Priming: How To Never Be Boring In Conversation

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In today’s video, we’ll go over 8 conversational habits that make people love being around you.


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0:00 - Intro
0:04 - #1: The false completion technique
1:40 - #2: Accept bids for connection
2:53 - #3: Add a touch during conversational high points
3:56 - #4: Friendly teasing
5:17 - #5: Act out your characters
6:14 - #6: Pause when you hear laughter
6:42 - #7: Take a 3 second punchline pause
7:17 - #8: Have go-to stories

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[KRAKOA]

How do I get someone to like me more?

"In college, there was this girl who I thought to be the most annoying person on the planet.

Let’s call her Nicole.

I can’t put my finger on what annoyed me so much, but all I can say is it was really hard for me to be in a good mood when I was around her.

One day, I complained about her to my best friend. I told her how much I dreaded Nicole coming around.

She said, “Really? Nicole really likes you. Whenever I mention you she talks about how fit, beautiful, and smart you are as an engineer.”

That shut me up immediately. And from that day forward, I had a lot more tolerance for Nicole. I actually kind of liked her, though I still didn’t want to be best friends with her. It’s hard to dislike someone who’s been saying wonderful things about you to everyone you know."

_You want someone to like you?_

*Start talking about them behind their back, but only in the nicest way possible.*

*What you say will get back to them.*

[curiousconsultant]

2 things this video taught me:
1 - Emily Blunt is a pretty cool chick
2 - She's actually been in more movies than I thought.

And yes the charisma tips are on point always

[ilshaguides]

This is _not_ 8 habits that make people love being around you - it is _obviously_ *8 Things thake make everyone love **_Emily Blunt._*

[newpairofboots]

Instructions unclear. I am now Emily Blunt.

[rushabhchheda]

Emily really is so charismatic and seems like a fun person to be around.

[cutzymccall]

A general sense of humor is EVERYTHING. Some people are often defensive or ignore the friendliness of others trying to connect. Laughter is like nutrition for your soul. If you bring it to the table, you will be very popular.

[funnytv-]

You are creating a foundation not only for your life but for your legacy. You are needed for the world. You are necessary. It is vital that you do not exhaust yourself.

Long-lasting change comes from little steps, repeated regularly, over time. The little things you do, as tiny as taking a sip of water or stretching more often or going for a walk. These all add up to something much greater than the sum of their parts.

[nvb]

I just love how this channel exploded. I remember watching it like…probably 5 or 6 years ago when it just started up and you decided to go after your dream with this channel despite warnings from other people. Now I see it had 6M subscribers! Nice!!

[williamfriar]

I like Cruise saying, “It’s a challenge.” Using positive language in garbage situations is funny in its own way. I know Cruise wasn’t an example of humor in this video, but it reminded me of the fact that “inspirational euphemisms” are quite funny, especially if you appear to struggle to concoct one on the spot.

[skylarverse]

1. The false completion technique
0:05

2. Accept bids for connection (double downs on the joke + laugh)
1:40

3. Add touch during conversational highpoints
2:53

4. Friendly teasing
(Use teases that are obviously not true, tease yourself too)
3:59

5. Act out your characters
(While telling a story)
5:17

6. Pause when you hear laughter
(When telling a story)
6:17

7. Take a 3 second punchline joke
(When telling a story)
6:45

8. Have a go to story to tell everyone
7:19

[endysantos]

Perfecting charisma is more important then you may think, could make everyone love having you around and this channel does and excellent job helping perfect such skill!

[turbo]

For anyone who hasn't seen the adjustment bureau, it's definitely worth a watch. Interesting concept with good direction and acting.

[judylandry]

Thanks Charisma On Command for Highlighting Emily Blunt. She's terrific!

[meetmenowasia]

Such a fun and insightful breakdown of conversational habits! The false completion technique is a hilarious way to connect, and Emily's playful banter is contagious. Friendly teasing, touch, and storytelling tips are gold! Learning to pause for laughter and the 3-second punchline pause – game-changers! Looking forward to trying these out. Thanks for sharing!

[KainzMusic]

Just the bits and pieces I've picked up from the videos on this channel have helped me be more confident for those times the floor becomes mine (and I didn't want it).

[KRAKOA]

What psychological facts you should know?

They key of confidence is walking into a room and assuming everyone like’s you.
Once you’ve accepted your flaws, no one can ever use them aganist you.
The hardest prison to escape is in your mind.
Speaking about your goals makes you lose motivation.
The structure of your brain changes everytime when you learn something new.
Listening 5 to 10 songs a day can improve memory, strengthen immune system and reduce depression risk by 80%.
When we’re constantly wishing for something, we overlook everything we already have.
Being forgetful is actually a sign of higher intelligence.

Edit: Try to appreciate other's work. So upvote..

[lallaren]

Ah the natural moment when you are interviewed as a hollywood star, so relatable. Would be fun to see non celebs in interview situations when the interviewer already loves them and laugh at everything

[PickleAllergy]

I now understand what charming is, Emily exudes it, and is honest not a false flatter

[megmaxel]

8 habits to make people love being around you

1 - Be Emily Blunt

[Jry]

Emily Blunt, Jennifer Lawrence, Emma Stone are all so fun in conversations. Their laughs are everything.