The Devastating Effects of Parental Alienation

Parental alienation. How to recognize the signs you are being alienated. In today's video I share 4 signs you are being alienated and to disastrous long term effects this will have on the children.

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Hi, I'm Kenny 👋

I specialize in helping you heal from emotional hurt so you can elevate your life by helping you get comfortable with feeling uncomfortable.

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[AyeYoZay]

I just had a conversation with my dad and it turns out my mom has been lying about him for a long time. I’m just happy because though he was distraught to find out, he didn’t lose it or overtly defend himself. Even acknowledged that yea he did make mistakes. It’s nice to know I do have one parent who is able of change and can accept their own faults. It also showed me the real difference between an empathetic parent and one that isn’t. It sickens me seeing how my mom can walk around happy knowing that she lied to her child with some serious accusations. Frankly though after the conversation I feel alot more comfortable just being me. And alot more comfortable with the idea of letting her go.

[kendalljoshua]

Just hearing you tell your story heals my soul. I live with my parents but am moving out soon. On an objective level I truly do appreciate things they've done for me and can say that now being healed and accountable. I have witnessed their intense toxicity towards each other early on in life and the bad-mouthing, criticism, screaming matches, borderline physical altercations, one complaining to me about the other all trickled down to me. I became mentally paralyzed as a child and a teenager. I never internalize anything they say anymore. I am completely psychologically detached from them even when in their presence and simply enjoy life for what it is. I no longer experience dead-end situations of the worst-day cycle from those childhood experiences. My life has skyrocketed career/financial wise and overall well being ever since leaving that hurt child in the past. God bless you all.

[empathicone]

I wish I would have known about the ins and out of P.A. before it got out of hand.
It's like fighting a ghost when you can't figure out what is happening.

[jackiemaben]

I’m the alienated parent, going on 16 years of no contact with my son. Your video really resonated. It gave me insight that I’ve never had before as to why his dad did this and why my son reacted the way he did. Although it is painful to lose him and realize the damage done to him, you give me hope that I can nevertheless live emotionally healthy. Thank you for turning your pain into purpose.

[uyoebyik]

Alienators do horrible things like tell a small child that the other parent broke their heart. A two year doesn't understand and thinks you committed horrific violence against the alienating parent

[cellosong]

I so admire your humility, honesty and courage. Thank you for being you. I'm so sorry for what you went through as a parent. It is heartbreaking - for you and your children.

[kristihutter]

Kenny, thank you for your videos. There is hope, 3 years ago my son was hitting, kicking and throwing things at me, my friends told me to walk away, but I knew my son was doing what he thought what his father wanted and deep down there was hope. For Valentines Day my son gave me a chocolate rose, I have shared custody, and we have a wonderful time together. Don't give up and don't reduce yourself to the narcissist's level...

[prismbrandingrealestatebra]

Please keep up the free content, I have been to therapy since childhood and your expertise is quite good and researched based.

[meghannhenley]

Truth truth truth. Their truth. They give them so much info and half of it’s false and it breaks my heart. Kids can’t bear all that! Let them be children. If I’d seen this 7 years ago I’d saved myself from partaking in the abuse, I was young and was trying to defend myself! I wish I could go back and change that. I can’t now I know thanks to your videos. Since I’ve been watching these. My sons have came around they wave now. When no one is looking they snuck and told me they mis me and wanna come home and they are sorry she acts like that. I told them they don’t worry about any of that just be a kid!

[aboomalacani]

What gets me is that my now 24 year old daughter knows that her mother and grandmother manipulated her to be against me yet, despite that knowledge, she says that she STILL "can't" have a relationship with me. That was 4 years ago.

We were very close from her birth up until age 13. After that, from 14 to 20 she was nothing more than an extension of her mother, disguised as my once loving daughter. It was a dream turned nightmare.

[great-white-buffalo]

WOW Kenny! This video has awakened me after 30 years of abuse and alienation from my ex wife and opened up a clear channel of understanding on EVERYTHING 🤯

[olive]

Every word you have said is so true, living this exact nightmare for 4 years, have 3 beautiful daughters & unfortunately not by choice I had to acknowledge the power he over me & how badly he was had disturbing them. Broke me when he took my daughters to court especially on her birthday to give false evidence. I then seen I had no choice the more I tried the more they got disturbed. It’s all games to them & I refuse to let my daughters engage in this. I live in hope & I know they will be back. I was weak from beginning of relationship, now I’m building a stronger me for the sake of my daughters.

[birdboy]

I am going through this right now I am 60 years old, never had kids. I've been living with a covert narcissist for 10 years and trying to get her out of my house now. She is doing this to me with our four-year-old grandchild which I love like a son. It's breaking my heart. He's with us most of the time. I'm so sorry you had to go through this Kenny. I am not even his biological grandfather but it hurts so much, I would do anything for this little boy. I want to be in his life even if I'm not with his grandmother anymore. The 4 year olds mother said I can stay in his life no matter what happens between her mother and me. I just want what's best for him and for him to be safe and happy. Just thinking about not having him in my life break down in tears

[uyoebyik]

It was done to me and I had her weekdays while he had her for the weekends. He badmouthed me consistently from the time she was a toddler

[panthira]

Death can be a consequence of parental alienation, leaving a parent so distraught and hurt, everything in that parent's life suffers.

[broGabiza]

This is a very good explanation of parental alienation. Yes, I am going through this and living it. Just two weeks ago, my own son called the cops on me and then decides he doesn't want to see me or stay with me anymore 😮. He was getting into some serious problems and was disciplining him. Cops came but did not arrest me as they agreed that he needed disciplining.

[sefly]

I have watched this video and one you did on this subject. Thank you for this content! This is very close to my situation. I am currently going through the early stages of my divorce. I just worry that I will not have the mental strength to follow through. I want to be that safe dad for my kids, but my soon to be ex wife, still triggers and abuses me regularly. I’ve been in therapy for 8 months and both my kids are in therapy (thank god). I just don’t want my kids to be screwed as adults as I am from my Narc father.

[andrebarbosa]

Yeah my mom vented a lot of her frustration with relationships, men etc. in my presence, especially when I did something wrong or broke something. It really fucked me up. I pretty much can't relate to people and think I'm not worth their affection etc. I felt like an imposter my whole life and have ended up exactly where I feared I would be as a child; alone and in poverty at 50.

[esthergeorge]

Kenny, I just found you on here and I am watching some of your videos and I could not agree with you now if you would’ve asked me 10 years ago, I could’ve not of said that because I would’ve said you don’t know what I’ve been through. you don’t know the pain that they have caused, but I sit here today and tell you that even though I am navigating some relationship with my children, I have to myself and understand and love myself more than I could’ve ever thought of. Had I not been through some of the things I have so it actually is a blessing.

[Christisgrace]

My father did this to my mother all the time during my whole childhood.
He was jealous of the love and the bond I have with my mother.
He was constantly trying to make me choose between them.
He even invited me for dinner, when I was around 12 years old, just to talk bad about my mother and when I tried to defend her, he got mad at me. This was very traumatic for me.
I didn't feel seen or valued at all.
As a child I often ended up crying and begging him to stop talking about her like that. He would say that she desvered the cancer that almost killed her and that she has no empathy. That she wanted to have me aborted but he made her keep me etc.
My mother is a very kind and loving woman who was very codependent in their relationship.
I know both my father and mother had a lot of issues, but I love them both any way. I sometimes just wish that my father would love me back the same way... but I know I can never expect that.... and that is a loss I have to grieve my whole life, I think.
I also grieve for my mother a lot, who has been hurt so much....
I feel bad for them both for all the hurt they have been through....
I just wish we could all heal...