You're Wrong About Self Love | The Mindset Mentor Podcast

You're Wrong About Self Love | The Mindset Mentor Podcast

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[Photo-msmo]

ONE HAVE TO BE VERY CAREFUL WITH ALL OF THAT "SELF LOVE" CONCEPT OF RECENT TIMES.

IT PRODUCES LOTS OF LONELY AND SELFISH PEOPLE!

[АндрейИзбенко]

It's cool thoughts. I never think about self love like these. Thanks!!!

[nathanleung]

Sincerely self improvement & self love is a priority! Keep up the good work Rob!

[raymondmilton]

This video has articulated my recent "ah ha."

The older I get time becomes more precious. Also, exercise, discipline, and self improvement become more vital to my long tern survival.

[Sweetieee]

It’s crazy how the idea of self love is so wrapped up in self improvement like reading a book or going to the gym, self love should be accepting yourself as you are, the self improvement community always makes you feel like you’re not doing enough or you inherently being yourself is not enough, I’ve fallen for that trap but you can want to improve for yourself because you want to be a better person but also accept yourself & be fine with who you are even if no changes are made because we’re all worthy of being loved for who we are not for what we can do

[tizianamasullo]

So happy I found you !! I think I started the frequency change already 🤣

[maddiehealerbroman]

I already understand about glace if wine cigarettes Netflix and so on

[md.amranhshohan]

Self love is most important to get a happier life .

[Sweetieee]

This is the catch 22 with self love, do you be compassionate or do you be disciplined. Do I let myself off that one day I don’t feel like going to the gym because I’m hormonal & on my period or do I go because I ‘made a commitment to myself’ it’s about listening to what your body needs, some times you’re burnt out, being self compassionate isn’t something to look down on & being self compassionate doesn’t mean to lose sight of your goals either, it’s kind of a dance between compassion & self discipline so you follow through on your commitment to yourself but also are compassionate enough to notice when you’re burnt out & need a break & not be hard on yourself or feel like you’ve failed on that commitment for one day off or a slip up

[Photo-msmo]

I do not agree that drinking wine is an easy way of soothing yourself same as eating a soothing healthy food. In the Mediterranean Region people have been doing that for a very long time and it generally is improving their life in many ways- social life, health wise. It extends and improves quality of life. Of course you need to approach that the right way.

And drinking good wine from a clean glass etc possibly in a good restaurant actually requires efforts and investment.
As opposite to the easy short route of grabbing a vodka and just drinking it straight from the bottle in a dark room alone.

[jannatulferdousijannat]

I am from Bangladesh 🇧🇩.I like to see your podcast.I get a lots of beneficial information from here.

[Sweetieee]

You’re pointing out very things that could lead to harm for e.g. Ice cream can lead to diabetes or being overweight or wine every time you’re stressed out can become an addiction but can’t you say that for anything? Even things that are supposedly good for you like going to the gym? You mention numbing, I feel like we all do that in all kinds of ways not only bad but good, but the reasoning behind it is what makes it unhealthy or it becomes an addiction, like I feel like gym is a form of escapism, just a couple hours to pretend my life isn’t a mess. Self soothing is sitting with your pain, you could argue gym & exercising is a way to soothe or calm yourself down but are you really sitting with what you’re dealing with or running away from it? I agree though most people don’t know how to self soothe because a lot of us weren’t taught it or even allowed to express our feelings as kids

[shroukabdelreheem]

As Muslim it's banned to drink wine ( thank God)