Brother Wanted to Propose at My Wedding, I Said No, So He Turned My Family Against Me.

Brother Wanted to Propose at My Wedding, I Said No, So He Turned My Family Against Me.

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[xxSweetySaraxx]

These Golden child enabler lines crack me up 🤣
“I don’t understand why?”
“Just do it for Dan” 🤭

[simonking]

30yo, lives with his parents, doesn't support them financially, is on the verge of a brakeup and wants to propose on his lil bros wedding. Damn.

[mcclure]

'I need to propose perfectly because she might leave me soon!'

So... don't propose, then? Marrying when the relationship is on the verge of collapse is stupid as hell

[smellyfish]

parents of a golden child having a wake up call in a short period of time and even apologize?! This has to be a fever dream!

[beardedgearhead]

I'm glad OP had the confidence/balls/self respect to stand up for himself. That was a shitty thing the brother was trying to do, and the fact that he and the gramdma refuse to see it as such shows how toxic they are. I'm also glad that the parents were able to see what they'd done and start making things right. It would've been so easy for them to blame OP, but they took a step back, reflected, and realized their mistake. I wish OP and his fiance a happy wedding and marriage.

[A-Warthog-ccwm]

It’s so refreshing to hear a story where the OP isn’t a doormat. In fact, he was the opposite. He nipped in the bud quite fast and threw out some harsh truths to his family. This helped his mom and dad see the error in their ways, while also cutting out the toxic grandma and brother. OP dealt with this situation with flying colors!

[Maninawig]

Honestly, I have heard a lot of golden child stories, of parents crying when it blows up in their faces... but this is the first time that I actually think the parents are on the right track for making amends: sticking to their change, therapy, amonishing the influences, and not pretending they were on OP's side from the begining but remarking how he's been a great son for the things he's done since D-day.

[DarkEinherjar]

Wow... parents who actually have the decency to own up to their mistakes? That's refreshing.

[DarkEinherjar]

The idea of a 30yo manchild calling his grandmother to fight his battles is hilarious.
Anyway, here are some missing updates:

OP's wedding was a success. Grandma tried to attend, but security stopped her. This, coupled with everyone excluding her, caused her to spiral out of control and turn her narcissism and anger on the only remaining outlet - the brother. She even attacked him and spent some days in a cell.

The brother sent OP a letter, apologizing for some things but still blaming him for everything, mainly for the way grandma is treating him now and for the parents not letting him back in their house, and complaining about being uninvited to the wedding. Still a spoiled manchild who takes no accountability, though now he's looking for a new place to live.

The parents are fine, still crawling out of their financial hole. OP's honeymoon also went smoothly.

[Jay-uimc]

With people who constantly pull the “I just don’t understand why…” when you know they fully understand, you can always pivot to a point of that they don’t need to understand your point of view, it’s not your job to persuade them, they just need to respect it if they care about you. Those types of people are trying to exhaust you in an argument by making you repeat yourself over and over and then ultimately make you doubt the validity of your own position.

[idontknow]

THE WAY I GASPED WHEN HE ADMITTED TO MAKING HIS GMA CRY LMAO

[ivymerritt]

I'm impressed with his parents. In the stories like this, the parents never take responsibility for their favoritism. It took their son nearly bankrupting them, but at least now they have a chance to develop a better relationship with OP. Grandma, though, is a real peach, totally delulu!

[TÐK_WIS]

The parents got a redemption ark, those are always the greatest parts of these videos.

[vikafigol]

Funny fact, is that it's her fault, her favorite grandson isn't married. If she didn't enable him lik a 5 year old all these years, he would've grow up a decent man and woman wouldn't run from him after a few weeks of living together and he probably would've been married or atleast engaged. The only person she can blamr is herself, lmao

[deathgrasp]

Comprehension is not a prerequisite of cooperation is the perfect retort to the grandmas i don't understand bs.

[Phoenix-mheo]

The fact that grandma STILL said she just "doesn't understand" even after reading about OP roasting her for continuing to say that exact thing is effing HILARIOUS.

[Adam-hsft]

Isn't this literally a regular show plot

[devhxh]

Parents aren't so clean themselves... They didn't paid of OP College fund.. took a loan to pay brother college.. thn he drop out... Whn OP said he gonna Stop paying 500$ per month, thn they realised they hav another son.

[wouter]

I love the ‘I 25 meters’, you should also do it for women ‘I 25 feet’

[zerofate]

There's more updates to this story.

Before Wedding: Op's grandmother went mental. She went and attacked his brother, since she didnt have a scapegoat anymore, he was her target now. Police was called by the neighbor and she was taken to a psyche hold. Parents visited but she still blames op for everything, but mom shut that down. Brother stayed at grandmother's place while she was away, never visited.

Wedding: everything went smoothly, but grandma did try to get in after she got out the hold. Drove 200 miles and yet was denied entry by the guards, was threatened with police but she left. Brother sent op a text with half apologies and half blaming him for uninviting grandmother and making her lose her temper.

After Wedding: Brother asked to move back in with parents but they said no and he cried and down booze the whole night at the parents place. Dad kicked him out and said if he doesnt apologize to op, he will be no longer considered a son. After a few days he came with a letter apologizing how he is a shetty person and a shitter brother.

Finale: Brother asked his parents and op to help move him as he is apartment hunting but said no. He had to call movers and police becuz grandma wouldnt let the movers in and threatened to unalive herself. After brother left, grandma actually downed pills and called police, she threw up the pills and the doctors pumped her anyways to be sure; they ran tests and found many problems: kidney function low, lung problems, diabetes. She avoided doctors her whole life.

Parents moved her into a care home where she was treated as a child and had to wear an oxygen mask 24/7. She played the victim card hard with the parents to have her taken back home as she is miserable there, but they said no. Soon, op's wife is expecting and that made grandma abit nicer. Soon, she died due a stroke. Nobody but mother cried at the funeral. The brother actually got help and went to therapy and has improved alot.