Three Things You Should Never Say To An INFJ

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[zanelebiyela]

Do all INFJs research themselves to understand themselves or is it just me?? 😕

[dainemuzic]

"If you're in a relationship with an INFJ, congratulations and I'm sorry."

I GAGGED KSKS

[shannoncats]

The biggest thing that has helped me as an INFJ is learning how to comfortably say ‘no’ to people. It has been so liberating.

[BlueSmoke]

I'm a 52 old INFJ woman and feel like I've finally found my tribe here

[emdhie]

"Fine. Stay home. I'll go alone".

How i read it as INFJ:
"FINE! STAY HOME! I'LL GO ALONE! "

feel me? 😂

[claimyourshame]

I get a lot of "you're reading too much into this" .. like YEAH! THATS MY SPECIALITY! 😩

[nllionel]

am i the only one who way prefers a quick text than doing long phone calls? somehow phone calls seem intrusive to me in my alone time and personal headspace. Skype/FaceTime, even worse

[brandyleeledford]

I am so intuned to narcissism and manipulation, I see it a mile away. Nope. Not happening.

[AnnHelle]

I don't know how many "you're being too sensitive"s I put up with before one day, something clicked, and I decided that anyone (in an intimate relationship scenario) who says that to me is no longer welcome or needed in my life. Best decision I've ever made.

[prosperakwo]

Are you telling me no one noticed the "Congratulations and I'm sorry " line??

[jessicazimmer]

“Congratulations and I’m sorry.” I’m laughing because this is on point. 😄

[larauch]

My pet peeve is "You worry too much" by people who think my quiet alone time is me worrying about something

[mkmclachlan]

Basically as a fellow INFJ I make it a rule to steer clear of narcissists and passive aggressive people :) Learning to respond differently and not have a knee-jerk guilt reaction is a life saver. How people feel and respond is up to them...not my circus not my monkeys.

[TheReelAnna]

"We're not oversensitive, we're highly sensitive" -- I love that! You are so right about those differences.
I really enjoyed this video! I just found you today and I've subscribed. Looking forward to watching more!

[marlainedarin]

Holy moly I have found my clan....I never knew there were others just so similar. Wow.

[simplyme]

I wish other people could understand that when they ask an infj at 8 at night if they will go run into a store with them to pick up a few things that it's a bigger deal than they know. As an infj, I'm going to have to stand in line and notice the guy in front of me whose shoes have holes in them and it's 36 degrees out and my heart is hurting for him, and I have to feel the waves of impatience and anger from the cashier because the person in front of him is paying her with nickels and dimes and she is giving off the most hateful energy over something so small. I'm going to see the 89 year old lady in the laxative aisle trying to reach up to the top shelf and see her hands shaking so hard that after I retrieve the medication she wants, I walk away with the weight of knowing that she doesn't have anyone in her life to go out at 8 at night to get something she needs and it hurts me. Finally, I pass the dude who's getting beer and he's oblivious to the fact that when the door is open nobody can pass him and now there are six of us with our arms full of purchases standing in a line like ducks waiting for him to notice or even care that there are other people in the world besides him. By the time I would get home from a 45-minute trip to the drug store, my heart would be aching and I would feel sad and irritable and also keep thinking that there's something I have to do but not being able to put my finger on it. By the time I realise that I'm thinking about the guy who has holes in his shoes and how I have a pair of men's shoes sitting right beside my front door that I wish I could give to him, I'm curled up in a ball in my bed wishing I had said no, I can't go out right now. So many times I have wished that I could be unaware of suffering or cruelty or people that are in a vulnerable position. It's not fun to be and infj. Especially when your husband dies and leaves you alone in the world and all the people that you have helped through the years just ignore you. I am left without all the money I gave from my heart and all of the time I had spent comforting everyone when they were in a bad situation. And I sit here all alone and wonder how did I get here? And did that guy ever get a new pair of shoes? Sincerely, over-sensitive Carly

[anamarijamilos]

I’m a INFJ & I feel like an alien sometimes.

[marieb]

If someone told me 'Fine. Stay home then, ' I'd probably think 'Yay, I'm off the hook!'. I also hate being told 'Dont cry' and 'Calm down'. And when I'm told I'm being too sensitive, I feel like yelling back 'I'd rather be oversensitive than INsensitive like you're being right now!'.

[jeffwilson]

"Congratulations and I'm sorry".... LMAO. You made my day!


BTW, when I learned about INFJ, the big surprise was not that I'm an empath but rather that other people are not. I had no idea that they experience the world differently. Suddenly other people's behavior made a lot more sense. Knowing that, I was able to interact with others much better.

[TheWorldsStage]

The manager: "Before you leave today, swing by my office. We need to talk."
My brain: "Get ready for complete thought hell for the next three hours."