Why the sexual pull to the narcissist is so strong

At its core, the sexual pull towards the narcissist is deeply rooted in complex psychological factors that intertwine with primal instincts and innate vulnerabilities within individuals. The narcissist exudes an aura of confidence, charm, and charisma that can be intoxicating, drawing others into their orbit with promises of excitement, adoration, and fulfillment. This allure is often bolstered by a carefully crafted facade that conceals the narcissist's underlying insecurities and manipulative tendencies.

In this video we will look at the complex interplay of desire, validation, and vulnerability that keeps individuals ensnared in the web of the narcissist's allure, often at great emotional cost. Understanding the underlying mechanisms behind this attraction is essential for empowering individuals to break free from toxic relationships and cultivate healthier patterns of intimacy and self-love.

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[GoogleUser-pctu]

For me, it’s the mysterious side of them that keeps me ruminating. Logically, that’s why they’re so toxic .

[JanetNewnes]

It’s so weird! That happened to me! I never felt that way about anyone else!

[mmm]

It’s a very dark energy ‘the spirit of Jezebel’ I believe this has a strong spiritual pull ! The female narcissist i know is a master seducer. Another wonderful vid thanks Anna.

[vickibazter]

They make you feel ecstasy at first. ❤

[teresahunt]

Once you decide you're done, you realize the sex wasn't all that great. It was a performance and they were the star. You were just an extra on the set.

[seankay]

Most narcissist seem to be physically, very attractive people.
Perhaps they learn to use their looks from an early age to manipulate people and master their technique as they get older.

[nathalieeex]

That’s what happened to me and one of the reasons I stayed so long. I was so sexually pulled to her even tho she rarely returned the favor. I’ve never felt that way towards anyone. still struggle with it at times but realizing what she is has made me lose a lot of attraction.

[vincentferguson]

The strangest thing.. to hear someone talk of MY narcissist and know all her sexual guile and manipulation and behaviours. Drawn in knowing I had some attachment issues myself and reassured and seduced and made, yes made to fall in love - I couldn't help it - and then to be left high and dry and confused and questioning my mental self. And so I reached out to one of her former partners and heard his story mirror mine to a T. Then after no contact to be drawn in and in and captured again in her spiders web of deceit, lies and mistrust. I'm forever bonded as I've never felt love like it, she has my heart but not my soul. I understand what she is and what a fool she made of me.

[janfinale]

My experience was more complex & disturbing with the ex I recently left, going "no contact" after exposing his first outburst of rage - out of the blue, with the most gutteral sounding bellow😳 I too had been overwhelmed with the unexplained sexual intensity, passion & lust I was feeling - like nothing before (& I've had my share of partners in my 69yrs). Even though I wasn't initially attracted to him physically, he quickly became the best lover I'd ever had, and was my 1st foray into a (Demonic) Narcissitic relationship. On two occasions, when we were intimate his eyes became glowing almond shaped, almost blinding, his slender body became rock hard & muscular, while his face morphed into a smiling Satan - like I was being welcomed into the DARK side. I had to close my eyes in fright & disbelief - feeling like I was engaging with the Devil - both euphoric & disgusting. There seems to be very little information on the unbelievably unsettling topic of Demonic sexual interaction.

[alexcabaangable]

I'm still not totally free from him. But I'm trying to be strong and outsmart him. But it's hard really.

[Bluesky-fn]

I was so sad, but now I think I am lucky that it did not get to that point. I was very attracted but I said no, so he ghosted.

[judy]

Love the highlights in your hair! Beautiful

[sleepydoppy]

And I went in hook line sinker and the whole damn fishing pole

[extremecars]

Ask Anoushka you are 100% right I tried to pick everything apart that you talked about and you're right every single time it's so hard to move on

[leahostevens]

Ive been apart from my ex for two and a half years and lately I’ve been thinking of him sexually.. not sure why..because I in now way want him back. He’ll never change… he caused me a lot of heartache… and I have no interest in dealing with that again.

[flying_finn]

I've been having issues dealing with someone and found your videos a few days ago. I had for so long been confused about why I continued to feel the way I do and why they reacted the way they did when I realized over a year ago that it was all a game to them and I went no-contact. They tried their hardest to get me fired from my job (we were co-workers) by complaining to HR with things like "He parks beside me all the time", where I only parked beside them a couple of times over 9 months as I didn't know which car was theirs and used the closest empty space. In the end I realized that I had to look after myself and left that job. My stress and some health issues went away pretty quick. A lot less anxiety and depressive episodes now and I am so much better off.
I look forward now to the newest videos and learning not only more about myself but also her. I worried for the longest time that I was a narcissist since it seemed like that is how they were portraying me. I do understand that I have some tendencies (as do almost everyone in some form at some time) that stem from childhood trauma from my parents but I am not even close to what actual narcissists behave like.
I am thankful for your videos and am grateful for my healing journey now on its way.

[ghaili]

Love bomb first and yes thinking about him.

[raidenewalden]

We have a lovely time together . The chemistry is so strong from my side and so his side that that keep as close . Even now that the affection from his side is gone but for me everytime I hug him just made me full asleep so quickly.He likes it when I hug him . This is what keep us still together even I said no to him in a lot of times

[arthur.phoenix]

*Like # 158* If you are "falling in love" for the first time this may be difficult to see or understand simply because it is your first time, it is all new, and you are uncertain of where boundaries are, you may not know how to set boundaries or even know why you need boundaries. Every sports game has boundaries. Boundaries can help keep you safe: physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, financially. Having mature and/or experienced friends, good communication where you can talk things out, talk things through, someone who may help you see thing more clearly. Good books, good movies, soulful music may also help give some advice, bring clarity and/or guidance.

[truthseeker]

So intense, yet so void of truth, so intoxicating, yet so empty, so promising of satisfaction, never delivering, I come to the conclusion they have mastered the art of lust in its darkest form. Pure slavery, I have exhausted all sexual experiences with my ex borderline. The more I gave in, the more death entered my soul, with a insatiable appetite for more, there is no casual sex, you will reap the void in your soul. You become one with their darkness which equals pain, pain, pain. Truly I would rather be alone the rest of my life or die than to be intimate with a bpd or npd..