I got botched by Botox.

After cracking a tooth, I was encouraged by my dentist to get jaw Botox to prevent teeth grinding. Unfortunately, my Botox was administered to the wrong muscle, and I got botched. Here’s my story to explain why I haven’t been uploading much to my main channel (or showing my facecam).

[deligracy]

Thank you so very much for such supportive, understanding and loving comments ❤ i wasnt sure what to expect from postinf this - it has really blown me away reading them. Thank you so much ❤

[bekemcakr]

i am a dentist who has attended many botox courses. One of the ways to get rid of the effects of botox is to just massage it with an electric toothbrush. The vibrations will help the toxin to metabolise quicker. Hope this helps

[herbyLW]

I know you don't want to sue, please report this doctor if that is something you can do in Australia. If he is teaching, there is an issue in what he is teaching.

[KatherineH_]

As a nurse I’m so immensely pissed off by the doctor’s reaction. Sure you got the refund but to make you feel that way and then deny any issues 😡 he’s definitely done this before and never learns. Not sure how medical board or certifications are regulated there but he probably shouldn’t be certified for Botox injections.

[ameliawinters]

I'm a pharmacist in the US and we are trained in school on how to apologize to patients when a mistake occurs. We literally had actors come in acting as upset patients so we could practice how to be empathetic and resolve any animosity.

[lolaaa]

The way that doctor handled it is so unproffesional and mean. An apology after such a mistake is so important because of the emotional effect this had on you! I'm sorry you were treated that way ❤

[sophiecampbell]

Waivers do not absolve mistakes you guys!!! Businesses will make people sign waivers because they are typically ignorant to how the law works, and the waiver will make it look very legal and professional, but it isnt. They're counting on your ignorance. You. Can. Sue. This isn't about money. This is about being compensated for your emotional truama and holding him accountable. I'm very passionate about this lol.

[barbmiles]

Dr's gaslighting patients is one of the worst things ever... they are in a position of power and think they can get away with saying anything. Thanks to James for being your support person and co-advocate.
As much as you might not like your face... we love you for who you are, not what you look like.

[karinafarrell]

I hate that the doctor gaslighted you until James stepped in and said something.

I love that you made this video and shared the risks and walked everyone through the process of how you advocated for yourself.

Also, I think it’s hysterical that he was essentially bragging about his office staff having 50k followers… meanwhile you’re at over 1M! Up yours doctor, don’t mess with our girl!

[jengreeeen]

Tip: Botox gets processed faster by people who workout a lot and have fast metabolisms. I know this because when I was a bodybuilder I had to get my Botox topped up twice as often and my dr. explained it. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It’s heartbreaking and a hit to the confidence. Hopefully some HIIT can help you burn through it faster ❤️

[Pollynation]

James nailed it when he said “arrogant and egotistical”. Disgusting behaviour from the doctor!

I’m so glad you advocated for yourself and had James for support. Take care and be kind to yourself. You are beautiful inside and out xxx

[kateaverett]

The frustrated tears in the office of a gaslighting doctor are the WORST! I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I’m glad you had backup.

[kelsie]

The “please leave, you’ll get a refund” comment at the end really got me 🤣🤣🤣

[LittleLyrics]

The doctor not believing you until a man spoke up is honestly so frustrating!! glad he was there to speak on your behalf, but it's still hard.

[rachel_against]

The medical gaslighting and the doctor only listening when James started to step

[MelaniePhoenix]

The doctor's reaction was despicable. He basically retraumatized you by shifting blame and invalidating your VERY VALID concerns! What an absolute 🐴 🎩

[jk]

I don't know what it's like in Australia, but in the US, you can present this evidence to the licensing board (free of charge) and they'll review the physician's right to practice.

[_ZombieDoll_]

Sounds like some classic medical misogyny and gaslighting and I'm sorry you went through that, it's never fun, but I am glad you were able to advocate for yourself and that James was there to back you up, that takes a lot of strength, if nothing else you can be proud of yourself for that ❤

[kaylabrown]

The doctor was absolutely unprofessional. I don't like that you can't sue him. I hope you don't ever go back to him. Good job, James, for backing up Deli. Deli, I'm so sorry that the doctor didn't even have the common decency to apologize or to listen to you.

[yeowflower]

It makes total sense that this has effected you psychologically. Not only has this happened outside of your control and as you said it’s “confronting” to see yourself this way, but smiling releases hormones that boost happiness. Also as a speech pathology student, your speech is sounding normal even if it feels different. If you’re worried about muscle compensation in that area it may be worth sticking to softer foods when you can. It’s ok not to feel ok and I hope it resolves soon ❤