The Problematic Daughter-in-Law - Mufti Menk

At times you have a marriage and the daughter in law come into the home yet she brings a bad mouth, abuse and more. How can we have a beautiful relation and allow everyone to fit into the system?

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[Fatimah_Song]

My heart is full of pain whenever someone reminds me of in-laws

[myspecialhamza]

Allah is there and always watching our situation ....Allah resolved my situation after a long good time of 10 years of marriage but Allah did in a beautiful way. Patience always win 👍

[Silatifa]

The right thing to do is having their own home. Once you married you must have your life as a couple. Living all together in the same place is not religion, it is cultural. I not gonna say all mothers in low are bad but most of them make the life of the couple really difficulty.

[trueseeker]

Plz pray for my newborn baby who is admitted in hospital for 9 days.

[unaishakhan]

The best solution is for the daughter in laws to have their own separate house. I absolutely agree that there should be respect on both sides. From my own experience, I was never good enough for my in laws, they always thought of me lower than them. I tried my best to gain their love and respect and got rejected over and over again.

[mahammedumar]

Jazakallah for speak about this topic, iam desperately looking for this . May Allah give hidaya to such people.

[yuuki]

Pls pray for my mother, she has been suffering head-ache everytime and a sevior problem, which i can't tell on internet.
Pls pray for her💝💖

[RisalatMarium]

Why aren’t online classes as interesting as this is.

[roxx]

Unfortunately, ive seen people like this or bad in laws and they watch videos like this but they won't admit or see that they are doing this. They think about everyone else apart from themselves. We need to look at ourselves and whether we do this and if we should improve ourself first! They point at everyone else

[whatsgoingon]

My daughter in law was raised controlling her parents was given everything she wanted & shown no morals. Comes into my family trying to control us my household & wants things her way & all hell broke loose ! Ten years later I’ve closed doors on her still has no respect ! She still treats her parents this way. Feel sorry for my son but wish him the best. None of my business never was & never will ! I will never help ever again in any way.

[sobiarashid]

I request all in-laws to let their married sons and daughters-in-law live separate from them and let them develop their beautiful marital relationship without any interference from both sides. I have been a daughter -in-law living with my in-laws for last 2 decades. But for myself I have no plan of keeping my married sons and their families with me bcoz I believe in the importance of good relationships and respect. Living together leaves people valueless and respectless in one another's eyes.

[lethalbullet]

Some relations are toxic by nature there will be lots of tic and tacs pray Allah gives everyone direction to respect each other Ameen

[notsure]

Brother you need to do more on son in-law, culture has made the man seem like as if he has to do nothing for his wife’s parents. Also, he believes his wife does not have to do much for her parents. Please address this

[adha]

Asalam Walikum
My Beloved Daddy always put my mommy on a high pedestal and treated her and us his daughters and sons with such love and kindness. His thought full ways was forever humbling. He too help my mommy with doing the dishes and sweeping the kitchen floors and bathroom floors and scrubbing the tub and doing all this especially the dishes before he leave to pick up my mom form work.
I know because I would be on the phone with him🤍 October -2014 my beloved darling daddy passed away he was only 66 years old. May Allah SWT reward him immensely and grant him utmost mercy and forgiveness and May Allah SWT grant my beloved daddy to wake up in Jannatul Firdose and for all parents and everyone. Aameen Aameen Aameen summah Aameen Rabil Alameen Allahuma Aameen 🤲🏼🤍💦😭😭😭

[attiyasmail]

Jazakallah Kheiren Sheikh for speaking for those who face difficulty with their daughter in-laws.Although the number of such cases are far less compared to the reverse scenario.All my life I have seen women going through so much suffering in the hands of their husband’s families.Its unimaginable systematic abuse.Allah is Al-Baseer, The all Seeing.May Allah make our sisters strong enough( emotionally & financially )to defend themselves without hurting others.”If you don’t kill, you will be killed”attitude is WRONG .We are humans, not animals.

[deenamirza]

JazakAllah Shaikh, the way you put things forward is so humble and beautiful. We really want and feel like correcting ourselves .

[ChaosAlpha]

There can never be tranquillity in a house that allows the daughters to sleep till late and expects the daughter-in-laws to wake early to make them breakfast.

[cherotichhajira]

Masha Allah so many out there are treating their daughters inlaw so badly..thank u mufti

[emma]

Stop having your wives live with your extended family and a lot of issues will resolve themselves inshallah....

[kitt]

I have never heard of a new daughter- in-law who screems & has bad language around her in- laws. Most new brides are very shy & only try to please everyone.