What Do You Actually Want? | With Dr. John Delony

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Dr. Jordan B. Peterson and Dr. John Delony discuss the the difference between seeing what we want as an end goal rather than as a mode of being.

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[ericrollings]

I appreciate a man that can calm you when anxious and punch you in the face when you’re out of line. That is you Mr. JP!

[elektrotehnik]

Identify what kind of a person you want to be, and then try to be that kind of a person.
You can have "what you want" goals, but make sure "who you want to be" is more important than "what you want". ❤

[unbrokenspine]

I think the highest value I can find is peace of conscience. Jordan mentions this often, and I agree with him. To be able to say that I did my best before I died and I have no regrets. To be able to live without violating my own uniqueness, without violating the uniqueness of others.

[MrJamesC]

The film "soul" shows very well that we are not happy forever when we realize our dream. We have to look for the next mountain and climb it.

[AnonYouMust]

Pay attention, you get back and .... your determination will get you thru the discomfort . TRUTH & gratitude Dr. Peterson, thank you!

[eonryan]

7:46

9:01 - most important goal to pursue

10:53

11:15 - flexible with goals

13:01 - who should I be

13:18 - good high order vision

14:52 - highest order goals should be an approach

[MW-bvwu]

His socks match his tie.
A) Cool!
B) I missed the last 5 minutes of content, staring at his socks.

[faboolean]

I always ask people what they want every single day…

The problem comes when their needs become unreasonable and then I have to politely remind them that they are currently in a Wendy’s

[calebdoner]

Our goal needs to be a personal identity, not a set of external circumstances. I have chased external circumstances more than I would like to admit. It is dominated by a feeling of inadequacy before reaching the goal and lostness and lethargy after. When the goal is an identity of a man who approaches problems with courage, vigor, and truth, then the external circumstances fade in importance.

[Razear]

I feel like a lot of the common goals that people impose on themselves aren't things that they truly desire but are rather expectations of what others want for them or what the person thinks success looks like. It's like the kid who spent his entire life chasing a particular careerpath because they thought it would make their parents proud when in reality they walk into work every day being miserable despite thinking that it was what they wanted.

[dianeavery]

Mr Peterson. I really enjoy listening to your outlook on many subjects. You sir have an amazing brilliant mind. I want to thank you for letting the public listen to you point of view. God has truly given you an amazing thought provoking mind. God bless you and your family.

[danniseliger]

Obfuscating your goals and dreams is a really good way to put it. JP makes it sound like this is something conscious though, like it is something you can choose to not do. But you can't. When you're in the fog you're in the fog. He does in the end give a useful suggestion on how you get out - I really really like his suggetion of focusing on the highest goal - making yourself the person who takes on the challenges of life is a superb goal, and one that will make the subordinate goals fall into place much easier.

One of the greatest JP clips - and that's saying something.

Thank you JP

a sub well earned

[paulsaulpaul]

I want us all to stop thinking we are insignificant in this universe. Because it is used to shirk responsibility for pain caused to others. We are nodes in a network, and the influence we have the potential to have on the entire network is equal among us all and not reserved only for the loudest among us. I weep when I consider how my actions have affected so many tens of thousands of people in some way that no one but God is even aware of.

Technically, every breath I exhale affects everyone in the world to some degree, like the "butterfly effect". I'll call it The Flatus Effect.

The sense of scale is overwhelming when you realize how significant your potential is, for good or evil, in this universe. This is why Jordan weeps when he is told by you or me of how he has impacted our lives in such an incredible way. The sense of scale in his good works is overwhelming.

We all need to realize it works in the evil direction, too.

[thedigitalceo]

Perhaps asking everyone “What do you want?” Is not the right question. Vicktor Frankl author of “Man’s Search for Meaning” says it’s not what you want out of life; it’s what life wants out of you.

[l.w.paradis]

I can tell you how I felt after I bought the first new car of my life in my forties: FANTASTIC.

It was the first time money solved a problem: I bought a Volvo S80 AWD and felt perfectly safe driving, even surrounded by enormous SUVs. Now I know how much money matters -- _and so do you guys._

[mariagarced]

Pescador de Hombres, thank you so much. I want to save as many lives as possible, by reminding them that they are here because they are loved. I struggle often. But, I am very, very grateful to be alive, and for the people in my life. I'm glad you're alive, now, while I am also. I am very blessed. I want to meet you one day. You are very special, as I am. The Advocate is with us, ALWAYS. The Gates of Hades shall not prevail. Gracias! Te amo!

[thegreenphantom]

It's all about prioritizing, motivation and set goals there's what you want (positive/negative), what you need (positive/negative) and what you get based on your priorities, motivation and goals.

[Jamy]

Don't make the finish line the goal. Enjoy the journey. 💜

[SoloMotivation]

*_Let's add this to our taught today!_*

We should avoid hasty conclusion because of what somebody says about someone else. Don't be fooled by the illusion of wealth. Big houses, fancy cars, and designer clothes are not wealth. It's most likely debt. Wealth is freedom, 0ptions time & health. Appreciate where you’re in your journey. Even if it's not where you want to be. Every season serves a purpose. Never stop doing your best. Just because someone doesn't give you credit. When you’re weak, pray to God. When u re worried, pray 2 God. When you’re stressed, pray to God. When you are hopeless pray to God. God will put you where he wants you. Even if no one thinks you deserve the position. Your positive action combined with positive thinking results in success.
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[Cinderella]

Thank you Jordan. Luv ya to pieces. God bless. Helping others is the greatest feeling along with loving others more than yourself. ✝️❤️