#pov the left out friend of the what she thought was her “friend group”

[yevairis]

omg you know that people are good actors when you want to scream in somebody’s face

[heechoked]

I mean it's nearly impossible to find true friends. The people u call friends talk to u only when they need u.

[sugrbunnies]

most people saying “drop them” or “just get a new friend group” are not understanding, when you have nobody else no one to go to and no other people to be friends with you are stuck with a friend group.

[N_any_Errr_]

There was this one time last year, I had a group of friends who were amazing. There were 8 people including me. But for some reason they all started ignoring me and giving me that “look” or the side eye. It got me really uncomfortable but I pretended like everything was fine. During lunch, no one would say a word to me. I felt very left out at that point. There was also this one time where we were decorating gingerbread houses and I started playing a song on my phone and everyone just stared at me weirdly. Soon they wouldn’t say a word to me for the entire day so I left the friend group. One of my other friends (my only friend at that time) invited me to her friend group and I became good friends with all of them. It was amazing. I was so glad I made the decision to join it. Later on my old friend group had a lot more drama and It even included threatening each other and ending up involving with the police and one point. Eventually, some of the girls left the friend group and apologized to me and we got back to together. Only three of them did, though. Honestly I could never forgive them but I did. We still aren’t friends but we are nice to each other. I’ve gotten closer and closer to the girls in my new friend group. Now everything is working out ok :) This is a 100% true story.
Anyways congratulations if you read this whole long boring paragraph.

[itndler]

true friends are hard to find, but when you find them its the best bond ever

[ValeriaGonzalez-hmup]

I can actually relate and the worst part is that we're a trio, and I'm the one left out

[_PixelPie_]

If this ever happened, leave them because they don't deserve you, and their toxic to you and don't want nor like you. You'll find a friend group that'll fit you perfectly. :)

[justastrawberryroamingthei]

this is literally me sometimes. except i never have the courage to question anything they say like "oh can I come" or "what group chat" that takes a different kind of strength.

[isabelmorian]

I feel the same way with my friends, they always hang out without me. I just need a better friend group

Edit: Bro I’m famous, jk. Thank you for supporting me! I have some other friends that I’m starting to get closer too, and there are some people on my soccer team that are really nice I have been hanging out with them more. And my other “friends” still always sit. Next to me and every time we’re in the same class but their best friends isn’t in that class. Think we’re best friends but then when they’re with their best friends, they don’t even acknowledge me. But I’m getting better friends so I don’t need.

[welovealinaa]

Im having a really bad time right now and i can relate to this sm.
i just discovered that everyone i thought i was close with actually hates me
i also just got dumped by my best friend of over three years for no reason - like literally out of nowhere! i havent done anything wrong to upset her and ive asked her multiple times but she just wont talk to me.
life is hard enough and now everyone wont stop staring at me anf whispering behind my back, then though i can VERY OBVIOUSLY see them point and picking me apart.
im going to a new school in a few months and im hoping life will get better then.

[FizzyFizzyFizz]

I was stuck in a group like this for a considerable amount of time, there were only two people out of the ten others in the group who truly cared about me, the rest either pretended I didn’t exist or were full on toxic, and what was worse was that I was trapped in a consistent cycle of discomfort, until one of them would show a small amount of kindness to me, which would give me false hope that things were turning around, only to be treated horribly again and to consider leaving the group, and then they would show some more kindness, and the cycle would repeat. I also struggled with guilt and was consistently reminding myself that I had put so much work into this group, therefore thee was no point in backing out. It was not until I made a lot of other good friends that I finally decided to cut ties with this group all together, and the relief you feel is amazing. If you are trapped in a similar situation then just remember it can always get better and there are good people all around you ❤

[beanieys]

I hate thinking of this. I used to be that person I was in a trio and they always left me out, they would talk about me behind my back or make plans and talk about them infront of me.., but now I have better people(:

[Ezefresh_edits]

I can relate so much I can’t
I seriously need new friends:(
I don’t have snap chat which they have a group chat on so I feel so left out when they start texting on that when I’m with them

who can relate
👇🏼

[kennaw]

I can relate to this so much that it’s sad. My friends have a whole friend group and they’re always planning sleepovers and going places together and leave me out

[anneshasengupta]

This happened to me in the past. My best friend had another friend group where I wasn't involved. The worst part was that sometimes she would invite me without telling anyone else and wouldn't introduce me to the her friends once I got there. So I would just do something by myself while She hung out with her other friends. She only came to me for something she needed and left once she got it.
I'm glad that that I realized she was toxic and stopped being friends with her. She still bugs me sometimes though.
Now I have a new friends who uplift me and and are there with me whenever I need them.

[OOMPALOOMPA]

it’s so stupid how depressed and terrible stupid people can make your life. i mean they will leave you out and keep secrets, etc. people become depressed and bad about themselves because of these people, and think NOTHING of it. as a wise person once said “hurting someone's feelings is as easy as throwing a rock in the ocean, but do you know how deep that rock goes?” they don’t know what they’re doing. i’ve had this experience and when i tell you i feel TERRIBLE about myself. and i can’t rust ANYONE at all anymore. i cried every night, and they just made me sad for NO reason. i’m never just “happy” like i was before and i forgave them WAYY to many times. i always wish i never met them or how i could’ve avoided this but you can’t. i hate fake people they don’t deserve you guys.

[nobody__.]

I overthink about these things so much😭

[orangepink]

didnt know she read a whole autobiography on my life 😂

[byroncastellanos]

I have a friend who always feels out with her group and I'm always there to give her a hug because I get really sad when I see her feel left out.

[jlitsdz]

Fake friends piss me off. It sucks when you're perfectly likeable too and yet no one seems to truly like you. At least inside of school