5 Reasons You Should Stay off the dating apps!!

[trinap.]

Was off the apps, got back on after 3 years. Not much has changed. Most are rushing things or low effort. Bck to focusing on me and waiting on God. If you've already found your partner in life be blessed cause it's hard out here.

[anon_ya]

1. Confident men are not on dating apps. In order for a man to approach a woman in person it takes confidence. Confident men are walking up to women and introducing themselves.
2. Lazy men are on dating sites; the men who want women to be served up to them. They want a buffet.
3. A man who is hiding in plain sight; he’s wearing a mask. Women can see who he is in person, but he can hide himself behind the screen.
4. Men who want to scam are going to get on apps first.
5. It sends a message to men she is desperate.

Thank you as always, TG! 🙌🏽

[braidslikebrandy]

I was on dating apps during my mid 20s in the pandemic out of boredom and curiosity. One man I went on a dated with ghosted me and I asked him why he ghosted me. He said "Sorry I'm just picky" Guy two started off fine and then started showing abusive tendencies and saying my religious beliefs are stupid. He also revealed he was in court case for DUI crash with meth involved. Guy 3 ended up having a harem of women and self esteem issues.

I'm in a much better mind state after deleting apps a year ago. I'm meeting quality men in real life. I've yet to meet a "normal" man on an app. A lot of them on there also have commitment issues because the app gives them delusion of their options.

[kittenmayz]

I was on dating apps for a couple of weeks & soon deleted all of them. The men all had the same thing in common, newly single/divorced, looking for a place to stay, BROKE, or looking to “hook” up. All red flags 🚩

[jessicascreenwritingservices]

Yes! No more dating apps. If the man can’t approach me, then it’s not meant to be. ✨👌🏾 my mom got married off a dating app and the man turned out to be dangerous and a scam artist. I thank God to this day that we got through that and are still alive. Keep telling the truth Tony. We as women are better off just living our lives and walking in our purpose instead of resorting to a dating app.

[lilrodz]

Dating apps are “hookup” apps. Where hurt ppl, hurt ppl.

[tonika]

Dating sites are hook up sites, you’re not going to find someone who’s looking for a serious long term relationship or marriage.

[trulyshanell]

Stop using dating apps several years ago. God’s mercy saved me from every situation that could have possibly went wrong. I agree with Tony. Dating apps are not worth it, just wait!

[manoniemoments]

It was the: “If you been on a dating app, and you don met yo husband and you married from a dating app…Why is you on this video?”😑 at the end for me!!!
I hollered so loud.😂😂😂😂😂😂

Thank you, Tony.

[Karynwashere]

It’s just best not to be on dating apps if not for anything, your mental health. It’s just not worth the stress.

[seabiscuit]

To say that Tony hasn't been in the game for 15+ years, he sure knows his stuff, because there were no lies told. I entertained conversation with a couple of guys on a dating site, and they both casually told me that the reason they get on the app is because it is easier to be rejected online than in person (lack of confidence).. And now that I think about it, it's difficult to imagine that a confident man ready for something real would entertain being on an app.
I can't judge because I literally got on the app due to boredom and looking for conversation (I deleted it after a month). When I'm ready, the dating app would be the last place I look.
Great insight, Tony!!

[mybrwnisbeautifulhin]

Let’s be honest. Dating apps benefit men exponentially. It opens the door for them to access women they’d never approach in real life. It’s easy and fun for most of them who aren’t seeking anything more than a good time. I’ve dabbled on dating apps and luckily had good dates. However, I can attest that the these guys were NEVER who they presented themselves to be.

[watsda]

Tony, this resonate. I met 3 guys on the dating apps. They were bums. They wasn't looking for love, they were looking for help. And they all had mental issues. You know what you're talking 💯

[MissTracy-Ann]

I know a teacher that literally just quit her job, and moved her and her 15 yr old son to another state to be with a man that she just met online in May. I tried to give her some of Tony's reasons but she had been single for over 5 years and didn't listen to anyone. I'm praying for her. God bless her. 🙏🏽

[missjamerica]

Tony, may God bless everything you touch and enlarge your territory. As a woman raised in a single parent home you have no idea how much your male voice has been a blessing to me. I’ve shared you with so many of my sistas.

Regarding online dating you are speaking THE TRUTH! Not ONE LIE came out of your mouth. Online dating is indeed Satan reincarnated. Young queens are being destroyed by the enemy on this platform. I’ve been on it multiple times, and interestingly enough I’ve only gone on when I was in a dark place. I’m never on it when I’m happy and content. Oddly enough, that same emotion could lead someone to settling for crumbs when they deserve a whole steak. Don’t go online dating. If you’re hurting, get a therapist. Serve God. Get healthy and exercise. Travel. Make friends and hang out with them. Work out. Help non profits. Dont go

[scoobym]

Watched a criminal psychologist who spoke on this matter. She said that the serial criminals (scammer, rapists) and killers she has interviewed and worked with say they love the internet and these dating apps are a blessing. Both have made 'hunting' so much easier and accessible. Scary!!!

[OctaviaMonique]

This is the playground for narcissists! I know I’ve been on them for 10+ years and I have met some pretty broken damaged men. They never appear this way, they were well dressed even spoke well. But they were devils in sheep’s clothing.

[TheIvyLeagueOf]

This video was insightful. I actually met my now husband on a dating app in 2016, and fortunately we knew each other from 15 years prior from the military/high school. I was on an app for three weeks, and avoided the foolishness and some of the things you’re discussing. I was just blessed to get in and get out of the online dating game, we are still married, both doing very well, and have a little princess who’s 4 now!!!! Thank you for a great video though, and I’m on the video because I’m a follower of yours and you present great dialogue.

[dorothymatthews]

Yes Tony! Those dating apps are the worst. I've met some strange people years ago on those apps. Mist of them are real loosers.. God told me to not meet people there so I stopped. Glad I did after listening to your introduction. You are on point!

[bibilym]

Tony’s right. A lot of guys I’ve met on these apps can be socially awkward and seem to lack healthy confidence. Not making fun of them or anything, but that’s not what I want in a partner.