what say after you yell at your kids

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I was reading Good Inside and it talked about the power of repair.

We all are going to do or say something to our kids that we regret, BUT when this happen, make sure you apologize and REPAIR your relationship with your child.

✅ when you apologize you are repairing your relationship with you child.
✅ When you apologize you are also modeling to your child what to do when they make mistakes
✅ When you apologize your child can relate more with you, because it means that you makes mistakes just like they do!
✅ When you apologize they learn that it’s ok to make mistakes but it is important that we learn from them!

💕When you apologize:
* Don’t mention what they did wrong to cause you to yell (that’s not an apology, that’s justification)
* Name your feeling and validate it, yes, just like you validate their feelings, you are also free to feel angry, sad or frustrating!
* what is not always ok is what you DO when you feel angry
* Find solutions: an apology is an apology only if you try to find solutions!

✅ This is a simple example of an apology
✅ Never is too early or too late to do this
✅ Apologize and find solutions so this doesn’t happen again or it happens less often
✅ You can brainstorm solutions with your kids, “can you think in something I can do?”
✅ Role play the solutions with your child

✍️ Please comment below if you have found any solutions, I bet you can help a lot of moms!!

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If parents actualy said this then happy Kids 📈📈