How that one friend became so nonchalant #friends #chill

[matthewrodriguez]

on a serious note, i feel for these guys. they feel the need to harden their heart after being hurt so many times

[redacted-xd]

When you act like you don't really care about something, no one will bother trying to screw it up for you

[domonator]

They stopped caring and are so numb cause they gotta be. They learned expectations just don’t pan out for them. Feel that shit

[broskispeaks]

Bro, it's illegal to be this relatable.

[ngtfoqs]

best part abt growing up… cuz at some point you been through so much emotionally you just genuinely couldn’t care less about the dumb shit

[noneyabizz]

Basically when life breaks you down you develop thick skin.

[DetroitSports-rv]

The real nonchalants be saying ‘oh word’ to every thing

[allstonn]

dam this some real shit. put all the energy into the wrong people and once you get done dirty you step back and never care that much again

[Pintobeans]

The “1 year, lateeeer” gets me every time 😂😂

[TheBanjoShowOfficial]

I didn't even realize until watching this that this is literally who I became. Having a best friend backstab you in one of the shittiest ways possible as a young man, getting cheated on with said best friend, investing 3 years into another relationship only to be completely abandoned afterwards as well at the drop of a pin, just a general distaste for socializing with other people due to always being perceived as weird or something, etc. It's just like shitty event after shitty event you realize you just have to write your own story and not give a fuck about anything else. Makes it hard to make new relationships. It really does. You disassociate frequently as a defense mechanism, you never trust anyone, it's truly wonderful. You could be friends with someone for years and never fully trust them. The only people in my life I trust are my parents, when they go, I will truly have no one that I trust from the bottom-most depth of my heart. That will be a sad day.

[kyotocat]

lots and lots of held in laughter and emotion you wanna share but too scared no one will match ur energy back. this is very relatable.

[Bandris]

hit em with the “ay, whatever yuh know” 😂

[LowLiving]

It's sad because we don't really become colder, just more accepting of our situation. But 10/10 the fact you made a video about "that guy" really means a lot

[SoopaBlitz]

It's either you stop caring or you crash tf out. Everyone who's stopped caring has spared lives in that moment.

[JAXsolochannel]

This is very true. As a matter of fact. This is me. I was hurt, and almost wanted to take it out on others, and I might’ve in some capacity, but just decided to move on and learn to not give into those who were bringing me down

[SuaveLex]

True af. As a kid you feel like SpongeBob. When you’re older, you turn into Squidward.

[Roadman]

Even when you don't care, it still hurts a little inside

[Postal-Dude]

As a nonchalant person, this is true. We really make the mistake of letting ourselves get hurt all of the time, and feeling for too many people. Being too nice just for the goodwill of others gets you hurt in this society. The only ones that are really worth trying for are your friends, loved ones, etc, and those friends should accept your flaws and just who you are without you changing too much about yourself.

Remember: MOST of us aren’t heartless, we’re just broken from being hurt time and time again. Keep in mind that we can still feel things, it’s just more difficult to do so or express that we can.

(P.S, I also kind of hate it when people try to act like they don’t care about things to appear cool or mysterious. Stop it.)

[coopsahoy]

When you stop giving af, you become a lotttt happier tho

[kristabistaify]

That's really sad, people messed with a good person.