This really bums me out

This really bums me out

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[joeyorourke]

Blaming the victim is unforgettable period.

[rebeccas]

I'm 70 and this is so true and so uncalled for. I raised my three daughters to always put themselves in another's shoes.

[CarrieLovesLife.]

I am with you. Men’s sexist attitudes toward women is infuriating. Women hating on other women is far worse.

[debkauble]

Me too. At my age, I would say 85% (maybe more) of the women that I know have had some kind of SA in their life. I noticed that a lot of women who have this kind of attitude towards the victim have never been victims themselves. They better hope they never do because they’re gonna get attitude like that and they better be able to take it.

[lalalevej]

I bet we can guess who Chrissy voted for....

[suegeew]

THANK YOU! It's about time a man (or anyone) started this conversation. It's like voting against your own self interests.

[wryter]

I'd respond to that woman asking "Who betrayed her so badly that she throws that on other women? Or Did she betray someone horribly and is throwing her guilt around? I believe Blake completely.

[melissagallinetti]

This is why I refused to prosecute my grapist because I couldn’t handle the possibility of being grilled and not believed. I requested him to be deported to save myself the pain of public scrutiny.

[auntiewewe]

I just had it out with someone claiming to be a former SA victim that actually said it was " karma" for Lively. These people are either trolls or seriously disturbed, jealous, people.

[vanessacallahan]

Traitors! Obviously have few girlfriends. As most women I know have been SA’d. Including myself, as a child and as an adult. Doesn’t know the hell when nobody believes you, even your family and friends. When you’re shamed to feel guilty. When you fear going out anywhere. When you have to have therapy for years. When you get triggered by smells that remind you of your perp. When you lose trust in all men. The nightmares, the depression, the lack of self esteem, the undeserved guilt and the wrecking of any healthy sex life.
Women like this make me sick but I hope it never happens to her.

[staceyrashkin]

Totally. They have no idea what she is like and they're accusing her of being someone that would willfully have sex with someone else and then when they're caught call it sexual assault. They have no idea what her character is. How would they feel if their daughter came to them and said somebody sexually harassed them or sexually assaulted them. Would they turn around and say to them well you did something to deserve it ? Wtf

[pamcoyer]

We women are our worst enemy. We’ve been trained to snipe at each other because a man has screwed up again. God forbid we blame him.

[michellecarey]

I agree with you. Victim blaming? Not acceptable. Especially from a female! We need to support other women. Not trash them. Blake, or any woman or man, should not have to take harassment like that. The way he acted was horrendous. Thank you for this Hawk. Thanks for being a good man.❤

[jackifeild]

It's so important women supporting women. Thank you for doing so. I'm bummed too.
Just think of it. 💔

[lindaarmstrongjackman]

I agree with you. Some people just like to tear others down.

[missyaero]

Reminds me of when Hilary was running and people were talking about her. Some of the comments the women made about her are forever etched in my memory. I never knew women could be that way towards one another.

[donnarequa]

Agreed. I guess it is also one of those things that seemingly will never change. 😢

[shannonraby]

Same here, as a woman it definitely bums me out. 😞

[catherineburkehomes]

Nah, I say mark of Cain! There’s a modern culture that loves to just blame women for men getting out of line because of the garden of Eden. They forget Cain and Abel and Cain’s punishment for not controlling himself.

[robind]

Me too… I worked at a women’s crisis center for several years, as well as cofounded a NOW chapter and marched on Washington for women’s reproductive rights in the early 90s, and am so disillusioned and disappointed with the way so many things have gone. My problem has always been trying to remember that I cannot expect others to think the same way I would, no matter how obviously correct I feel I am. 🥺