When You Just Ain’t Got it All Together

Young people are under so much pressure today to have everything figured out and worked out by a certain age. The truth is we're all learning and growing our entire lives and there are always going to be failures and points in our lives when we don't feel like we have a clue what we are doing. This is natural. I just want to encourage you that in your time of failure do not consider yourself a failure. No one ever has it all figured out. No one. Life is about learning and growing over the course of the entire journey.

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[mecalos]

This is the best cutscene from Red Dead Redemption 2 ever.

[anthonygill]

“A smooth sea has never made a skilled sailor.”

[questioncontrol]

"A man with enough wisdom has seen too much pain."

[tygokoops]

My advice for anybody seeing this video and smiling because of the message: don't click on another video after this. Just close YouTube and all other social media. Just be happy, and don't worry.

[RatedMfrmanly]

Hearing a stranger on the internet say "It's alright. You're not supposed to have it all together." is one of the most comforting things I've heard since my life took a turn for the worse.

[gone]

Beginning of video: "Now, im not very wise"

Rest of the video: *Pure, unadulterated wisdom for us to learn from*

[rcrwxhy]

Im 39. Im divorced. I have maybe around 90 k in debt. No friends. Live with my parents again.I did start an own buisines i started to save money again. Starting from scratch again. It s a long way. Hope i don t lose my mind in the process.But i will get there. Someway somehow..

[absjeja]

“a blade does not become strong, it does not become tempered, until it’s been through the fire” - that really hits hard

[beeamerica]

Well Dwayne I'm 75 and I'm here to tell you I don't think you ever get it completely figured out we are all our own worst enemy 🐝

[Gwennerini]

I had no idea there was an entire genre of cowboy philosophers on YouTube. It’s very comforting to hear that it’s okay to not have it all together. Thank you, mysterious cowboy man!

[Ummmzaxk]

I’m 25 and lost my brother to suicide. I needed to hear this so badly. Thank you❤
Edit: me and my family just want to thank all the kind supportive messages 💚 makes me feel like I’m not alone

[curioustrades]

Going to leave this here as a reminder for myself. Whenever this gets a like I will get reminded. Sometimes I wonder why God makes me wait. I know his plan is perfect. I know God has me waiting for a reason. It feels like I've been in isolation for a long period now. I'm about to get back into doing what I love. I know God will always be with me. I give my life to Jesus Christ. I know looking back I'll be able to connect the dots. Understanding it had to happen just as it did. All the heartbreaks, setbacks, and nights worrying about if you're on the right path. It will all be lifted once I get there. To anyone out there. God will never abandon you.

[olliedawizard]

I’m 22 and haven’t been able to get a job. Pressure from family and peers is killing me right now. This was nice to hear, it was sort of relaxing.

Update: I just got a job!

[sproggs]

I'm 31 years old. I have 60k in student debt, a degree I haven't finished, another degree I'm working on, a failed engagement, no savings, no mortgage, no kids, no partner, and am a barista at the coffee shop across the street. It will get better. It WILL get better. Thank you.

[wifsk]

as a 23 year old guy i didnt know i needed to hear this in such a genuine way untill i just started crying out of no where

[serenetides]

I'm a 23 yr old woman who graduated from college last year. This gave me so much relief. Thank you

[Dylan-cuty]

30 years old, still live with parents, no marriage, no kids, no idea what I want to do career wise and just trying to manage my depression. Feel so lost and behind, and always feel like a loser. But this definitely gave me some comfort, right at the time I needed it. Thank you.

[PhryTheBreather]

In a world full of people making you feel guilty for not spending every day getting something done, it is refreshing to hear a voice that reminds us it’s okay to take it slow and appreciate life. Thank you man.

[angelsscapes]

I never had a father figure. From 15 to 24 I went through addiction to alcohol, drugs, gambling, legal trouble, car accidents, a whole world of trouble. I got my face absolutely kicked in my drugs until I had nobody and nothing left. Life had me on my ass. Overdoses. But god kept me here. Many days I wished I wasn't here. Now I'm 30, clean from everything, own a home, have a full time job, have relationships with my mom and brother again and even quit cigarettes recently (smoked 14 years). If I can do it, you can. And I'm not perfect man. Far from it. Embrace it. Let go of toxic shame. It only holds you back. Focus on the good.

[TjYau]

This is unironically the most manliest man video for men about men having struggles its awesome