the most unhinged husbands on reddit 🫠 r/AmIOverreacting

talking a bit about unhinged reddit posts
in-depth commentary videos at @DAngeloWallace

[indigoberry-ymhy]

"feral woman" is such a genuinely unhinged thing to say to your WIFE??

[Enderception]

These are so sad, they boil down to: "am I overreacting for standing up for myself against someone who actively hates me?"

[fallingawayfromthenorm]

I really hope the OP of the laundry detergent post sees how bad of an idea it’d be to still marry someone who doesn’t care about triggering her allergic reactions. If you’re removing a spouse or fiancée from your will, that should be an immediate indicator that marriage should not happen or a divorce needs to happen.

[maguscluster]

"my husband has never stood up for me when people say mean thing to me." WHY DID YOU MARRY HIM???

[Dragodilian]

If someone put a camera in my daughter's room, i wouldnt be worried about ruining their life. They would be worried about keeping theirs. That man is preying on her daughter

[NONPOINT]

The woman with the deadly laundry detergent allergy should not just change her will, but she needs to find out if there's a life insurance policy on her. Also, it's very odd that he chose to "test" her deadly allergy when she's pregnant. It makes no sense unless he really doesn't want to be a father. Just saying.

[absenti]

1:58 i thought d'angelo was gonna say she should make her boyfriend wear a bra too 😭

[liminal-refridgerator]

Even though lots of these stories are fake, having places where women can say, "my partner is doing X. Is that bad?" and the world can say DIVORCE HIM is really one of the greatest innovations of the internet.

[IzuAurora]

Remember, if you find out/your child comes to you about concerning or abusive "alligations" against your partner the way you react will affect your child. If your first thing is wondering about wether you should or shouldn't "ruin" your partner's life by pressing charges you've already communicated to your child that their future is less important than your partner's present/future/reputation. Just something to think about.

[lilbread]

He calls his partner a "feral woman" because she wants to hang out with her friends and/or her family without him, I call myself feral when I want to bite and hiss at people because they annoyed me. We are not the same.

[KateKanenator]

Wait. Testing her allergy AGAIN?!?! I'm not the only one who heard that, right?? He's done this before???

[SquiresIsle]

"My boyfriend's boundaries feel controlling to me" Those... aren't boundaries. He's using therapy speak to dictate her life and gaslight her. Boundaries are about YOU and YOUR behavior, not the person you're with. Boundaries are like "I don't hug people I barely know, " not "This is how YOU need to dress to keep me around."

[jessicasmiles]

Sodium poisoning of children is a thing. These people need to be in jail.

[ratwhispererr]

“Im changing my will” with no elaboration is SUCH a good line

[Rain_boot]

I absolutely hate how some people act like avoiding triggering others's allergies is such a genuine inconvenience and never take them seriously. Parents *still* complain about not being able to bring peanut butter to school, like, is that PB&J literally worth someone's life? I don't even have an allergy myself, but because my household does, I have never gone out of my way to eat it. Plain and simple. Why is that so hard to respect?

[mostlysondheim]

here's an unsolicited opinion: we fans feel so spoiled with daily uploads

[joshmcgoo]

ER Doc here: the amount of sodium in soy sauce can unalive a baby if they get too much. Kidney damage, swelling in the brain, seizures…. It’s a big deal

[Treegona]

relevant to the laundry detergent allergy situation: These things can be genetic - if mom's allergic there's a chance that baby will be allergic too, or have antibodies against these allergens if they do breastfeeding. This man used laundry detergent that the baby could be allergic to, to wash the baby's clothes. The mom can know what's going on and remove herself from towels or other fabric that has allergens. HOW IS THE BABY SUPPOSED TO COMMUNICATE THAT. Man's angling for a post-term abortion right there.

[neshaheartsyou]

5:31 fun fact: your boundaries should by YOUR boundaries and should not be projected onto other people as a method of control. “I cannot be with someone who lies and proves to not be trustworthy” is a healthy boundary. “I won’t be with someone that thinks it’s okay to not wear a bra” is not a boundary. Changing your partner through “boundaries” is not the same as setting healthy boundaries.

[theoutcast]

I love that argument from parents that they've done everything for you, AS THEY SHOULD SINCE ITS THEIR JOB