3 Awesome Tips About How Men Think- For Women Over 50

[daveshore]

Single minded focus built all the modern world. Everything we make and build is due To our focus. Women take men for granted

[patrickp.]

You are so right in your observations about us men. When my wife, or my daughter says "I need your help", saying no is simply not an option, I am compelled to do what I can. Or when asked "would you please..." can't say no. Doesn't mean I'm a pushover, I'm certainly not, but I have a very strong protective instinct for my family being a good provider and living up to my portion of the caretaker duties is important to me. My wife does take the time to tell me that she appreciates what I do in our lives, I don't need to hear it every day to know she feels that way very day, and know that what I bring to the table is appreciated and valued. This makes all the difference in the world!

[markadams]

I'm a widower and dating. It can be very challenging. So often society and women tell men their bad or toxic. It warms my heart to hear you make kind comments about men. You are so right that most men love women and want to keep them safe and happy. It gives us purpose and fulfillment. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

[TheZrpilot]

To boil your three points to a few words, all delivered with honesty and genuineness :
Give:
1) respect
2) appreciation

[Snarge]

Hello Lisa,
Your challenge on You Tube is getting women to notice. For whatever reason it seems men tend to watch You Tube while women tend to follow TikTok. I'm sure you've already noticed it's mostly men who are commenting on your channel. Good luck in getting your word out to women as it has always been a challenging for one sex to understand the other.

[GBU]

I tell all women don’t try to change me and even more importantly I don’t want her to change. After 50, a man values his peace, quiet and sanity more than anything else. I don’t know why but women seem to feed off of drama. If she wants to stay in my life, I tell her if she can add to my life in ways that make my life easier, I will want her to stick around. Too many women sabotage their own opportunities because they can’t get out of their own way.

[Geoduck.]

Thank you for respecting and understanding us older men Lisa. I deeply appreciate your compassionate and respectful description of us. In todays world older Caucasian men are often portrayed in an incredibly negative manor. We tend to avoid women not that we dislike ladies but because so often we are treated with distain and hate. Again not all ladies act out this way but many do.

[coletteHawk]

It's refreshing to see a lady with some balanced advice about dating in the Gen X and Baby Boomer crowd. I've always enjoyed men's company, despite making plenty of mistakes in my relationships along the way. I think I'm more centered now in my understanding of the way men tend to think (generalizing - everyone is still a unique individual), and I try to remember how to speak to my intimate partner in a way that he will best respond and that will help us understand one another. Please continue to make these great videos!

[randydell]

About 3 years ago a 10 year acquaintance lady friend recommended I get some Alison Armstrong literature....I did and her teaching have changed my life..I finally stood up for myself with my GF and her emasculating me, and I left her. I don't especially like being alone, however I would rather be alone than be emasculated. I though I would bring this up because yesterday I found you and subscribed, and have listened to several of your broadcasts, and I feel as thought you are right on....thanks for telling the ladies we love them and we are not like them. Alison does a fantastic job explaining some of the idiosyncrasies of both sexes and why. It might help some of us and your channel if you interviewed her. The more I listen to you, the more I believe you already know about AA.

[eddy]

in a man's body - Dr. John Gray says the same thing!! Ladies, we're not women (well, most of us guys), I like being a man and will continue to do so....I also love meeting a nice, balanced woman that appreciates our differences. and celebrates them. Yes, us guys do need to learn to listen, Dr. Gray says 80% of the time the woman should do all the talking...that is a work in progress! LOL Brilliant video Lisa!! /eddy

[joyfulmax]

I have 3 sisters, was a nurse when it was a female dominated profession, and I didn't have a good idea about men. Then I had 2 sons. Boys were wonderful! and, as they grew up, I realized how awesome males are. They have so many strengths and interests and emotions. They don't expect women to be men. I love their energy, their focus, their masculinity. I'm a divorced 65 year old woman. I have found that many men my age are kind and sincere and want a true friend and companion.

[cfiperry]

FYI: There is no such thing as a “multi focused” human. If you are “multi-tasking, ” you are not really focused.

[jn]

Women who behave in masculine way all their life cannot just shut it off. For these boss chicks, it will be difficult for them to find someone compatible.

[anthonypetrozzelli]

Excellent video! As a 65 year old man, I agree with what you said. Older single and married men have been beaten down with criticism and betrayal. When an older woman is friendly, warm, and doesn't have a sense of entitlement as well, not bringing up past baggage of ex-husband's or boyfriends, this is very refreshing. I know a lot of older men who have gone through the pain of divorce or being treated from their wives or ex wives as garbage.. There are good older men out there who are looking for companionship of older mature women who will be loyal and there for him. Men have to trust before they can commit. Also, a man really appreciates when a woman that he likes cooks or bakes for him. When a woman does this for a man, that is love being demonstrated! Also, men don't care about your success and career. They want to care about you! If you want a gentleman who will court and treat you like a lady you deserve, you must be an appreciative lady who is willing to listen and be a girlfriend! You do that. You will find a man ready to commit to you.

[RodT]

The problem with women asking for help is that they are not direct. If a woman beats around the bush we may ignore the request. It's annoying to not get to the point. You are correct just simply ask for help. We like that and want to help the women we care about.

[saulroot]

Realistically what do women over 50 actually bring to the table ..
I refuse to date them because they are still demanding like when they were in their 20s..
Might as well go younger with the same demands ..

[Phaedrus-thbi]

OG. I just heard you say, "after you've asked for his help, don't then tell him how to do it". OG That struck a nerve. My wife does this to me all the time, and what drives me crazy is that it is always about something she herself has never fixed, repaired, done before, or but she thinks she knows all about it. Drives me nuts! Sorry, but you struck a nerve. My experience is that most women do not know when to shut up, and men hate this. It's like, just ask me once or twice to do something, but then stop asking. I have NOT forgotten, but maybe I have prioritized other things first. I admit, often when she tells me a 3rd or 4th time, I deliberately then do no do it. It's my FU penalty to her. Men hate women nagging. (God's honest truth.) Maybe God gave Adam a wife, so she could constantly remind him of his faults and point out all his "mistakes". Maybe God has a wicked sense of humor. - God help us all.

[lorraineb.]

And men need to learn to understand us.

[boldgold]

Trying to make a woman happy is a fools errand. What have you done for me lately?

[daveshore]

It’s not that we don’t feel like we can please you. It’s just outright disrespectful to stand over us. It’s the kind of thing that if you were a man it’s a threat or an act of dominance. From a woman it’s treating us like a boy. We don’t live to please you. But many women can not be pleased ever. Act like a woman not a feminist.