Proof the Narcissist is a Bully

[Kris_Reece]

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[kimparke]

Bystanders are the reason bullies keep being a bully.

[adamroth]

The covert ones are the worst. There is something demonic about their bullying especially amongst their children whom they have been bullying their entire life and when the one child who wakes up to this and sees them for who they are will be the scapegoat. It’s truly disgusting and they ruin their own child’s life. 😢

[Clevelandsteamer]

Toxic people often don’t see you as a person. They know you’re a person cognitively… but don’t see you as a human being with a soul and feelings

[Freethnkr]

They also confuse being respected with being controlling! My ex thought that by controlling everyone in the house, he was somehow getting his due respect, but it wasn't respect it was fear.

[PrettyMamaPatchwork]

Yes. I'm assertive and my sister can't handle it, so now since she can't control me, she's trying to control how people see me.

[laurie]

Amen Amen Amen !! Yes, this is a bully exactly ! I don’t even think I’m ‘ assertive ‘ but when THE biggest bully in my life can’t get me to see his way he always plays victim, moves to slandering and retaliation; all for just having a different opinion . You explained this well Kris . 👏

[Psalm_DominiRican]

Today, I held my ground when I was rudely cut off from a conversation with another member at church by my super toxic MIL (she has a lot of covert narcissistic traits and I suspect she is). She began to speak over me and tried to take over the direction of the convo, but I moved in towards the lady and went back in to speaking with her and maintained my composure. I noticed my MIL look over at me and backed off, and the lady looked at me sort of bewildered but continued our conversation.

My MIL has always had a habit of cutting me off or pushing me off to the side and me just melting into the background.
But I say no more to the enemy having his way with me, “Not today Satan!” 😂

Your teachings have taught me so much, thank you Kris Reece and thank you Lord for her ministry ❤

[eetadakimasu]

Thank you, this was helpful, I was always shamed for being assertive, this is really helpful and makes me feel less like a jerk for wanting to talk things through and try to understand others points of view

[BadmnrRising]

Yup.
They do t like when u speak up or stand up for yourself

[saturdayschild]

So well said. I’ve tried to explain this to others for many years. A fair argument or disagreement is one where both people leave it with their dignity intact.

[suzismith]

Amen. It's time to call them by their fruits

[ruthparks]

Amen I have been dealing with one of these people for the past five years and although I broke up with him three years ago I have had to deal with stalking and all sorts of crap.
Before meeting him I was really righteous and no, my heart hasn't changed but
Well, it HAS changed me.

I would appreciate any prayer anyone
throws up.
It has been an epic battle between good and evil.

[claudiacordoba]

Assertive people are often mislabeled in secret by passive agressive people 😮

[PamillaYoung-Dookie]

Oh my God!! I have to deal with a Toxic person who always HAVE TO HAVE THEIR WAY OR NO WAY!!

[Keri]

Amen. Please pray God will deliver me from my marriage. This is him.

[VannaWhiite]

I was told I was abrasive and argumentative from childhood by my mother and majority of the women on both sides of my family all because I spoke my mind and let people know what I thought. I am thankful that I never let those words stop me from being that way. I was not being aggressive or argumentative at all, I was just making my feelings known, even though they were not taken into account.

[chrisb]

My husband who I now know has NPD (2 therapists called him out on it but of course he believes nothing is wrong with him) would call me “belligerent” because I’m assertive and I called his BS as I saw it. He didn’t like it at all so he reversed the narrative and painted me as having “rage issues” even though he was the one raging to escalate punishing me.
I am filing for divorce.

[juanderuano]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[Lavenderrose]

I need to keep that in mind when I'm dealing with rude people so that I don't cross that line between assertive and aggressive. I'm not going to shame someone who didn't know that a video was mostly ai, but I'm definitely going to have something to say to someone who does shame that person!