Are You Destined to Spend Your Life Alone?

After a life-long search for a life-long partnership, after many failed attempts and failed relationships, we may come to a point at which we ask ourselves, 'Will I ever find a life partner, or will I spend the rest of my life alone?'

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[Septef]

My whole life, no friends, no love, parents focused on older siblings. I like being alone, but every once in a while I get that heartache of knowing I'm always gonna be alone. If you can relate, we are the uncanny flower.

[philochristos]

I hate when people say, "You'll find somebody." They don't know that. Lots of people spend their whole lives without ever finding somebody.

[Cooliemasteroz]

If people weren’t so scared of being alone they probably wouldn’t end up with the wrong person.

[brianwaller]

I’m 44, I’ve exhausted all my options and come to the realization that I’ll be alone for the rest of my life. When my mom passes eventually I’ll truly be alone in this world.

[divine_presence]

I'm okay with being alone for the rest of my life, but I'm also open for the right partner.

[stevejohnson]

In today's society, atleast in Western society finding a partner is usually based on money, status, power, charm, competition etc... For spiritually minded people it is very difficult, in my humble opinion.

[delaney]

I'm okay with being alone forever. Less chaos. As long as I have a dog, I'm good.

[Jazzzzzy]

I’m FINALLY accepting that I will spend my life alone. I’m tired of letting myself down believing that I will have the love I desire and I’m treated wrong. I really refuse being the only one putting in work to make a partner happy and I get the bare minimum. I know I’ll NEVER let ME down!

[lindataylor]

There is a difference in being alone and being lonely. Do not confuse the two.

[matthewroberts]

I'd rather spend the rest of my life alone than spend the rest of my life with someone that treats me badly

[gracesanity]

Truth hurts. Being one's own grown up is tough, but it's worth it. I see so many toxic, painful relationships around me. Theirs an empowerment in being single.

[s.c.r.e.a.m.forp.e.a.c.e.]

I've been alone so long I can't imagine being with anyone.

[charleslaughton]

My biggest personal enlightenment came with the realization that I don't need a partner or relationship in my life to be happy.

[yodab.at]

The deepest most horrible loneliness can be experienced within a relationship.
To come to terms with yourself and not be relient on external love means one can be alone, which is different from being lonely.

[barefootanimist]

Being alone can be rough, but being with someone you're not compatible with is a lot worse...

[Lina-gdxf]

I’m autistic and dating is a hassle. It’s so much easier to be alone. I seem to have a bigger problem with myself when I’m with other people (or around people) because they have a problem with me. Relationships require me to change too much because my lifestyle is unconventional. I’ve accepted a long time ago that I will not be able to be in a healthy relationship. I hear the words “I’m meant to be alone” in my head after almost every human interaction. And I’m actually okay with it. When I say that I deserve to be alone I am not saying that I’m not worthy of being loved, I just owe myself what I enjoy the most, being by myself. I deserve to have that.

[storeymark]

The only thing worse than feeling alone by yourself is feeling alone in a relationship

[OhSoCarmen]

People who spend most of their lives alone, and not lonely, tend to have very wise old souls. We stand alone because we don't need the support of others. The Universe always sends us what we need. If you don't have a lot of people around you, it's because you don't need them. We are all much stronger than we give ourselves credit for. There is a peace and strength in being alone. It's not a bad thing.

[susanshepard]

Im a loner too, i know il spend the rest of my life alone. So i took a long serious look at what i want. I love plants and animals and nutrition. So i started down this trail, and I've learned so much about farming, which i could not have done with a partner. My diet improved and i can eat the way i want. I have 7 dogs who i love, we are a family. My yard is a huge jungle of fruit trees and vegetables. I wake up at 4 every morning and i gleefully jump out of bed. Im a happy camper.

[surferh]

Here's my story (if you want to read). I've fully accepted now, I'm probably going to end up to be alone forever. First, I found it tough accepting it!!
I live alone, don't have many friends around, faced rejection multiple times, seeing people my age & relatives getting engaged/ married, having kids, settling down happy together, etc...
Yes, I felt sorry for myself, depressed, anxiety, miserable, ugly and jealously, which I feel is awful and didn't do me any favours.
Anyway, I took up surfing, found other fun sports what I enjoy and passionate about. Now, I'm focusing on myself and goals, without any distraction. It feels awesome, and I've never felt so confident!
Don't have any commitments, no responsibility, no distraction, do what I like and don't care what people think of me anymore.
I couldn't be any happier right now, and loving life!
So that's my story.
If you're still reading this, and in my situation before, I really hope you find/ do what you love and passionate about. Most importantly, your own HAPPINESS
Life is too short!! Best wishes to you all out there 🙏🤙