How to ACTUALLY Get a Girlfriend in 2024 (Full Guide)

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This is how to actually get a girlfriend in the modern era. In this video I talk about step by step how to go about and get a girlfriend in 2024. This has worked for hundreds of my clients, it has worked for me, and it can work for you as well.

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[TheSingleGuy]

Would you guys want me publish the full lectures I do that last over 1.5 hours long? Or is this a good length for a video?

[Leitis_Fella]

Asked a girl out today! She had a BF, but she took it well, as did I. And she respected me for having the courage to ask, and enjoyed the playful banter I teased her with!

The fact that I developed my self-confidence and rizz to the level I needed to have the courage tto ask in the first place made me feel amazing.

I was on a personal "Sigma/Lambda" grindset for years developing my education and career, but after I got a career I wanted, I realized just how lonely I was. I'm 28 and have been single my whole life. Now I've got the ability to change that thanks to dudes like you and Denmo.

[orlandoigno]

Part two should be: how to keep a girlfriend

[Champ]

I agree with this formula. I've always seen it play out for me in this fashion, and sometime before or right about the 3 month mark is when they bring up titles in my experience.

The only thing I might add for guys to consider, is extending that time out before making things official. In this generation, 1 year is the new 3 years. And many relationships don't even make it to 6 months. So, it might be prudent to spend more time vetting a woman before giving her that title. Things to look for:

Does she have male friends?

How does she present her image online?

Does she consistently follow your lead?

Does she consistently make it to planned dates (especially in the first 3 months)?

You might have your own lists. But these are the boundaries that start off small and blow up by the end of the relationship when they become full-blown signs that she's on the way out. Great video, Lloyd.

[gocardinals]

I’ve joined several groups and clubs and everything I join is a sausage fest.

[GPL]

I used your advice to join an activity. My activity of choice was Pilates. I'm often the only guy in these classes. And the only other 2 guys I've ever seen were there with their wives. I've been experimenting with times of day. And I have had very positive interactions with the women. I'm very fit, and one of the instructors even half-jokingly told me I should sign up for their instructor's workshop.

I noticed that the women who were most forward were older or already married. And while the feedback shows me that I'm attractive; I know that for the ones I want, I might have to go to them directly.

I only go twice a week, so my consistency is off because I go at different times. And I have been playing the long game like you suggest. I speak to every woman there, and I haven't singled anyone out as I'm still assessing who the available ones are. What is the best way for me to go direct once I single out my target? With this being a mostly woman environment, word will get around FAST. And I don't want to be that guy who's known for getting at all the women. So please help.

[connor]

Solid advice. I play a lot of badminton at a community centre. I know the game, so I'm always helping beginners who ask for advice. I'm far from the best player, but I love the game and talk to everyone. Met some fun athletic girls on the court! Goes to show that being intermediate+ at an activity can really set you apart.

[sroydetroy]

I liked the fact that this video is 2 month old and barley 500 likings because everyone knows it's much better staying single in 2024.

[nealmccoy]

This video is for young guys. Guys over 35 are either dating multiple women or going overseas and getting with hotties there. I cannot fathom why the hell anyone would want a girlfriend in the west in 2024.

[Tgogators]

Put simply: get your community. That’s a good method of getting “status.” It’s not has hard as many men think. Like concerts? Get into basic promoting. Like biking? Join a group, work to organizing meet ups. Start attending and get involved in a church (more liberal minded ones). Strive to get to the top of what you have interest in. Keyword is “interest” it probably wouldn’t be to your best interest to join an art class “just to get pussy” and keep in mind activities that have diversity to it; as in you probably won’t find a lot of women at classic car shows.

[varsa]

Outcome independance is a big thing. Before the pendemic, I absolutely had 0 anxiety with talking to women. I always figured they would fall in love with me anyway since I'm the best man around. They were indeed lining up to date me. I feel like it's harder to keep up as you get older and you actually want to build a family

[ronniealan]

The best videos man! I really appreciate it. The time the length the info thank you.

[Livstilcoachen]

Thanks man really structured and informative guide with a variety of steps

[pizzicatos.]

Same for meeting new friends in my opinion. Solid advice.

[ronniealan]

Lloyd that was one of the best videos, Loved it!

[thorpe]

Hey Lloyd can you do a video about why some dudes get away with being needy & simping.

College buddy of mine is very needy with his girl, like he has to know everything, where is she every 2 to 3 hours, she has to constantly give him an update about where she is & what she does, yet she's about to marry him next winter, it blows my mind seriously.
They've been together for 5 years now. Keep in mind this is not in USA but in Asia if that makes any difference at all lol! Also keep in mind don't put wealth into consideration here coz she came from a very rich family & probably 20x richer than him.

[OkataAdriano]

I wish I have a girl like you girlfriend 😢 not handsome but pure heart ❤

[amnestylost]

You mean a girlfriend who doesn't try to use you to keep from being lonely for a temporary period before she goes to chase other men again? Like, a REAL girlfriend who doesn't have baggage or issues with men?!

[sprintuser]

Great video, totally agree with all the recommendations.
Big mistake I've made in the past is asking the girl to be my gf (this shows lower value). I now feel that SHE should ask ME (girls love to chase).

[Wolfgggggg]

I started doing taekwondo but not sure if i really like anyone in my class but i exercise at home trying to get a job i did have a job but lost it but it is really lonely being single