Don’t let them disrespect themselves #mindset #love #partner #dating

Don’t let them disrespect themselves

[victoriagargano]

Yes, I agree, but when I did that, he would get offended and say he would never change. So he found some who let's him do whatever he wants. No boundaries.

[sararue]

Most men don't understand that " the integrity of the relationship" is a real thing

[warblerbg]

I lovingly hold my partner when he projects blame on me for his own fear of rejection, abandonment, lack, or pride. With respect I point out the big picture, as I have the skills and knowledge to practice holding him in his fear while also illustrating that his fearful comments projected on me are not helping me, him, US. And that since we are a team, I understand when the Me vs. Me gets in OUR way. Instead of turning the blame on him for his comments that are not supportive to our partnership, I simply point out that WE are a team and let's keep our eye on the target.... that this item /topic means nothing. It does not matter. What matters is we come back to connect and love. I see how his insecurities can get in our way. So I don't take his blame comments personally. I don't get hurt. Because it's not mine. His fear has nothing to do with me. That's his insecurity. So with a strong energetic boundary and act of self love ❤️, I hold him in his anger, in his fear, knowing that it's not actually about me. It's about him. And while holding the container with love, I calmly point out, hey I love you, US, and this comment on me does not help me, you, US feel good. I want US to feel good. So let's drop it and come back to connect. His pride gets in the way of apology or self responsibility. But he gets quiet and comes back after a little bit of space to connect with me. He just needs a little time to chill from his emotional response. I think this process builds trust. Because I don't react. I don't leave. He can see that I stay by his side in love. We'll see if in time if he can soften and be less reactive. I think if after a year he still continues to blame me without owning his part, I may need to leave in my own self love. I'm willing to stay and see if he can grow in a loving container that he hasn't experienced before in the past with other partners. Sometimes humans didn't have the appropriate models to learn how to not react. Let's experiment with compassion to see if he's willing and able to see that he doesn't need to react. Or he can own his reaction and come back to love.

[brendacunningham]

I Agree💚💚💚💚...You MUST Protect Them From Doing Things That ARE Unhealthy Or Not In Alignment With HUmanity....And People MUST Have Things They Will NOT Do....This IS Love💚💚💚💚🦅🦅🦅🦅

[mariamedel]

BOTH BOTH GOT TO MAKE EACHOTHER LOOK GOOD

[malu_Rivera]

Yes, yes, agree 100%. I divorced my husband, the father of my children, because I lost complete respect for him. He went against my morals and values. Everything was lost 💔

[abreczest-zzz]

say though, ya’ll this BASIC! if you really know love and you really love your partner how are you gonna just let them be out there messing themselves up acting and looking like a damn fool. not only that you really love that person they’re going to have enough lessons from you to not let this ever even be a thing further on down the road y’all gonna learn TOGETHER +

[faridahahmed-xf]

I show respect that doesn’t go unnoticed by him and others but he takes advantage of this!

[RockingRebelYell]

We aren’t dating but I did find an amazing woman I want and need to keep leveling up to be good to her.

[Jacquelinerenees]

I like this perspective. I just recently started seeing someone who was willing to drop the relationship 2 times because of his insecurities that he expressed. The 3rd time he did it I expressed that the back and forth is hard on me because it’s all based in whether or not he feels he could be rejected or accepted. He called me a spoiled rotten jerk and blocked me. So I like the perspective that we have to challenge our partner if it makes us lose respect for either.

[kayodudu]

What if you as tge womsn is looking out for that but your partner does not care, in tgat instance what do you do?

[BridinHarnett-uoqr]

❤Protect the souls of each other... Exactly right - like the porridge.. ❤

[namesan]

My partner and I agreed to having an open relationship on his side - but I've been feeling like I'm losing respect for him because of its implications on who he might be like. How do I gently nudge a conversation to inoffensively let him know, or negotiate to stop what we agreed on?

[annettebierkos]

I confronted him about what he did that completely disgusting me, but he pretended he didn't do ot

[jenniferoliveira]

How is it my duty to control another human being? How do you do that when you can’t control anyone? He is going to do what he wants regardless. Losing respect is the aftermath of HIS decision.

[emeraldchat]

it's important for both partners to safeguard their mutual respect. If your partner acts in a way that compromises this, address it immediately, even if it means having tough conversations

[RobinRenee-bxpn]

IT'S LKE WALK'N
BY A CROCKED
PICTURE ON THE
WALL OVER & OVER!
IT'S OBSESSION IS
EAT'N U ALIVE! BUT
U LET IT EAT AWAY
WHEN U COULD EASILY
REACH OUT & AJUST
IT. A LONG X AGO !

[avSCompact]

Bottom line, this man gives advice to women, but obviously he has NEVER lived with a man...😅

[PeggyHartman-eq]

Play stupid because of their bad ego. You’re out of your mind. It’s not my duty to teach a man. This man, I’m telling you gets on my last nerve.

[NenitaGatlin-ln]

How's your blond hair? Better than dark hair Romanoff? So you like my cousin huh? Interesting...