Why She Won’t Stop Talking About Her Ex

[BRABLE]

No man should tolerate his partner talking about her ex. Good advice 👍🏽

[nicksantaniello]

She ain't over him. Plain and simple.

[jrebuilds]

Don’t be her emotional tampon fellas. 😮😂

[MaxmusPrime]

“You cannot come to me when you need to talk about your past relationship. The amount of times he comes up in conversation is disrespectful. I will not be your outlet to vent about your ex. If this continues to be a problem in our relationship, I will be moving on.” -Billie Rae Brandt

[sykotikathirteen]

Anyone who talks incessantly about their ex man or woman is still hung up and can never be satisfied. You will never be as good so let them go back to their ex.

[randygomez]

Our society today teaches men that having boundaries means your insecure. Which is totally backwards. Having boundaries is how become secure.

[QuickCuriosity]

I dated a girl who spoke about her ex all the time and she would also use him to gaslight me. Needless to say she was to catalyst I needed to go from simp to chad. Now I’m in a much more healthy relationship with a wonderful woman and nearly two years strong 💪🏻

[williamlawrence]

Here's my remedy to that. If she wants to continuously talk about her ex, just ask her politely to introduce you to him. So, you can gather your own personal opinion of him, without the influence of a chided/shunned lover.

You know...because there's always two sides to the story. I want to hear his. To be certain where I'm at in this.

No?

Not a good idea?

Well then... STOP F**KING TALKING ABOUT HIM!!!

[WilliamCooper-lf]

I agree with your prognosis, but I'd like to suggest, that often women take breakups more personally and need to proclaim their defense as to why the relationship didn't work out. It's something she should do with her mother or other female confidants, but not to her future husband. Sharing her past boyfriend injuries with the current boyfriend is disrespectful and tacky as hell.

[kennybrannan]

Absolutely!! If she kept talking about her ex to me I would say "well, Since All you want to do is to Talk About Your Frickin Ex So Much, !? You Must Still.Have a Thing For Him! So Why don't I Just TAKE YOU By His Place, Drop You Off so You Can Sort It OUT With Him!! Just Let Me Know When Your Finally FRICKIN OVER HIM!!

[trestuck]

WOW !!! Thats nothing but the
Truth !!! Thank you !...

[anuragskgautam]

I am in a relationship with a girl with past. We are going to get married. But she brings in her past relationships for no reason into any random topic. I know her story because in the beginning I listen to her to understand her before moving forward. But now it's getting on my nerves. Also I know the things she did for her exes. And I know she didn't even do 10% of such things for me even sexually.
Now I don't want to marry her.
Don't know what to do .
Also she keeps blaming me that I am immature and jealous and not man enough because I get pissed of by her talking about her ex.

[Mr]

Sharp and smart. Many men can benefit from your advice

[SpaceyFace]

Worth the sub. Great material. Good to see a young woman with traditional value. Thanks

[Mr_natenut]

I love this lady. She is a rare species. Pay attention fellas

[prplhze]

I find within a two or three minutes switching the conversation to something else usually works. If she keeps coming back to it, deal breaker. Of course, you can always go for broke and say I wanted to learn more about you, not your ex. ;-)

[codewarrior]

Thank you for the red words. 👍👍 I often know when something is bullshit, i just don't know how to articulate it.

[shannonpickens]

Yeah if they were not married and had no children together… then she needs to quit.

[DoctorEstoico]

Fear of loneliness is the main reason a lot of people stay in situations like the one you were taking about.
Men, learn to be alone. It will make you a better person. But not alone as in hedonism=nihilism but as in stoicism. Grow, get better as a human being. Enjoy go to the movies, concerts, restaurants by your self and enjoy it.
Same for women.
When you can be with yourself, you won't tolerate crappy behavior.

[awalk]

What surprises me is where you get this wisdom from. I am very impressed, because it is so correct. If she is constantly going on about the ex, why is he not there? That is the big question. What did she do?