Your life was already decided

[betterideas]

Just want to say: I used 90 days as an example of a manageable amount of time to make a change. But there is nothing magical about 90 days specifically, and I actually don’t like that type of thinking, which I’ll talk about in the next video ;)

[a.rad_music]

One of the greatest pieces of advice I have ever gotten is "5 years will pass regardless so if you keep saying you want to learn something just learn it now, in 5 years down the road you'll either have learned the skill or learned you didn't want to learn that skill"

[TheDoomerGoGetter]

90 days ago I was depressed, falling back into smoking weed and drinking alcohol after being sober for so long, now I'm happy, sober, hopeful for the future, consistently working out, eating healthy, spending a lot of time working on my self improvement YouTube channel, stepping out of my comfort zone, and going to be enrolling for college soon, if you're down right now, keep moving, it will get better as long as you don't give up

[TDBRICKS]

I live in a part of the country that gets constant rain and little sunshine this time of the year. There’s tons of fog and clouds as if I turned my render distance on Minecraft down to 1. I generally find it difficult to get out which makes this time of the year challenging for me because I love exploring and being outside. To hear you speak these powerful messages inspires me and makes me want to work every day to be a better man and help those around me. You’re changing peoples lives bro 🔥

[charliegunthers]

wow seeing that life chart and seeing a visual representation of a person's finite time on earth was kinda terrifying. definitely got a lot out of watching this video thank you

[alexmurphy]

I’ve been working towards switching careers for years but finally got into school three weeks ago. I am 31 and I was studying algebra and writing essays all summer, it sucked but it worked out. My last day is tomorrow, I’m FINALLY leaving the career I’ve loathed for years. Never give up on what you want, life is way too short for that

[whythis-]

Starting has always been a struggle for me. Distractions, excuses, unexpected changes... I know I can create better habits for myself but it's just hard. I'm trying my best to be less self doubting and I hope I can change myself for the better long term.

[MrSandManGiveMeADream]

"We all make choices, but in the end, our choices make us" - Andrew Ryan.

[FolliYt]

Few things that helped me understand what needs to be done to actually achieve what I truly desire:
Stop believing in motivation, depression, boredom, days off (not counting the gym, muscle needs rest)
Understand that you need to be present as much as possible, like handsome bald guy said, time really doesn’t care, it will still go by very quickly. It’s up to you to figure out if doing average things, therefore having an average life, is something that you can be satisfied with.
With everyone so asleep in social media, this fake reality, not a lot of people will understand you, including your friends. So don’t second guess if cutting them off is the right thing to do. I don’t know you or your situation but it most likely very much is.
Don’t waste your very limited time and energy on nothing and no one that’s not deserving it.
Do 100%, 100% of the time.
If you can follow these steps, you aren’t even gonna find this so hard to do. Since it would be way harder for you to settle with entropic ‘lifestyle’.

[tuesdayallweeklong]

Dude, your cinematography skills are some of the best on YT, period. The shots of you alone on the road perfectly convey the feeling of "okay, I've come all this way, and here's where I've ended up, " and they're always so fkn clean and crisp 👌. Top-notch stuff, man - love every video more than your last, for real. Thanks for caring about this channel so much - it definitely shows in your work, and YT needs more positive, male "self-improvement" guys. Too many of them have this "Andrew Tate Lite" vibe that makes me worry about teen guys, and what effect that'll end up having on them, y'know? So just thanks for being so good at this YT thing that they can't ignore you, and putting out healthy takes on self-improvement and stuff - you're a real one, man 👊

[gabyoo]

I remember how I was feeling exactly 90 days ago, it was a very difficult time for me and all I wanted was for time to stop. Nowadays, I feel some peace towards the situation I was in, but I haven't really done much to make my life better either. 90 days from now, I will have celebrated my 26th birthday and I refuse to be stuck in this same spot!!! Thank you for waking me the fuck up yet again Joey. I'm holding myself accountable publicly commenting this and I hope to have updates worth sharing from here on out 🙏

[NYKIRA]

"And I have a role to play to shape the next 90 days" This is so true!! Often we try to jump to new goals without looking at what we're currently dealing with and acknowledging our current 'momentum'. This is why transition is so powerful; we need to allow ourselves time to 'get there' and it starts with recognizing who you are today 🖤

[perseusgeorgiadis]

It makes my brain hurt, how little I've accomplished the last 90 days, and what a tremendous shift my life took. I went through travel, crazy amounts of anger, fighting, but also forming relationships. I damn changed the entire stream of my life by deciding to apply for a different major, in a different country, because of these very experiences. What has kept me from accomplishing as much as I would have liked, in these past 90 days, largely has to do with the fact that I let my overwhelming expectations and anxiety, dictate and micromanage my every decision. Time pressure from school to study and turn in projects, as well as my parents acting like I'm a disappointment at every turn. I watched an old friend of mine who took off when I fell into a deep state of anxiety for months, take off and get into a really good uni, and right now, I even think I'm better off. 90 days ago, I'd think the "me" of today is crazy. My friend got into a top 50 school in the US and she's gonna be paying 80k a year on tuition, while I'm applying (and will probably get in) to a top 6 school in the world, and not even pay half that, just because I decided to abandon the mindset we both had. Evidently, the last 7 months of crippling anxiety are probably the best thing that could happen to me. 90 days ago, I was studying for a math test (procrastinating actually, but let's stick to the story here). Had I not done as well on that test, I wouldn't have gotten a top grade, and wouldn't change my future major from CS to Mathematics. Admittedly, despite my anxiety, had I managed my time and psyche better, I could be a lot further in many aspects of my life than I am now. I'm setting a reminder. I'll be back in 90 days

[gera_eb]

Another astonishing video at the right momento in the right time. Thanks for the 90-days visualization. Keep it up the good work, loved your minimalistic, beneficial and self-help content. Saludos desde Mexico.

[OmotenashiWineDiary]

I like the message which is “the life you live was already decided for you by you”.
It’s probably the basic way of thinking to get to know who you are.

[coopj]

90 days ago, I was at the beginning of the police academy, full of dread, anxiety, and facing a complete culture shock and having to adjust to it. Spending most nights wondering if I can continue. And 90 days before that, I was in the selection process and spending every day and night wondering if I was going to be selected and getting ready for the academy. And 90 days before that, I was applying for that department, thinking "there is no way I'm getting selected, but what if they do?"

So I did and now I'm actually at the beginning of the career I have always wanted. It's insane, I could've never seen myself here. A year ago I was devastated, depressed, severely overweight, had no ambition, was heartbroken, and would spend every day doing nothing. So, for anyone out there struggling, know you can change your life around if you want to. Take a risk and continue to always keep going forward.

[TwistRemiss]

After watching so many of these types of videos, I really do think this might be the only one that actually sat right with me and gave me a completely different way of thinking about my life and what I want from it. Thank you for this.

[alexsrson]

Thank you for another year of brilliant content! The B-roll footage in this video was so cinematic and impactful. Goes very nicely with your helpful words. All the best for 2023!

[plushpilot]

This guy has inspired me, very down to earth lad.

[josepollo]

90 days ago I was living through one of the worst periods of my life, constant drug use, couldn't get a job because I didn't have an ID or birth certificate. I was wandering through life without any plans whatsoever. Then I was forced to change, I was getting evicted and I had to move. Luckily my cousin has let me stay with her in this past 90 days. In this past 90 days I've gotten my ID and Birth certificate again, gotten my grades up, a girlfriend who loves me, I've enlisted in the Marines and I'm to ship out in August. This video helped put my last couple months in a picture, if that makes sense. I hope to make the next 90 days all the better.