TNC206 What are narcissist afraid of? what are some of a narcissists or toxic persons biggest fears

In Episode 206 of THE NARCISSISTS' CODE 206 I TALK ABOUT WHAT ARE NARCISSIST AFRAID OF? WHAT ARE SOME OF A NARCISSISTS OR TOXIC PERSONS BIGGEST FEARS

Every narcissist is afraid of different things but there are some things that most narcissists as a whole are afraid of.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware #narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( #NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the #Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

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Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you so much and lets HEAL together

[bleusun]

Scared of being abandoned but give every reason for someone to not bother with them lol

[lorrainemiller]

You are the best thing that ever happened to anyone who has suffered from narcissistic abuse, as therapists just can’t give us the inside information like you do and that’s what we need to hear so that we can heal. And heal we do thanks to you xoxo

[jojasmin]

Wow..this is exactly my ex. We were together 8 years.. everything that is said in this video is exactly what happened. He already has a new gf who he cheated on me with that is 11 yrs younger than him and now all of a sudden he's getting married. All this happened this year. I thought my life was over. I cried this entire year but thank God for my family and friends for helping get through this. I still have a lot of healing to go but I realized he's not worth it and I'm better off. My peace is more valuable.

[RS-wwjo]

No one believed me or understood me either. He blamed me for everything. Threw me under the bus big time.

[TendRose]

My ex said his reputation was what was most important to him. Meaning exposure is indeed their biggest fear.
He never wanted me to speak to my family about our issues. He wants to look like an angel in the eyes of everyone outside.
He goes around being the hero to his community, Mr Nice guy - so helpful and respectful to everyone, but behind closed doors is a verbal and sadistic abuser who has to let off on all those closest to them.
When I’m at his home if we argue, he is so concerned with his neighbour hearing.

[candirayne]

I was pregnant on our 1 yr anniversary and when I think back that’s when I started to notice the change of behavior. It was a horrible 20 year marriage. My 3 kids are the the best thing that happened in that marriage even though he tried to destroy them as well. 20 months free, no contact just waiting for divorce court date. I’m 49 and it feels so great each day to be out of his presence. The holidays have been so nice. Your videos are dead on.

[Love_GSDs]

That is so true! My ex discarded me in the most disgusting and traumatic way and picked up with someone before he actually left. He said if he hadn't left me I would have left him.... And I was changing. I was opening my eyes and he knew it...

[chawill]

That narcissist who is EVIL didn't want me to tell anyone either, he wanted to violate me and disrespect me, and lie on me AND HAD THE ORDASSICITY TO WANT ME TO JUST ACCEPT HIS INSECURE AND IMMATURE BEHAVIORS. HE IS THE REASON THE RELATIONSHIP DIDN'T WORK

[frenchtons]

A self aware narcissist. Wow, this is so interesting!! I think I found my new favourite YT channel

[tya]

It’s nice to see you healing...you’re obviously happier and healthier. You may always be a narcissist but you are definitely becoming a better you and that’s really the most any of us can do. Great work Lee, thank you for your help.

[StephaniRoberts]

Exposure. Yep. Reputation management seems to be front and center 24/7. He's not happy that I have a podcast and this channel for healing from abuse. 💯Thankful you've stepped out of it and leveraged it to help others Lee!! Bravo!!!! 👏👏

[sofie]

You are leaving a legacy man, for sure! You helped me quite a bit, just by bringing facts.

[jesstruly]

My husbands best scape goat is saying to me, "I have a demon or a legion of demons in me, so it is not my fault and you have to learn to deal with it!"

[flexxyrebel]

If i was close to you, i think I would have that connection with you atleast to know more of how your mind works.... I feel blessed watching you and listening to your jokes and watching you laugh at your jokes aswell but most confirming is that ability of yours facing your demons and with time i could see improvements.. speaking freely about your illness and sending out the positive vibes to those in search... keep it up Lee, give thanks...🙏🏿💯🙏🏿💫

[mamasitatita]

My ex use to say he was afraid “to be forgotten” I felt something when he said that.

[brandnewscw]

Y’all the narc discarded me during my pregnancy and after he discarded us for his other baby mom...just to find out that child isn’t his 🤣 he told me like I was suppose to care smh ppl crazy

[judithreyes]

This is so true .. there’s solace in hearing this truth that when you try to share with family or friends and they don’t believe you. This info is so helpful..

[deonaeddy]

Well Lee I think your legacy is coming true having a YouTube channel. You're pretty famous and in a good way🙂

[dannygavin]

Thanks for getting therapy, staying in therapy and sharing yr gifts. And it's not delusions of grandeur to want to be seen, that's human and to be, and strive to be the greatest version of our highest vision is beautiful and utterly natural. If u could speak on the fear of being intimate and really loved accepted and known and whether they fear their darkness/ lack of connection to divine love I would b extremely grateful. Thanks! Kerstine blessed x

[syahusha]

Lee, I want to thank The Most High for you! You saved me. Thank you for all the information you provided. The narcissist made me discarded him. It has been a healing process. No more crying nights. I pray you and your family stay safe and healthy. Bless you brother.