Ingrid Asks For Time Apart. CREEPY BRIAN IGNORES HER

Brian and Ingrid aren't in a good place. Now that Ingrid finally knows the truth about Brian's age and his criminal past, she's unsure if she still wants to be with him. But as we're about tot see, Brian is an expert level manipulator. Not only does he manage to get Ingrid to apologize to him (while at no point saying sorry to her) but he also totally ignores her request and weasels his way into her home to meet her child. Ingrid was pretty clear she didn't want that to happen... yet he ignored her and did it anyway. And all it took was some flowers and a toy.

Which raises the question, if she's willing to ignore her gut instincts and turn a blind eye to red flags for the sake of some cheap gifts, what's else is she willing to put up with for the sake of the opportunity of life in the States? Surely that's the only reason she's still entertaining this even though she's clearly uncomfortable, right?🤔

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All thoughts and opinions expressed are my own. This commentary video about Ingrid and Brian from 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days Season 7 Episode 5 is in no way intended to replace or stop you from watching the original show. Remember, sometimes I'm right. Sometimes I'm wrong. These are just my thoughts and our opinions may vary. That's what makes things interesting! Let's continue the conversation in the comments 👇

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[brendarobles]

Lied about his age. Lied about his past. Tried to coerce her into intimacy right away. Tried to paint her as not empathetic. Didn't respect her boundaries. Showed up unexpectedly at her house. Forced his way into her child's life. This guy is dangerous

[sheilalindauer]

Lying about his age would be the deal breaker for me.

[Mel-vpfk]

His wheelchair might be his disability but it's the saving grace of women, they can RUN away. If he was able-bodied, he'd be more of a nightmare

[amber]

I was disappointed that the flowers and the gift were enough for Ingrid to introduce Brian to her son. Now he knows that he can cross her boundaries as long as he brings gifts

[Lola-zhfi]

She's got him figured out and it's pissing him off

[Nicole_Levi]

Him showing up at her house would had pissed me off. Thanks for the flowers and tell him have a goodnight 🤷🏻‍♀️

[bluezed]

The number of red flags he has is crazy 🚩🚩🚩

[local.sagittarius]

brian seems like a person who doesn't apologize for his actions just because only in his eyes, he did no wrong.

[lucybridle]

Wtf Brian?? Stalking her whrn shr told you no! This guy.is.dangerous! He needsto go!😡

[Beeperoni]

He’s so creepy! The little boy is so darn cute, it sucks to see people allow weirdos into their kid’s life.

[artbrutnewyork]

He's a super dishonest creep, but his Portuguese language skills are on point!

[nadiaalbert]

The nerve of this guy showing up at her house forcing himself on her som wtf dude🤬😡

[mysurfing]

Showing him where she lived was a bad choice.

[dyreckta]

This guy is a walkin...rolling red flag

[NatalieRabuzin]

No wonder...he has so many broken marriages and engagements...500 red flags...

[NatalieRabuzin]

She never should have let him in...accept the presents graciously...give him 10 minutes at most and scadadle...

[mariquinn]

This guy has BPD, typical fear of rejection, emotionally desperate, no respect for boundaries, manipulative and intrusive. Dealt with someone like this to recognize the signs. I'd advise this woman to RUN!

[smashingmolko]

See, the trick behind the way he steam rolled her with information is; He lied about his age, she's annoyed, he brings up he was a drug dealer, she's shocked, forgets about the age because it's nothing in comparison. Flips the narrative on her to 'I'm in a wheel chair and you're accusing me of things from a 'traumatic' period of my life.''
She's so overwhelmed with information, and if he's quick enough and doesn't give her time to process the negative, he can love bomb her into moving forward.
As the child of single Mother who's men got me gifts/spent money on me, they were never a respected potential to me. They were buying me, I found it weird and just tried to make the most of the attention while it lasted, because they always ended up being crazy.
He's pushing SO fast to meet the kids and insert himself into their lives, especially on a good note (I buy you stuff, you like me right?) so that suddenly 'just bailing' before it's serious is a less realistic option; the kids like him and are attached to him. That will hurt them, suddenly, she has more to think about regarding leaving and he's going to continue to find every possible way to force himself into her and her kids lives.
The boundary he crossed by turning up was bad enough, but forcing her to introduce them is diabolical.
His behavior is so calculated, easy nature to him, that it IS him. He is disordered and more than a red flag. I'm really worried, because this is not production or scripting, he is like this and people like this are terrifying and abusive.

[moohHa]

Uploaded 18 mins ago?! What a perfect way to decompress straight after work. This has fast become one of my favourite channels on YouTube x

[toocutepuppies]

When you're involved with a drug addict, drug use is NEVER ancient history. 🚩🚩🚩 Brian is still in his love bombing phase. Run, Ingrid, RUN!