Framing the conversation so people don't interrupt you

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So true. So awesome 🎉... I've found that in everyday conversation, talking louder works. People stop talking and they listen!

lapeaches
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You’re the man! Thank you for your content!

Butman.
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Your videos have really come at a crucial time in my life truly. I had some medical crisis and it isolated me in a way I hadn't been isolated, and I kinda lost all my confidence in communicating, and lo and behold, your videos appeared, cheered, and have given me real skills. Thank you!

elisajimenez
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I like to say how many points I have before I give them so they know there is more coming. “I have 2 thoughts on this….”

The only problem is sometimes I forget the second thought. 😂

sknchill
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i've tried this. it seems weird at first but it works. talking to people with adhd they will interrupt anyway but you reminding them of the convo frame they apologise

Mr_Beuregard
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I appreciate all that vin is teaching, this one is a bit weird for me, I can't see myself setting a timer when I'm talking to a friend, I actually do so when I'm debating a friend (try it, it's very fun).
But not just out of the blues.

makeitraindom
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Genius! This puts everyone on the same page before you even share and now they’re actually listening attentively.

Funnymike
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If you lack authority, then ask for it. Period.

the_Morteza-Tajik
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State your alotted time to speak. This would of helped me so much with my ex. He had a way of dragging every conflicting conversation out and wouldn't let me speak or it was just viewed in his eyes that I wad defending myself. Then cut me off if I defended myself. Relationships aren't hard. It just takes mutual respect. 😩💔

syzygy
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Hmm, if you can get this to come across as genuine and not sarcastic or condescending then yes. Also there is no guarantee the person will not still butt in…Not to say this is a bad idea. I like the approach. Give it a try 🙃

darkhorse
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How would you ever get away with communicating like that in any normal setting, you’d sound like a narcissist

ForlornCreature
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This ninja going game I knew it by the t

briancrule
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Ppl with adhd will only listen for 1 min max

SpiritPhilosophy
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if there are more ppl around engaged and really listening to every word i say in the convo and someone butts in (they usually do it in a volume louder than you to take authority) I say (in a volume even louder) "Did the middle of my paragraph interrupt the beginning of your fucking sentence? thank you." with the swear word no matter how professional the setting is. sometime i get giggles for the rest sometime they just look at the interrupter with frown face, works every time. your idea seems eliminates that from even happening imma try it next.

sufian-ben
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Who the fuck would do that though lmao

juniorperavlova
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Why is adhd getting more popularity nowadays?

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