10 Reasons Why Men Rejecting Single Moms As Partners Is A Problem

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[mertqq]

I have the resources, but I rather spend my resources on my own children.

[keontrishall]

I don't agree with parts of this... Some men that choose not to date single mothers do have the resources, the kindness, and the selflessness to to care for children that aren't their own. Maybe those men just want kids of their own blood. There's nothing wrong with that.

[candycrusher]

There is no reason a man without children has to become a step father. None.

[redlikerum]

Why don’t you just big up the step fathers and stop trying to demonize men who don’t want to take care of YOUR kids?? If a man doesn’t want to care for someone else’s child that’s their preference (it’s MOST people’s preference.. women included), and it doesn’t mean that they don’t have recourses or aren’t kind. Those men are SMART. I’d never suggest a person without kids to date someone with kids.. I say run far away. Some of y’all mothers don’t even wanna take care of your own kids but want a random man to step in, or you wanna shame men who don’t want you.
This whole video sounds very bitter. It’s like the transwomen who get mad that straight men don’t want them. You made a choice to have those children which slims your options in men. Look for a step father type of man & stop DATING.. start COURTING for marriage. Stop looking for childless men to take you seriously & care for your kids.

[n.manasseh]

#11. Don't be a victim of Gaslighting:
If you are a Young Person (man or woman) and you don't have kids then you probably should not date a person with kids. They're in a different stage of their life.

You should experience the joy of creating your first, new and unique life with someone who is also experiencing it for their first time as well. It is a transformational process that will forever change you and catapult you and your future spouse into the next phase of emotional and spiritual development side by side.

As you plan your life; stay away from any one who is so selfish that they would not wish this blessing for you or try and deprive you of this wonderful blessing of God.

[NAGIUXS]

Men don’t let anyone man or woman shame you for not wanting to date or get married to single mothers. I will tell my daughter this before she’s old enough to start dating (for god sakes, choose right the first time or suffer the consequences of being a single mother). I thought being raised by a single mother myself made it okay to date single mothers….it was far from okay. Even my mother RIP was against me dating single mothers My ex-wife used her power over the children to threaten me with allegations during our divorce (stating she could have her kids say anything she wants). Years or sacrifice and building a relationship with the step children vanished overnight disrespectfully. To make matters worse my biological children are now being denied what my step children had (a father to say good morning and good night to. And many other things my presence provided). I now understand my father better than ever before but it is too late to repair time lost. All this can happen with biological children as well but than the sacrifices would have been worth it. Men stay as far a way as possible from single mothers (especially with young children) they are not your problem to fix. Even your mama will tell you that if it weren’t for the shame and guilt she feels about it.

[danielbrantley]

A guy with no kids that’s carful with his seed, builds himself up to be financially stable, who most Women probably won’t even look his way until he becomes successful, should go out of his way to raise someone else’s child . Step up fellas !

[xclusive]

Being a single parent 9/10 means she/ he made/ makes poor decisions that have lasting impacts. Choosing not to permanently connect with a person like that is reasonable. The person has to make for it in other ways. Nobody I mean nobody is perfect. We should acknowledge that sex and children before marriage isn’t good. If we break those rules it cost. I had a child before marriage so the same thing applies to me. I messed up and didn’t do it the right way to give my child the best chance and environment for success. Just because I made poor decisions does not mean the rules are not true

[susanplatt]

There's nothing wrong with a man not dating a single mother. The problem is with the men who do date them with no intention of staying with them but lie about it and waste their time and label them, shame them, devalue them and hurt them. They often have children they don't bother with and deny having too.

[NikStratus]

I WILL NEVER DATE OR GIVE A SINGLE MOTHER THE TIME OF DAY! And, oh, yes they are the same, because I've seen it enough times to count on one hand! I refuse to partake in that stepdaddy business! You're right, I want to RAISE MY OWN SEED, NOT SOMEONE ELSE'S! I was raised by a narcissist & her simp; not only did she rob me of the covering, love & protection of a father, she had PLENTY OF HELP RUBBING MY FACE IN IT & she set the stigma on why I avoid SINGLE MOTHERS, namely, BLACK SINGLE MOTHERS.

[aizenkloud]

The best way to discontinue the Vicious Cycle of being a single parent is vetting your partner before opening up your legs. If childless individuals don't want to take care of you and your offspring and spend their resources on you they have every right to do so. Because no man or woman owe you any loyalty just because your a single parent.The best thing you can for your child is to let the good men and women in your family mentor said child down the right path. Instead of looking for another man and woman to do your baby daddy and mama job. That's why grandpa, grandma, uncle and auntie exists to help raise the youth. Stop shaming individuals for wanting to raise their own bloodline instead of somebody else bloodline. because at the same-time behind close doors you guys are telling your own children don't be a step-dad and mom but yall quick to jump on camera tryna shame childless men and women for not wanting to raise your children and pick the slack of yall baby mama and daddy

[donaldjames]

So does the single mother bear any of the blame for the choice she made? Just asking for a friend.

[thispersonrighthere]

brothers and sisters who have not had any children, do not let anybody shame you or guilt you into dating a single parent if you don't want to.

you do not owe that single parent a date, even if you were raised by a single parent!

never forget this.

[TheBoogieman]

Dating a single mother in most cases simply isn’t worth it. This is experience talking fellas.

The law says, you can possibly be put on child support for a child that isn’t yours.. this is enough of a reason to avoid at all costs.

[downbad]

Women with no kids DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT DATE A MAN WITH KIDS WHEN U DONT HAVE NONE LET HIM STAY WITH THE GROUP HE HELPED CREATE

[shorts]

Men should have the option to not date single mothers no matter the reasoning same women don't want to date short or broke men, men that aren't in shape etc etc etc...and men accept whatever standards you want to have so you have to respect what your type of man wants or doesn't...see what you want is your standard but you can't control or make someone who is your standard want you if you're not their standard or preference free will doesn't only work on your end

[crane]

Single parents are not bad people. Single parents are bad deals for those without children. It has nothing to do with childhood trauma or not being able to open your heart to someone else's kid or any other shame and guilt tactic that you can think of. There is no benefit to raising other people's kids. For men it's especially dangerous because all it would take is for a kid to claim "he touched me" and he could lose everything. If a man adopts someone's kid he's putting himself at risk for paying child support to the kids if things go left. Also if things don't work out she could leave with her kids after you gotten close to them and you have no recourse. The kid's absent parent could come back at anytime and start asserting his or her rights with regard to the kid.

[TairyHesticles]

I can give you 1, 000 reasons why dating a single mom is a terrible idea.

[josiahbutler]

why are men failing to realize that even if they dont wanna date single mothers, say for example you get with a woman with no kids and you have a child with her, yall get a divorce, guess what, your now a single father…. now go tell a single mother you dont wanna date her 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[cloudsurfer]

I’ve dated a single mother for 3 years grew a relationship with the child he truly thought I was his dad. When the relationship ends so does your relationship with the child you’ve taken to daycare vacations sports endless things! Money spent and one day you never are allowed to see that kid again. It wasn’t worth it fellas. When I look back I regret the entire situation. But still feel love for the innocent boy whom I had grown to love. I understand you guys point of view but you have to understand the amount of investment and emotional risk it takes being a stepdad