My love language is physical touch but my wife's isn't- WHAT DO I DO?

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If your wife is not as physical as you, this will help you understand what to do to solve your personal needs. Watch this video if you need to feel love through physical touch.

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[waynelitchkowski]

Give her all the space she needs in the form of a divorce.

[bookerfleming]

Yea so if your spouse doesnt give you enough physical touch you may not have enough self care or just hug your kids more....wth??? I dont think i need ton
watch anymore of this video

[magnet]

If your love language is physical touch and your girl is not just leave her bro this is the only solution hopefully you can find a girl like you her love language is physical touch

[MayJenn]

Sex has nothing to do with physical touch love language.

[abigail]

If love languages dont match in a relationship leave it. I dated someone whos love language wasnt physical touch and he alwayd hated when i touched him abd he didnt give me the touch i needed. We broke up and hes still a great friend. Im now dating someone who has the same love language and ive never felt so genuinely loved in my life.

[welderlife]

this is bad advice...if you enjoy physical love and want it and need it, its because it's validation that your partner loves you and desires you just as much, and if you want that and need it because it feels good and you're not receiving it, you will never feel loved no matter how much stuff you find to do, you will always question whether they love you or not..those are facts...and to say you need to find out why you need this and work on it is bad advice...because all you do it rack your brain when you keep asking yourself "why wont they touch me or initiate touch with me?", or if you are always doing it and they never do. also, it really sucks when they love touch and you constantly do it, whether asked or not, but they never do it back, they want to receive it but never give it. your relationship starts to feel very one sided ...there is more to this than "find something to do", that makes it worse, especially when you feel unloved or have an anxious attachment style.

[lassydlassy]

If your love language is physical touch and hers is not the whole point of being in love in a relationship is doing for your partner what makes them feel happy so she needs to be more physical while you need to attend to her love spectrum.

As for the part where she talks about insecurity if you’re not getting the love in your language you will feel insecure in the relationship. It could very well be your in a relationship that one party is not as much in love.

[geno]

Stephanie I just found you’re channel and I’am so thankful I did!! I met my wife 33 years ago. Now we’ve been married over 31 years? I’m very affectionate and always was with my wife! Holding her kissing her . Coming behind her Trying to show my wife how much I love her? And how beautiful she is! I tell her all the time how much i love her beautiful curves? I just don’t feel and haven’t felt that strong love or sexual affection from my wife for a long time now!! I I’m the kind of man I need love ! I I need that touch that I haven’t had for a long time!? To feel loved ! Thank you 🙏 for your help!!

[GoofyAhhMods]

I known my girlfriend for 8 months and we have been dating a week. I just want love and affection not just sex but she hates cuddles and thats what I want. She doesn't like it because shes a rape victim but i feel that I need love because I recently lost my dad to cancer.

[heyitsbrad_usa]

Dang yeah I’m embarrassed to admit it but sometimes it’s absolutely insecurity. Absolutely a validation, a reassurance. I’ve been trying to be more thoughtful about my morning hygiene regimen and now that you mention that kind of self care, I think that’s been working. Picking a conditioner with intention. Using a facial toner. Following the instructions on the hair goo. Buying nicer razors. Trying to eat less butter and carbs. May seem silly but I think it’s helping me feel loved.

[flyguys]

SO LET ME GET THIS STRAIGHT, BECAUSE MY LOVE LANGUAGE IS PHYSICAL TOUCH THEN IF I AM NOT GETTING IT THEN ITS MY FAULT BECAUSE IM INSECURE?

[Dad_land]

You did a great job in defining some of the scenarios and feelings that people can have in these situations. Great job!
But, Every time I search for advice or counseling on how to get my wife to be more loving or responsive towards me and give service to my love languages, I find advice on how I (the man) should act differently.
Why don't people ever advise the women to treat their men better instead of always advising the men to treat the wives better?

[zacharytruex]

When my wife and i met, i had to beat her off of me, not sexually, but just the touchy cuddly type of stuff, i loved it, because i never got alot of it as a kid, 9 years later, she hardly does that now, and its my love language. I tried this morning to love up on her and it was like she was uncomfortable and didnt care, so i just moved to the other couch, and instead of chasing me over there, she just let me go, its been like this for awhile now, its super depressing. Feels like she is cheating on me even though i dont think she would ever do that, but i dont know how to handle the situation after telling her previously how i felt, its like she forces it for awhile, and then quits.

[docbradleydc]

If you knowingly withold your partner's needs, you are not being a good partner. My wife's love language is acts of service. How much insecurity and tension would it create if everytime she asked me to do something around the house I said, I'm uncomfortable with that? What about if I literally never showed the ambition to do something I know she needs without her telling me first? It seems like physical touch is treated somehow different and it shouldn't be.

[discorabbit]

Its always acts of service and quality time for women. For men it’s always touch and words of affirmation.

[jdb]

This is tricky because my love language used to be physical touch and people would complain about my touchiness, not that I was being touchy either. I was told all the time to respect people's preferences of not wanting to be touched. Which I did. But they didn't respect my preference of not wanting to serve others or do things for others. Which is weird. Like, as a former physical touch person I was the only one to adjust.

So I prayed and meditated and told myself that I hated touch. I drilled it into my brain. And finally, 5 years later I'm not the most keen on touch anymore. And I'm glad I escaped that love language because it was such a curse to me.

[ContrarianExpatriate]

Dump any girl who does not give you enough physical affection or meets your touch needs. Life is too short!

[Bryan]

Physical touch is definitely a huge part of my love language. There's little more awkward than being in a relationship with someone for whom that isn't the case, although some people are able to adapt. About two years ago I dated a girl who generally isn't a very touchy person but she was able to adapt where I was concerned without it feeling to me as though she was trying too hard to force herself.

[MysticalRainbowKaci]

What do we do if we DO act like this and have these issues in a self conscious /insecure way?? It also feels unfair to specifically let your partner know you are struggling feeling unwanted after a particularly triggering night, and then despite specifically asking for reassurance, him being tired and rolling over. I'm not sure what to fight for and what is real or insecurity issues in my mind.

[steaksandwiches]

I don’t think women understand that touch doesn’t mean sex. It’s a hug or a shoulder rub or something.