Traditional Woman CONFRONTS Liberal Men

Traditional Woman CONFRONTS Liberal Men

[MysticSheppard]

I am a good mix of the two. You gotta be careful not to be too agreeable. Being yourself is key. 😸🙀🦁

[marleneschramm]

I do prefer, when I was going on dates, married now, for the guy to make the plans, HOWEVER, I also did like them asking, what I liked/didn't like. Foods I liked/didn't like. AKA asking about what I liked and didn't so they didn't take me to places that I didn't like. BUT is also needs to be where a woman will be willing to go where the guy likes at times too. It is a give and take in relationships. It is not always about the man or the woman.

[PkmNIhMs]

I agree men are becoming more femanized but i dont agree with a man HAVING to plan everything in order to exert his "masculinity-" Im a fully functioning adult and we can plan together- I don't need someone to make plans for me and never once consider my opinion on the situation, what i need is someone I can rely on in tough times, when shit hits the fan I haven a man i can turn to for strrength and logical answers? Does my man personally make the final decision when it comes to BIG decisions? Yes but thats because ive seen him work and trust him enough to make those BIG decisions- but he stills asks me what i want to eat or where I want to go, and if i don't know what i want exactly, then he will make the final decision and i trust that decision.

[ndknight]

Thing is, she wants a man who takes control, then when he does, most times, women will just break up with these men for the same reason that they want to be with them. Women can never make up their fucking minds. Same thing with phone calls, one girl broke up with me because I called too much, then another woman broke up with me because I didn't call enough.

[tallonmartin]

My gf only likes certain foods, if I don’t ask what she feels like eating it’s gonna be war

[talortulk-ugyh]

Well, it’s because we go out on dates with other girls and then we tell them where we’re going when we do that and get all uppity and upset and it ruins the date for both fucking parties

[jacobjordan]

and it is pathetic. I always have it planned out. you + me at this restaurant at 6:30 pm dinner a walk in the park drop you off home around 9:30-10 you have a great night hope to see you again

[Jessica]

As a woman, I know this type...
This is a woman child, she will be completely dependent on you in everyway.
If thats your type, then go for it.
But this is the type of woman that thinks it's okay to stick a fork in a toaster but then gets mad at you because you didn't tell her not ro do it.
She will have the emotional capability of a rock.

It's been a little while since I've been on a date, I'm in my 20s and dating today sucks, took a break from picking through the craziness.
But I've been on dates with both conservative and liberal men.
(I will vote for anyone with a brain and I share views from both sides)
Men from both the left and right have always taken control while planning the date, even if I offered to plan it.
But while taking control they still communicate with me, they don't leave me in the dark.
Why? Because these are grown respectable men, not teenage gym bros who think Andrew Tate is god.
They asks questions because they want to plan the date while including my likes and dislikes.
They ask me questions so we can *BOTH* have a good time.
While doing all of this they show me respect by thinking of me in their decisions. They want to take the time to plan with me, they value my opinion and ideas. They want to speak to me, and take the effort to please/impress me.
They communicate.
They are also getting to know me even before the first date, and I get to know them as these questions always lead to further conversations.
Because we communicate my dates typically bring my favorite flowers or take me to a shared favorite restaurant, food or activity.
As a woman I also always bring something they like to show them the same respect they showed me. It shows them I was also listening to what they like, thought about them and spent my time to buy this thing for them.
Men need to know they are thought of too, it's called mutual respect and understanding.

Now the exception to not communicate is if you've been on a few dates or have been dating for awhile.
At this point this is a surprise for someone you know and care for, not lack of communication.
You know she'll love this date because you know her already.

So men, ask the occasional question while planning your first few dates.
Even if it's just short and sweet conversation so you don't overwhelm each other.
It's just simple communication and respect.

If she doesn't like you asking simple basic questions and acts like this, move on.
Same goes for woman.

Communication is important from the very beginning, communication does not shrink your penis, communication does not mean desperation, communication can be simple.

Again, for both men and women,
you need to understand that communication = respect.

[sambeaumont]

That’s all very well, but often people do not know the other person well enough in advance of a date these days, they like the look or the profile both are probably full of lies.