Interference Of In-Laws In Your Private Life | Sheikh Belal Assaad

A Beautiful Lecture By Sheikh Belal Assaad Explaining How To Deal With In-Laws.

Islam has protected the rights of every individual in every relation beautifully. Hence, it is not possible in any way that Islam has allowed in-laws to interfere in marital life because such interference would cause violation of rights of both husband and wife.

It is the total authority of husband and wife that how they both will lead their life. Hence, no third person could try to interrupt the privacy of married couple and no third party is allowed to regulate married couple that what the couple should do and what they should not do.

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Jazak Allah Khair.

[Ana-rbws]

Many Muslim cultures need this education. Boundaries are a foreign concept for many cultures, and enmeshment is thought of as being correct and religious.

[Priya-rfov]

I’m not a Muslim …Muslims got this right… it is not wife’s responsibility to take care of in-laws … wife’s responsibility and priority is her husband and own kids.

[SueDew-uxyq]

I have had extended family try to dictate what happens and how my kids are raised when me or my husband don’t even know them well or even those interfering with my nikah ceremony because i wanted it simple. In this day and age especially in some SE Asian families, you need to have firm boundaries or your marriage will fall apart.

I have seen cousins whose wife and kids are treated badly by my cousins family like they are subordinate to them and cousin never stands up.

Then they wonder why so many fights, disagreements in family. Its been 4 decades or more and the same thing happens over and over that they never learn.

I’ve had immediate and extended family spread fitnah about me to others, even one tried to turn my husband against me (even my husband was shaking his head), i let it be. Allah swt knows whats in my heart and I’m at a point in my life where its enough that Allah swt and myself know the truth including those family members who stand by me.

Don’t put up with toxic family members, you have a duty to protect your marriage and your family.

Those same members that soread fitnah about me or my husband now almost a decade later want favours without even apologising for their behaviour

[dianahita]

This is an important matter to learn of a husband and wives to be before their marriage...

[RamaMohamed-oiff]

Masha Allah, these words r so vivid and useful to all married couples, Allah barik for well said words

[happygirl]

YES, I would absolutely love for you to Counsel my husband, he really needs your help. You are a wonderful speaker. Thank you

[nedaindirawati]

Jazakallah kheyr sheikh.. Alhamdulillah 15 years married. Alhamdulillah the role of the husband plays a big part also in order to make this work. He admits to his mothers behaviour. Insyaa Allah I will learn to be an in law that knows boundries once my son grows up and gets married..

[iby]

Very well said Sheikh, unfortunately this is a big issue within our society. Any problems should be solved within the household between spouses, no need for family interference. Yes if its serious issue and its the last straw then its understandable. Must work together and resolve together ❤️

[asiyachoudhary]

Mashaa Allah nice lecture. Many girls are struggling in marriage because of the interference of in laws. May Allah guide us all.

[roosinapoohy]

May Allah give this person Jannah al firdows!!!

[awakenthegreatnesswithin]

Before getting married get your own house, it saves you so much problems with other jealous family members and in laws

[AdeebaRiaz-ksjp]

Most practical advice i have heard till now alhamdulillah

[sabashuttari]

As’salamualaikum, ,

This is number one important Advice to everyone b4 getting married everyone should listen to this, thank you for addressing this important matter

[deltaechomusicnh]

This is 100% true. My ex-wife went to my in-laws about every little problem, and they constantly got involved. These were regarding minor issues. I repeatedly told my wife not to tell them about every dispute we had. Her parents, in the end got heavily involved. Now after less than 2 years of marriage, I am in the process of divorcing my wife.

[syed]

Masha Allah, very informative and point to point bayaan.

[seph]

I wish everybody would know that actually they know but still when they marry their son they expect the wife to do all the house work not only for the in-law’s but for the brother and sister too and if she wants to goes to her parent house without the permeation of the whole family she cant go and this is going on for decades

[moonmcken]

husband and wife is a Team.. 😊 So work together thru ups and downs.. Insyaallah happy till.jannah 🥰

[GrilliumLahore]

Masha Allah . Great lecture. It was much needed . Jazak Allah khairan.

[atiasadia]

These words are so useful MASHALLAH he is Sometimes my husbands parents involves and interfere themselves in our marriage... What we do . If we should go out or not....

[nasreenmerchant]

Thank you so much we need this kind of counseling where you are just adviced and not given judgment for the state we are in ..We are made to feel in guilt the whole time for the space we maintain to avoid clashes ...