let them go.

[Psychgo]

Many empowering message Kristine! Thanks for the mention as well! The part about "If you want to attract a certain type of people, you have to first embody those traits yourself." Couldn't agreed more. I think that's one of the main reasons sometimes it's hard to find the one we are looking for because we ourselves too are not sure of who we are. Thank you for making this video :D

[Waryfuls]

"It's time to stop over analyzing, and accept their behaviour for what it is" *write that down!!!!* 🗣🗣

[Ricespiceminusthespice]

Something is so comforting of just hearing a person talk genuinely

[butterskiies]

“If liking someone is causing you more pain than joy, it’s time to step back.” that hit really hard. The amount of energy and time I invested into my lover who ended things suddenly, and they still want to be friends. It’s a painful dynamic, I feel so hopeless. Falling out of love is harder than falling in.

[joshuamagpantay]

Letting go is not about giving up, but about accepting that some things are meant to be free. It’s a sign of strength, not weakness, to release what no longer serves you, making space for new growth and possibilities

[TheTravellingCritic-kekh]

Probably one of the healthiest pieces of advice I have heard for some time now. Not a single time mentioned the expressions "toxic", "alpha", "sigma", "high quality" or "red flag". Instead, the video focuses on understanding each other, healing potential emotional traumata, self-improvement, personal growth, and letting the right people for you enter into your life. We need more of that.

[banannannanna]

just ended my first relationship few days ago, she didn’t reciprocate my feelings by the end of it due to her personal issues and previous relationships. I accepted her request and we decided to not talk anymore, but since then still the pain lingers. I really needed this video, thanks a lot

[federicocherchi]

"the people meant for you will find their way naturally into your life". This is so right. We need to stop chasing and forcing relationship, but focus on building our own self, because only after doing that you will be able to truly love someone. And people love seeing someone who takes care of themselves, and are naturally attracted to that person. Aligning with your values and growing with them naturally makes you whole. Self love isn't selfish, quite the opposite. It allows you to love others authentically. Letting go isn't a goodbye, it may be just a see you later. <3

[darrenlucas]

"It's time to stop over analyzing and accept their behavior for what it is" I needed to hear that

[tinolangbuticakes]

I've gone through a lot in 2024. A situationship AND a friendship ended and it took a toll on my mental health and even to this day, the wound is still fresh. But what you said about meeting new people is very true. I joined organizations in my university to take my mind off of things and it really helped me as I got to meet and build new relationships with other people.

This video validated my feelings. I kept on blaming myself for what happened when in fact I was the communicator who wanted to fix things but even after reaching out, nothing changed. So I let them go. Thank you for saying it's okay to let things/people go and that it's for the better.

[dzzzzzt]

Reciprocated feelings. It took me half a lifetime to learn that this is the most important sign for whether or not to invest time and energy into someone. Mutual attraction and desire to be together. That's it.

[jonbui]

I needed to hear this. I’m stuck in a cycle of meeting someone, not being honest with my feelings, and then getting friend zoned. Chasing people who don’t want you is it’s own special kind of hell

[Shivertruco]

If their actions do not change, please do a mental check out of that relationship asap.

I was once stuck in a relationship where I promised my then girlfriend to go with her to her home country. Long story short, I told her I needed her to commit to a plan because international travel is way too expensive for a college student with only an internship as a source of income (I was working and taking college classes around 12 hours a day + commute + study time), and she assured me that everything was going to be fine. I trusted her, so I bought my plane ticket and booked my stay a month before the trip.

After my little “commitment speech” I expected her to be more emotionally responsible, but to my surprise she became even more evasive. At that point, I had a gut feeling that the end was near.

Literally 10 days before the trip, she dumped me and I was forced to go to Japan on my own (my bookings were unable to get cancelled).

Moral of this story: if you feel under appreciated or feel like there is not reciprocal effort in a relationship, please remember that you are worth a ton and you don’t deserve any amount of suffering. No girl or guy is worth killing or dying for.

[SoftOceanBreeze]

I needed this today, also want to add, there's scientific research which shows that indeed we ARE initially attracted to appearances because of biological instincts. HOWEVER, the thing that actually triggers the "butterflies" feeling, where your heart sinks and you have a "crush" that kind of stuff, it has A LOT to do with mannerisms and behaviors, just the WAY someone is, how they carry themselves, it goes beyond appearance, the way someone acts, their human behavior, personality, that's what REALLY attracts people, I notice the women I get feelings for all have certain behavioral tendencies in common, there's a mysterious balance of being chill/serious yet also being goofy/unafraid to be weird, and a tad over dramatic ((just a bit like a movie or anime)), and I think the reason why I'm attracted to that is because I'm also REALLY goofy/weird, yet serious and relaxed at the same time, and a bit over dramatic.... like truly does attract like 🤣 some people think relationships are some absurdly complex thing, but I actually think it's one of the simplest things, and other people MAKE IT COMPLICATED, if more people learn the simple concept of "I like them, they like me, we get along well, we're mutually attracted to each other, we have an understanding" and coexist side by side as a team/push each other to grow/expand, the easier it will be for EVERYONE to find the love they deserve. I could be wrong, I'm wrong all the time, but sometimes when I throw darts, they hit the center target :) does this hit a bullseye? or did I just throw darts into the wall? Lmao

[muchachoavila]

I love her, I love my best friend.

I want to heal her wounds, be there for her, tell her things will be ok, tell her she'll be fine, make her feel I'm there.

I don't even know what's this that im feeling, I don't want this, I dont want to love a cactus.

I don't deserve to be there for someone who doesn't care of losing me, who doesn't care how i feel, this is weird.

I'mma miss her so much.

[romain]

when i was 22 i was with a girl, she was perfect at the time and still is. We broke up and i admit thats it was entirely my fault . 2 years later im now 24, i saw other girls during these 2 years but i never found the same connection i had with her. I know i have to let her go but its hard to do that when she's the last thing in my mind when i go to bed alone

[csmparty]

You don’t know how badly I needed this as I was trying to get over someone who was so obviously bad for me. Thank you so much.

[mikeoxlong]

hey thank you so much with your message tbh my gf broke up with me a month ago and I haven’t seen any progress with myself healing I thought we were forever and ever but she had other plans Its been really hard for me to move on with this and I feel like I have major trust issues coming out of this relationship because I felt lied to and abandoned in the relationship so this video really helps thank you!

[laris.scenepacks]

0:22 I tapped on this video because I'm struggling with leaving a friendship behind, and this video mostly speaks for romantic relationships. However, this one line... It explains a lot and it's helping. Thank you

[alyssbabyy]

to know i’m not alone comforts me, may we all attract what we deserve in our life