STOP ACCEPTING THE 'I'VE BEEN BUSY' EXCUSE!

[YPM]

“ *Nobody is busier than a man that doesn’t want you* .”
Ladies don’t tolerate the “I was busy” excuse because if you really are a priority they will make time for you. My ex did that and I did him a favour and walked away from him, changed my number and block and delete on social media . Life is too short to chase after someone who doesn’t want you.

[simone-faithmorefaith]

Everyone finds time for what or who they're interested in.

No time for you, means absolutely no interest in you.

[CristinaDavalos]

I've learned this the hard way...Never make someone a priority that would consider you an option.

[candygirl]

I've been busy is always a red flag. Men make time for what and who is important to them. Don't ever accept that excuse ladies. When a man is truly busy he'll alert you to what's going on in his life then set a firm date to see you in the very near future. Not go ghost then say oh I've been busy.

[staceychance]

Exactly 🙄 they spend time on what they want.

[alfieb]

Like I always say I have to be a priority and not an option.

[nikkid]

I dealt with this... Then as soon as I fell back, he reeled me back in... Just long enough to get my attention... This went on 3-4 times before I realized I was sick & tired of being sick & tired...

[cierrabear]

This was a wake up call...tired of being a convenience and not a priority, thankyou

[kelliowens]

When it comes to the "I've been busy" bs, I just walk away. As far as I'm concerned, he can stay busy with the ones who have been keeping him busy. I no longer care and really DON'T want to hear it.

[kristylanae]

A lot of guys think if they text you constantly, thats enough. Why do I have to feel like I am in a long-distance relationship when we live in the same town?? I dont need a texting buddy, I need your physical presence in my life! Just because you are steady texting me does not mean that I don't realize I am not a priority.

[reverendmary-catherineryan]

Exactly! If a guy can't spend 5 seconds to text " Hi, how are you? I'm thinking about you." Then move on. I found this out after hearing " I'm busy ", " I've been busy", I've been sick", " I'm going to bed, got early day", all while saying how much he loved me, but his lying ass had time to be on Facebook making posts calling other women sexy. That was a " See ya!" moment.

[crystalcourtney]

💯!! Guys will stalk the ones they want!

[WorldOfARandomVegan]

"You're not a priority to him, you're just a convenience." Damn. On point!

[lightnbubbly]

When they stop making you a priority and their communication habits with you change he has already checked out of the relationship.

[alwaysheleena]

When a man is "too busy" I become even more "busy" to be too busy to even notice his absence, then he comes with the "Hey stranger" ✋ I'm too busy for the b.s.😂 gtfoh

[jesusislord]

Treat me like a joke and I drop u like it's funny

[AwakenenedMeLi]

You are 100 percent on point !!! Most men I find are not really seeking a relationship they want benefits .... I wish that they would just speak their truth in the beginning ...

[k]

Relationships sound too difficult to handle. My introvert ass is just gonna stay single lol.

[Nelley_Nell_]

“Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.” ~ Mark Twain.

[kitten]

Omg this is so true! And when you call them out on this mess they pretend that you don’t know what you’re talking about or you’re not being understanding to their schedule. The best thing to do is when you see this from a guy is to just run 🏃🏽‍♀️in the other direction because he’s wasting your precious time.