finally had some peace. We can sense it’s toxic. Take us out of that situation asap!

[noregertsyamsayin]

Why would he stop? There's no consequences!

[DigiMyst]

If he can't respect you, at least you can respect yourself enough to leave. It's over.

[EnfinLibreNM]

As a child of a father who had numerous affairs and a mother who stayed with him no matter what, it's devastating for the children. My brother completely checked out. My sister emulates my father and has broken up several marriages. I'm too scared to have ever committed fully to anyone and, as John said, I feel like I don't deserve to be fully loved. I married an abusive cheater also and was fortunate to get out. Now, I live in a tiny little house away from everyone with just my animals to keep me company. So, Mary, if you're reading this...please get out for the sake of yourself, but even more...for the sake of your children. They don't deserve to grow up believing that it's ok to stay with a cheater.

[jwebby]

Sounds like the marriage should have been over after THE FIRST AFFAIR!!!!

[NeccoWecco]

Mary, you're worth more than someone who constantly disrespects you.

[Monica-zodd]

Just because you’re bitterly crying and heartbroken doesn’t mean it’s the wrong decision. Powerful Deloney.

[Missybella]

The words Dr. John said to her to motivate her to leave is EXACTLY what I said to myself to motivate me to leave my husband.
I didn’t want my son to think what he was seeing to think it was love, or healthy.
Weeks after I left my then husband my son’s stutter went away.
Kids no matter how young, sense, see and absorb their atmosphere.

[shesabutterfly]

Leave. I kept forgiving. Believing him he wouldn't do it again.. 27 years and at least 12 affairs he had later he left me for my friend. This is a problem with your husband, not you. It will never end. Trust me.

[novocaine]

He got mad that she was in therapy. That's such a big red flag.

[kimmontenegro]

My father was a serial cheater. My mother stayed because she had no support. Always wonder what life would have been like had she left. I'm in my 40's and prefer to be single without relationship drama. Nice to exhale in my personal space🥰

[AstroMedia]

I threw my spouse of eight years out when I accepted that she was cheating. Didn't think twice about it. Best decision I ever made.

[britneyog]

Mary, it's BEEN over. I'm sorry dear. Start a new life with your kids. Show them what a marriage with respect looks like.

[OPTICXPROTOTYPE]

When it comes to the three A’s (Adultry, Abuse, Addiction) i have a one-and-done rule

[sabinedalianis]

Why are the women and children always asked to leave? He has to leave. Call the locksmith and let him put in new looks, book a hotel room for your husband and have someone in your family drop his clothe at the hotel. You and the children have the right to stay home.

[starlingswallow]

The ones who say "JUST LEAVE", have never been IN the cycle of abuse! It's not that easy!!!!
Mary, sweetie, read and learn about how to regain your self worth. He has torn it DOWN to nothing. 😔😔😔
YOU are worth not being in this situation. Your kids are too! ♥️💕

[Jane]

If you have to put an app on his phone to keep track of him then there’s something way way wrong with this relationship already

[ikrz]

Mary, you’re not the problem, he’s the problem! You & your children deserve PEACE, LOVE & HAPPINESS!