AITA for canceling a wedding? - REACTION

AITA for canceling a wedding? - REACTION

Hey, fam! Welcome back to another episode of Real Talk with me, Charlotte Dobre! Today, we're diving into a juicy AITA (Am I the A**hole) dilemma: canceling a wedding last minute. Yeah, you heard that right!

Picture this: You've got the dress, the venue, the cake—all set for the big day. But then, out of the blue, you hit the brakes and call off the whole shebang. Drama alert, am I right?

In this episode, we're delving deep into the murky waters of wedding etiquette and personal boundaries. Did our protagonist make the right call or commit a major faux pas?

Join me as we unpack the situation, weigh in on the moral conundrum, and maybe even learn a thing or two about love, relationships, and self-respect along the way.

So, grab your popcorn, settle in, and let's get real about canceling weddings because sometimes, you gotta do what's best for YOU. Don't forget to sound off in the comments: AITA for canceling my wedding last minute? Let's get the conversation going!

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Hi, I'm Charlotte Dobre. I'm an actor, reactor, singer and sometimes (not really) comedian. On this channel I do reactions, commentary and occasionally I make a joke or two. I love poking fun at social media, weddings, entitled people, tiktok and OF COURSE petty people. I upload daily, usually 7 days a week, unless life gets crazy or I get lazy. Come hang out, it's a good time.

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[MrsMcGee-tuoe]

I knew someone who wanted a small wedding but was bullied and into inviting EVERYBODY so they finally gave in and did invite all the friends and family but changed their wedding date to a Wednesday at 3 and most people couldn't make that dated work but the people they originally wanted.. I always thought it was genius lol

[cloudyo]

If someone canceled their wedding to be with me through trauma, I think I'd be devastated. I'd feel like everyone in the wedding party is put out because of my pain, and that me losing my baby caused a MASSIVE spiraling chain of events to play out. That would be the worst

[wlrbpic]

My husband & daughter passed away on a Monday and my nieces wedding was scheduled that very next weekend. They offered to cancel their wedding, which my husband & I were hosting at our clubhouse. I said absolutely not. Life goes on & we needed something to celebrate. 🥰

[rachelrasmussen]

I have a friend who lost her sister to an accident a few days before her wedding. It changed the day dramatically, but feeling that joy and grief together was a healing day for her family.

I believe the one sister will regret canceling the wedding and the other sister will regret asking her to.

[lizzdtrick]

My friend did her wedding right imho... they knew both their families would be crazy to deal with and wanted literally nobody there. They took a "vacation" and shocked everyone when they got home by announcing that they got married! (A beautiful pre-planned wedding on the beach) Then they held a big dinner at a local restaurant for the family to celebrate. While everyone was shocked, there was nothing they could do, except show up to dinner. They were so happy with their stress free wedding.

[cryptidconn]

That last one. The bride sounds like someone who needs a strong dose of reality, and the OP gave it to her. Amazing. Rest easy, Toasty. Never met you, but I'd bet my whole life on you being such a good boy.

[haleytruslow]

The girl who cancelled the deposits after her brother’s fiancé made that cruel comment about Toast - she did not need to warn anyone that she was going to do that. The brother’s fiancé should have expected it after saying something so horrible. She contacted her brother right after to let him know.

That story grinds my gears. My soul dog is still with me and I certainly would not have been so gracious about it if the comment had been made to me.

[rachel-lou]

Has the definition of getting eloped changed? When you elope you run off and get married and tell no one. A wedding with 20 is still a wedding just a small one.

[tracy]

I've had 4 miscarriages. I would never expect my sister to cancel her wedding to come comfort me. A lot of people want to go through those alone anyway.

[katiena]

My brother married into an itialian family. They pulled the we won't pay for the wedding unless it was huge and fancy card the entire time. So my side of the family decided to do our best to help keep it a small wedding and keep costs down. My brother and his wife are grateful.

[kennethherget]

When my niece got married her sister had passed away. She would have been the moh. She wouldn't replace her so a bride's maid carried two bouquets and placed it on a small table next to the bride. Tears yes bride happy yes

[kimincannes]

For the sister who used her credit card to help her brother: If lil miss fiance is THIS wicked BEFORE the wedding, just imagine how nasty she'll be during the (inevitable) divorce. I hope your brother has permanently removed his rose-colored glasses and can now clearly see the type of person he was about to marry. Girl, you did your brother a solid and he should thank you for it!!!

[bgoldschmidt]

My mom told me and my siblings that we could elope if we didn't want to stress out about a wedding, we just need to let her know in advance that we're eloping so she can send a gift and a nice card.

[KimmieArgyshev]

The girl who canceled her brother’s wedding. This made me cry, I lost my sweet furbaby recently. Within 4 freaking days she went from jumping on to my lap to not being able to get up or walk anymore. Cancer destroyed her in a few days. If someone would make such a comment to me about my sick furbaby being death, she would soon follow.

[ireallywantedtolivethruthes]

My mother died and the next day I had to get ready with my brother to attend my fathers wedding to my step mom…we were devastated but life goes on and my father was having a milestone even signifying the rest of his life.. so we put our feelings on hold and showed up to support.. they did bring me out to dance and I had to fake smile, pretending to jump around the enjoying when I didn’t even want to move a muscle and cry in a corner

[Threecrazydogs]

Never put your credit card down for anyone. The level of entitlement is astounding. You are very nice. Had she made a crack about my dead dog I’d have told her I was going to count to three and she better run😄.

[mbrown]

Yes elope! In 1993 I got married with a judge and 2 witnesses (great friends). Wedding cost a total of $150! No stress, no drama. The honeymoon weekend was about $300. We called parents and close friends and relaxed (has to go back to work on Monday) Still married after 31 years! Big weddings are a waste and 1/2 get divorced. You marry each other, not your friends and family. Good luck out there!

[schauschau]

i need everyone to remember, if you date a person who hates/disrespects animals, that is not a red flag, that's a whole red planet, RUN.

[PanicGamerGirl]

Something similar to the sister's miscarriage one. One of my classmates got married last year and two days before the wedding her sister gave birth to her twins. My classmate was sad she couldn't be there but they had FaceTimed her when they were getting ready and had the photographer take pictures of that to show sister was still a part of things. A year later the family all got together in their wedding outfits and had a "belated family photo shoot" with the sister and her now 1-year-old twins. The photos were so sweet and I'm sure the wedding day has so many happy memories because they found these little ways to still include the sister. Basically, my point is, I'm glad the lady went through with the wedding because there's still ways to include people who can't physically make it to the wedding.

[rikih]

When me & my husband got married in 1984 we decide to have a small no-wedding wedding overlooking the ocean on the cliffs in Oregon. Kinda like eloping, just us, the justice of peace & another couple. It would've been a perfect day, but in the middle of numptials, cloud cover overtook the sunshine when a massive storm squall blew in. The sky opened up & we were drenched before we could take shelter 😂. Forty years later, and neither of us regret not having a huge wedding with both sides of our families there.