The Four Best Ways To Respond To Your Exes Texts

The Four Best Ways To Respond To Your Exes Texts

Before you start texting your ex it is really important that you implement a No Contact Rule. There are many reasons why but mainly it gives you both some time away from each other so the most important thing, is that you do the No Contact properly

These are four different types of texts to send to your ex with the assumption you have already completed the No Contact. One concept you need to understand when you get into the texting phase is something called mirroring. So, this means you need to match the amount of effort he has put into the text message that he has done.

Text #1 – I've been thinking about you so much

Naturally you’ll be excited of having an ex text you something like that. It is not the correct way to act. The correct answer would be “Well, of course you do"

Text #2 – Hey, Sup, Yo

How do you deal with this? There is a lot of different ways but remember mirroring is important, so if he sends a text saying “hey” just reply or don’t respond at all. If he puts in the minimal effort you give a little less.

Text #3 – Hey, I can’t go out with your today I got super busy

This is a rough message where you have to just accept it and tell them that you are going to reply with a text that shows you are not going to wait around for him just because he is letting you down.

Text #4 - “haha”

So when you send him a message that has a lot of effort and he gives out a minimal effort message. The best thing you can do is not respond or even mirror his response.

[rockn]

Most of you are chasing the wrong person. If they leave, make them do 100% of the effort to get you back while you're out finding the new person that will appreciate you way more than the ex ever did.

[pensandnoodles]

3:43 lolol I was watching it at 1.5 speed too, so even funnier. It says something about your style of presentation that I don't even want this advice bc I'm not in this situation right now, but I just watched several of your videos

[Husnu]

Chris Seiter. you the best in this field so far. i have been listen to many break up recovery gurus out there and have actually been in certain programs out there. but i wish i had joined your programs now, because i like your approaches more convincing and helpful. you genuinely want to help out people who are devastated with broken hearts, and i deeply believe that all your videos have helped me channel my feelings and goals during the break up. all your videos are funny, and it kind of heals in a way and brings hope when everything is being lost. i really highly appreciate what you do, and really highly recomend your channel over others. your videos are not just reading from a pre-written scripts they seem to come from the heart. when my ex texted me, i was really lost, what he did with his texts were toatally killing me. and because of this video i knew what i had to say. at that time, i was already on a program of 1 to 1 coaching, and i asked the coach of what i should respond with, he didnt tell me how to respond. but his way worked too. but then again, i find your videos especially this one really good. thank you so much Chris. May God bless you. Ameen.

[jennifermayhue]

“Why did you unfriend me?” 6 days no contact. I said I’d assumed I’d been blocked and then told him I was no longer interested in being friends. Back to day 1 no contact now lol

[danam]

you're very detailed chris love it ;)

[quezlive]

Ok so I was talking to this girl for about a month and a half, we went on 3 dates and texted almost everyday during the time we talked, we really liked each other. About 3 dates after our 3rd date (it was great) I noticed her text weren't as fun or exciting as they usually were, I eventually asked her "if we started dating were you planning on telling your parents?" (Her parents didn't know about me cause they're kinda strict) she never replied after that, so about a day later I asked her why she wasn't replying and is everything ok, she never replied to that either. 2 days later I asked her "do you like me or not? I really like you and I want to make you my gf but if you're not feeling it anymore just tell me" she said she realized she's not ready for a serious relationship yet, she wishes she was but she's not 100% emotionally there yet (I think she's scared cause the only other relationship she was in lasted 2 years and she got cheated on) so a couple days later I asked her if she still would want to hangout and take things slow, she said she's not open to putting herself out there yet and that she's very cautious because of everything that's happened to her. She also said if I want a serious relationship I should look for someone who also wants one cause she's not ready. After that I did no contact for 16 days, I sent her a memory text, I ended the convo quickly but it was great, the next day was even better, we texted throughout the whole day, it was as if we never stopped talking, we were flirting and making jokes the whole time but the two days after that were kinda boring because she was busy, so we texted for 4 days straight and I sent her one last text on the 4th day, she never replied after that though, it could be because she went on a road trip to Florida the 4th day, she's currently in Florida right now on vacation but she has yet to text back all though she still watches my snap stories, what should I do?

[lightofdawn]

Wow.. if my ex texted anywhere near that level of ... nothingness, I'd most likely lose brain cells and have to put him into the 12 yr old child category.

[chempanda]

How are you? Isn’t that a common one too?

[ryank]

After 3months of no contact she text me "hmm". What is this mean?

[lenoremann]

the acting thing about texting cracked me up. lol..

[toobarahmankhan]

My ex texted me a few days ago. I did an open and shut conversation with him. I wrapped up on the note saying "m busy. Shall talk later". So that went well. But I just want to understand "WHAT NOW?" Should I approach him now or wait for him to reach out again (which BTW is less likely to happen now)

[anyanwulinda]

Chris... You are so funny... U are cracking me up with your display

[mathildakamara]

Chris you are simply the best. Omg 👍🏻🙏🏻😘

[Bubbles]

Hey chris do you do one on one advice? like coaching for something like that, if you do i would be very interested in it :)

[minhafatima]

I sent msg to my ex miss you too.. Have I did something wrong?

[maimunasauda]

what if he texts after no contact, "my friend is telling about us", what does it mean?

[christopherm]

Chris the Sebastian thing is over the top.

[shahryarkhan]

what to do if your ex texts you" sorry for everything " after 6 months

[munirazaira]

Sebastian is the best!!!

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[christina]

Ur So cute Chris. Funny thing is my ex is called Chris 😂😂😜